Gosh - it's been forever since I've visited my Journal page. After concentrating so heavily on my condition for what seemed like an eternity, some time away ...Read more
Gosh - it's been forever since I've visited my Journal page. After concentrating so heavily on my condition for what seemed like an eternity, some time away was definitely needed to get back to "normal" - whatever that means. My heart surgery will forever be a part of my life and although the check ins may be fewer and farther between, I hope to be a bit more consistent. I'm happy to report that almost 2 years later (1 year, almost 11 months right now), I'm doing great. I've also made the most of my second chance at life. I got married a year ago this month and just welcomed our daughter to the family this March. I joined a high intensity interval training group (though I don't push it too hard), which has helped me get more fit. All in all, as I'm pushing into my 40s later this year, I've accomplished a lot since heart surgery. I hope all of you the best as well and remember, life does go on! You got this!
Jeanette Davidson I remember you Joe! So happy you are doing so well. All the best to you💕
Happy 3 month anniversary to me!! It's been awhile HVJ site, but I'm glad to come back and see the same positive but honest encouragement on the site that ...Read more
Happy 3 month anniversary to me!! It's been awhile HVJ site, but I'm glad to come back and see the same positive but honest encouragement on the site that helped me out so much a few months ago. Of course, I've got a question. I went through cardiac rehab (graduate on Friday). They tell me I get up to at least 6 METs but I don't feel like I'm particularly pushing myself (i.e., haven't run, only walked, always told to keep to lower impact to stay in heart rate range, etc.). I have a vball tournament in about a month and I want to make sure I can do more. Wondering if cardiac therapy was similar for any other people around my age (late 30s)? Did it push you hard enough to really figure out what you could handle? Thanks!
Rita Savelis Congrats on 3 months Joe. A volleyball tournament sounds pretty intense to me. I think it's early to ... Read more
Rita Savelis Congrats on 3 months Joe. A volleyball tournament sounds pretty intense to me. I think it's early to be pushing yourself. But I do understand wanting to be normal and back to your old self....
I'm about 8 weeks out from BAV repair and aortic root remodeling to remove an aneurysm. In cardiac rehab for a week and a half, but it's fairly low impact ...Read more
I'm about 8 weeks out from BAV repair and aortic root remodeling to remove an aneurysm. In cardiac rehab for a week and a half, but it's fairly low impact (I get scolded that I push too hard on the machines). I don't feel perfect, but I feel pretty good. I haven't really pushed myself to do anything all that strenuous. Before this whole ordeal, I was playing Vball a few nights a week and traveling one weekend a month to play all day tournaments. Anyone have any advice as to when they felt like they could get back to something like a Vball tournament or more strenuous activities than just walking? I'm no super athlete and don't want to relapse, so I've been pretty conservative with activity (and lazy =). Any perspective would help. Thanks!
Gerald Schaffer Can't help you with your question about returning to sport but I wouldn't rush it.
Did your voice ev ... Read more
Gerald Schaffer Can't help you with your question about returning to sport but I wouldn't rush it.
Did your voice ever return to normal?
W. Carter I wouldn't rush it. Try about 3 mo. or whenever you can jog 3 miles at about 10 minute per mile pace ... Read more
W. Carter I wouldn't rush it. Try about 3 mo. or whenever you can jog 3 miles at about 10 minute per mile pace comfortably. Thats about the level of condition you will need to be in to play vball.
Tammy Pilcher Joe, I was also wondering if your voice came back? I hope so! I can't give any advice about volleyb ... Read more
Tammy Pilcher Joe, I was also wondering if your voice came back? I hope so! I can't give any advice about volleyball, but I'm sure there are some here that will be able to. My favorite outdoor activity is hiking and I recently did some day hikes in the mountains. I was 9 months post op and did fine. They were not near the difficulty I did before surgery, but I feel very encouraged that I'll be able to get back to that level soon. Prayers and best wishes!
Jeanette Davidson Joe~
I am so happy to hear you are doing well. I had similar questions and called my surgeon's medic ... Read more
Jeanette Davidson Joe~
I am so happy to hear you are doing well. I had similar questions and called my surgeon's medical assistant. She is in her 30s and had three open-heart surgeries. She encouraged me to not do any strength training or strenuous exercise for 3 to 5 months until my sternum is has completely healed. I got a fit bit and I'm going to stick with walking for now. Each doctor has their own guidelines. Volleyball sounds to me like a lot of upper body stretching. I would check with your Doc Take care heart brother ❤️
Mary K Hi Joe. We are at about the same recovery time from surgery. Cardiac Rehab is maddeningly slow. I wen ... Read more
Mary K Hi Joe. We are at about the same recovery time from surgery. Cardiac Rehab is maddeningly slow. I went though it before when in my fifties, when I was used to Rollerblading ten miles at a pop. What I leaned that time is that they have a method to their madness. Over twelve weeks they brought me up slowly and carefully to eight mets from one met (Met is a unit of exertion). Work hard but be patient. I ended up in good enough shape then to be climbing around in the Himalayas after I finished rehab. Not bad.
Joe __ Great stories and advice! @Mary K - I recently learned what a "met" was as well. I need to be at 8 ... Read more
Joe __ Great stories and advice! @Mary K - I recently learned what a "met" was as well. I need to be at 8 mets to play vball and jumped up to 4 "mets" in my first cardiac rehab week, so they think I should be fine by the end of it (right before vball). Surgeon took off all precautions for sternum after 3 months (Sept 15th). Tourney is Oct 24th, so I'm hoping that sweet spot of a little over 4 months will work.
Joe __ @Gerald/Tammy: Thanks so much for asking about my voice. I received an injection treatment awhile a ... Read more
Joe __ @Gerald/Tammy: Thanks so much for asking about my voice. I received an injection treatment awhile ago, which didn't work initially, but then suddenly restored my voice to near usual -- still gravely and shaky though. The hope is that my nerve will regenerate as the injection wears off so that my voice will be restored, though that may take up to a year. I'll find out then if I can speak or not. Nice eh? So frustrating to go through all this and just be slapped with another issue that shouldn't have happened but it is what it is. At least the temp injection doesn't make me sound like a Muppet anymore.
Tammy Pilcher Joe, I'm glad the injection helped and I pray the nerve will regenerate. I'm sure that has been very ... Read more
Tammy Pilcher Joe, I'm glad the injection helped and I pray the nerve will regenerate. I'm sure that has been very frustrating and something I never even thought about happening. I'm sorry you have to go through that on top of heart surgery. Prayers and best wishes for complete recovery. God bless!
I haven't been back since Day 18, about 2.5 weeks. Well, it's almost been another 2.5 weeks, making it my 5 week anniversary. woo-hoo. ; )
For those of ...Read more
I haven't been back since Day 18, about 2.5 weeks. Well, it's almost been another 2.5 weeks, making it my 5 week anniversary. woo-hoo. ; )
For those of you out there wondering what 5 weeks out is like, it's a good place. I still haven't done much because I just got the OK to drive, but not the OK for cardio rehab yet. I'm not nearly as tired anymore. If visitors drop by or we meet someone out, I get through it fine, I just sometimes sneak off and take a little break when I get back home. This might just be me being lazy though -- it's hard to tell. I haven't done these 5 mile walks some of you animals talk about -- but I've been able to get around and walk as far as I've wanted, considering there aren't really sidewalks near me. Haven't attempted to go back to my beloved Vball or really try to run anywhere. Coughing still hurts like a . . . , I can't imagine a kill coming right at my sternum would be a smart move at this point. Still not back at work - but I've had a major vocal cord complication from bruising to an associated nerve. That's been keeping me back a bit from getting into the swing of things. Eating, concentration, and all that good stuff are all working well. I pop a pain pill once in a while, but it's mostly just soreness that comes and goes and the sneeze/cough/laughing pain. Transitions in and out of bed aren't my favorite and I can only really sleep on my back or half my side. I can change the channel on the television extraordinarily well.
A few questions I have for those of you out there that have been where I am or raced past me:
1. When did people start cardio rehab? They're telling me 6-8 weeks after. Make sense?
2. My valve issue was a congenital and although they follow protocols and tell everyone to eat a heart healthy diet, my surgeon said it's a good idea for anyone, but no more or less for me. As I'd rather not develop another heart problem -- I figure now that I've done my bingefest after surgery to make sure I'm eating, I'll follow this cardiac diet. Anyone have any recs of books or sites that they've come across for info, meal ideas, etc.?
3. If anyone went back to a sport like Vball (which I played a few times a week before this whole ordeal) -- what did that timeline look like?
4. Of course, if anyone out there had a voice issue after surgery, I'm still looking for you. =)
That's my story for now. Hit me up here or on my guestbook if I can help any of you out with questions while you go through this. I've had bumps in the road, but a pretty positive experience and am amazed at where I am mentally and physically from where I thought I'd be at this point.
Happy Tuesday.
Joe
Jeanette Davidson Joe! It's so great to hear from you and I'm glad things are going well for you. It sounds like you' ... Read more
Jeanette Davidson Joe! It's so great to hear from you and I'm glad things are going well for you. It sounds like you're really honoring yourself and where you are in your recovery. Hope things get better with your voice !❤️
Tammy Pilcher Great news, Joe! So happy you're doing well and I hope the voice issue gets better, too! The only q ... Read more
Tammy Pilcher Great news, Joe! So happy you're doing well and I hope the voice issue gets better, too! The only question I've had any experience with is naturally the one involving food.:-) I haven't changed my diet. I try to make healthy choices just like before surgery, but I haven't completely given up any of the things I really like. I just practice moderation and try not to have certain things every week. Prayers for continued recovery. God bless you!
Jean Raber Joe, just speaking about #2 on your list: I cooked for my mom the first two weeks she was home. Her a ... Read more
Jean Raber Joe, just speaking about #2 on your list: I cooked for my mom the first two weeks she was home. Her appetite was so bad that I'd just google whatever sounded good to her and add "heart healthy" to the search, for example, "heart healthy macaroni and cheese." Then I'd print the recipe (in large print for her) and put it in a notebook.
These recipes were no harder to make than the regular ones. The trick was to check salt and fat contents on ingredients. I made some pretty good homemade pizza and chili when I located no-added-salt canned tomatoes. Spice it up and you don't miss the salt.
Because she was on coumadin, I had to stay away from dark green vegetables.
Bon apetit!
Rita Savelis It's still so very very early Joe.... Take it slow. No need to rush anything. Visitors, friends wore ... Read more
Rita Savelis It's still so very very early Joe.... Take it slow. No need to rush anything. Visitors, friends wore me out for months afterwards. I avoided them! I'm sorry about your voice, haven't heard of that complication. There are so many complications that can happen - I got an unexpected pacemaker, I had multiple drainings of my lung lining and still have fluid in there.... Surgeons usually look at the "success" of the surgery rather than all those glitches. As far as your cardiac diet goes, maybe you can wait till you feel better (6 months down the line) to do everything you're "supposed" to do. For now, just take it easy. There will be time to play V-ball in 2016...
Wiliam Height That sounds about right on rehab, you need to see your cardiologist for clearance and limited stress ... Read more
Wiliam Height That sounds about right on rehab, you need to see your cardiologist for clearance and limited stress test to establish baseline. I was already on a walking regime that was ahead of rehab at 8 weeks in fact I was cycling. Definitely try to eat better, you have a fresh start. I have always used balance but have given up caffeine since surgery--make a goal to stick to as a reminder of what you went through. I wouldn't see why you couldn't play ball just need the chest to heal before diving and spiking--my chest muscles have not come back yet almost 6 months after.
Mary K Hi Joe, I am coming up behind you at four and a half weeks, sounds like we are tracking along pretty ... Read more
Mary K Hi Joe, I am coming up behind you at four and a half weeks, sounds like we are tracking along pretty similarly. Sorry to hear about your vocal cord, hope it resolves soon.
http://my.clevelandclinic.org/services/heart/prevention/nutrition/healthy-diet a link for heart healthy diets.
So, I'm 2.5 weeks on the recovery road. I figured I'd share how I feel, what I do, and all that jazz in the event it helps out anyone else wondering about ...Read more
So, I'm 2.5 weeks on the recovery road. I figured I'd share how I feel, what I do, and all that jazz in the event it helps out anyone else wondering about recovery. This is only my story, but there are tons others on here too, so take it for what it's worth:
PAIN: I'm most surprised that I don't feel as much pain as I was expecting. The potential for pain scared the living . . . . out of me pre-op. During my hospital stay, I demanded narcotics every three hours taking the advice of so many others to keep on top of the pain, because once it comes, it's hard to get rid of it. Whatever I did while at the hospital worked because the pain was manageable throughout. I'd refuse to answer that 1-10 pain chart because I thought it was ridiculous and only had the potential to work against me. On Day #8 I was discharged and I decided to skip a pain pill and substitute regular strength tylenol. Day #9, I didn't even take the tylenol and went a whole day without any pain meds. Since then, I've taken pain meds about once or twice a day tops - either the narcotics they sent me home with or the tylenol. I feel tightness in my chest and when I try to get up or reach for things I feel soreness, but I don't have and never did feel any shooting pain or anything like I was worried about pre-op. I'd stick by the advice I took -- at the hospital politely decline to play the 1-10 pain game and just get the meds. When you're home and can relax more, figure out where you are and how to best manage it. You'll likely be surprised how manageable it is early on. See Coughing & Sneezing for a specific kind of pain.
MOBILITY: I got around better than expected in the hospital and continue to do so at home. I take a 30 min walk about twice a day - although my pace isn't world recording breaking, it's still pretty slow. HR doesn't get above 115 when I'm doing so and they tell me that's fine. I've done neighborhood streets, shopping at the mall, around the house, etc. I have about 14 steps up to my bedroom and I probably do them without issue a few times a day up and a down. I shower and dress myself without any issue. I already had an adjustable bed, so getting in and out is much like it was at the hospital and I've slept in it since I returned home. It takes some effort, but doable. During the day I typically sit in the recliner I bought on advice of many others here. I laid myself flat down on the couch recently and it was a struggle to get back up. Also, if I drop something to the floor, I have to use my feet to pick it back up because I can't comfortably bend all the way down yet.
COUGHING/SNEEZING: The absolute worst thing ever. I spend the majority of every day trying not to do either. Apparently, you need to cough to fend off pneumonia. So, I clutch the heart pillow, put my arms so they squeeze in my ribs and try to do these really pathetic coughs so that I'm at least not keeping it all in. Eventually, I get to a normal cough and maybe it'd be less painful if I just started off big, but all 6ft2 230 of me just can't handle it. People say this gets better, but at 2.5 weeks out, it's still a horrendous exercise for me.
CONCENTRATION: I was also worried about being able to read, write, watch a movie, etc. I'm tired a lot, so I think that affects my concentration more than anything else. As long as I'm energetic, I don't have issues reading, writing or watching marathons of trash TV on Bravo. I'm sure I'm nowhere near where I was pre-op in terms of concentration and mental stamina, but my nightmares that my mind would change never came to fruition. I can't imagine I won't be just as sharp as I was so long as I get thru the exhaustion recovery period.
APPETITE: The hospital food was amazingly good. I sometimes wish it would still pop up on my table. I must be a weirdo, I know. The first week home, things tasted a bit chalky, no matter what they were (i.e., even bottled water tasted like chalk). Second week home and on my regular taste has resumed without issue. I eat everything in sight just like before, though trying to be a bit healthier and a good patient. Definitely not starving though. Appetite is all in tact. I'm about 10 pounds less than I was pre-surgery, however I went down and back up about 6 pounds while home. Nothing too crazy and no swelling or anything like that.
MOOD: Unfortunately, I haven't been able to talk very much if at all since my surgery. It's a long story to go into and I'm incredibly disappointed with the hospital and my care team there for not giving me better answers, but we're pushing for them still. My voice is very hoarse if non existent. Driving me crazy and scaring me as I'm a lawyer who gets by on giving advice. While the inability to easily communicate has kept me calm in some respects (I'm typically aggressive and a pain in the . . . ), it's also made recovery a somewhat lonely and frustrating experience - despite all my family and friends checking in. Take the voice struggles out of the equation and I'm sure I'd be less irritable and unhappy. All of my frustration is definitely concentrated in not being able to speak, not bad feelings about the cardio issues/surgical recovery. Recovery is not a bouquet of roses, but it's been doable from an attitude perspective - so far.
ADVICE: Be patient. Listen to your care team, but know that they're not omniscient. Challenge them when necessary. Own your own health and recovery. If something doesn't make sense, demand an explanation until it does make sense to you. I can say that many of the people who have helped me and guided my medical care have been great; others have led me to pause and question. You can't expect everyone to be world class and you can't expect everyone to think you're the only patient in the world. I got comfortable really quickly with trusting that mostly everyone had good intentions for my recovery, but that intentions aren't the total story.
That's my story and I'm sticking to it. Hopefully, it helps at least one of you out there feel more comfortable or set expectations. Happy to chat with anyone who has questions or just wants to shoot the . . . . over email, of course, bc I still can't speak :(
Happy 4th of July!!
Larry Fuller I suggest Netflix for a month and a
House of cards marathon
Thx larry
Joe __ Caught up on Suits and American Horror Story. Maybe House of Cards can be next. Good suggestion.
Jeanette Davidson House of Cards! It is great! Thank you so much Joe, for this detailed info. I am so close and this he ... Read more
Jeanette Davidson House of Cards! It is great! Thank you so much Joe, for this detailed info. I am so close and this helps me so much! Stay strong and continue on your healing path. I hope your voice gets better quickly! ❤️
John Jones Great to hear from you Joe. Thanks for the detail. I certainly appreciate it as my day draws near. I ... Read more
John Jones Great to hear from you Joe. Thanks for the detail. I certainly appreciate it as my day draws near. I am so looking forward to my recover. Thanks again and continue getting better.
Patrick Kennedy My recovery has been similar joe. Sorry to hear about the speaking part. I'm sure that is frustrating ... Read more
Patrick Kennedy My recovery has been similar joe. Sorry to hear about the speaking part. I'm sure that is frustrating.
Lynn understock Sounds a lot like my recovery. Couldn't talk....sneeze....cough or move very fast. I attributed my ... Read more
Lynn understock Sounds a lot like my recovery. Couldn't talk....sneeze....cough or move very fast. I attributed my voice issues to vent ...... came back after a few weeks. I am almost 4 months out from aortic root and aortic valve replacement. I am in a good place. Lifting weights ..walking every day and back to work. I can still hear my heart beat so I put my hand under my head when laying on side. The first two months were awful...... then magically it got better. Hang in there.
John Jones Sounds like my story other than the talking, I did have a sore throat. I'm 6 weeks out now and go to ... Read more
John Jones Sounds like my story other than the talking, I did have a sore throat. I'm 6 weeks out now and go to the doc on the 9th for a check up and I'm gonna get some pain med, Like you I've been trying to take Tylenol. It does a fair job but sometimes I just flat hurt and decided why fight it. I have enough going on. God bless you
I'm basically ok to go home, they just need to do the aspiration test on Monday, which I see has been spellchecked to aphixiation in my other posts - along ...Read more
I'm basically ok to go home, they just need to do the aspiration test on Monday, which I see has been spellchecked to aphixiation in my other posts - along with incubation and intubation. It's not the drugs, it's my fingers.
Took at least 6 walks day 5 and have my appetite. Other than me going into convulsions of pain at the faintest cough and the voice issues, I'm a-okay. Nurses think I'm nuts because I refuse blood draws from other than lab itself, but they've all tried and stick me multiple times so I had to put my foot down on that. Lovely for them to try harder, but let the next one of you be the guinea pig :) I've been prodded enough!
Still have taste buds, so eating Hasnt decreased yet I lose weight which is kinda fun!
Some really young guys and girls on my wing , but there aren't enough opportunity for interaction to see if they know about the site, et al. Was looking to start paying this forward a bit, so I'll try to figure something out today.
Way too early, so back to bed for me. Love the heart family.
John Jones Great to hear from you on this side of surgery. Praying for your continued improvement.
I'm basically ok to go home, they just need to do the aspiration test on Monday, which I see has been spellchecked to aphixiation in my other posts - along ...Read more
I'm basically ok to go home, they just need to do the aspiration test on Monday, which I see has been spellchecked to aphixiation in my other posts - along with incubation and intubation. It's not the drugs, it's my fingers.
Took at least 6 walks day 5 and have my appetite. Other than me going into convulsions of pain at the faintest cough and the voice issues, I'm a-okay. Nurses think I'm nuts because I refuse blood draws from other than lab itself, but they've all tried and stick me multiple times so I had to put my foot down on that. Lovely for them to try harder, but let the next one of you be the guinea pig :) I've been prodded enough!
Still have taste buds, so eating Hasnt decreased yet I lose weight which is kinda fun!
Some really young guys and girls on my wing , but there aren't enough opportunity for interaction to see if they know about the site, et al. Was looking to start paying this forward a bit, so I'll try to figure something out today.
Way too early, so back to bed for me. Love the heart family.
It's day 4 and I have but a faint voice. Details of my incubation are not clear to me yet and they're recommending a video down my throat on Monday for aphixiation, ...Read more
It's day 4 and I have but a faint voice. Details of my incubation are not clear to me yet and they're recommending a video down my throat on Monday for aphixiation, even though it'll be 5 days since the problem was noticed. Unsure if I want to go ahead with it until the details are clearer to me. My voice may be improving. Anyon else have voice issues right after surgery that ran for awhile?
Tammy Pilcher Joe, I was very hoarse for the first couple of weeks after surgery. They told me it was common after ... Read more
Tammy Pilcher Joe, I was very hoarse for the first couple of weeks after surgery. They told me it was common after the vent and TEE I had during surgery. I came home on the fourth day after surgery. Yours may be worse than mine though, if they are suggesting this test. I hope it gets better over the weekend. Prayers for you!
Wiliam Height I recall a fellow about 6 months ago that had voice box issues, sorry I can't remember his name but c ... Read more
Wiliam Height I recall a fellow about 6 months ago that had voice box issues, sorry I can't remember his name but check archives.
Sharon Madden My throat was swollen for almost 2 weeks. I still sound a bit hoarse but the pain and swallowing iss ... Read more
Sharon Madden My throat was swollen for almost 2 weeks. I still sound a bit hoarse but the pain and swallowing issues are gone. I am 17 days out
Pat Bluemel Yep, for about two weeks, let your body repair from what you've gone through.
It's day 4 and I have but a faint voice. Details of my incubation are not clear to me yet and they're recommending a video down my throat on Monday for aphixiation, ...Read more
It's day 4 and I have but a faint voice. Details of my incubation are not clear to me yet and they're recommending a video down my throat on Monday for aphixiation, even though it'll be 5 days since the problem was noticed. Unsure if I want to go ahead with it until the details are clearer to me. My voice may be improving. Anyon else have voice issues right after surgery that ran for awhile?
Hi Joe..My voice was raspy for about 10 days I think.
Nancy D voice rest will help, just know attempting to whisper is harsher on your vocal cords than talking. ... Read more
Nancy D voice rest will help, just know attempting to whisper is harsher on your vocal cords than talking. Hope it returns to full strength as you return to full strength!
Well, no big long step by step update but that will come for those of you interested once I can type on other than my phone. In the fourth day and after a ...Read more
Well, no big long step by step update but that will come for those of you interested once I can type on other than my phone. In the fourth day and after a few hiccups, feeling like I'm on the road to recovery. Walking the halls. Doing stairs. Showing everyone my excrement and being told how wonderful it is (hey, they're all demanding to see it!). Oddly enough, at 37, I was the senior member of my cardiac PT\OT class today. Lots of young folk. I have lost my voice but they think it's a few week set back not a permanent thing. So, that sucks. Parents and partner and friends have been great support even though I haven't really had the concentration level or voice to get back to people yet. Waiting was definitely not the hardest part, and I'm still in a gown, but it's amazing how I turned the bend from one day to the next. Taking it slow and will catch up soon. I will say I felt completely more educated and supported than everyone else I've encountered here in the hospital. You all really did lead the way in a mature responsible way and I kept that in my mind when things were challenging. Just listen, you'll get through. Oh and do whatever u can not to cough. Ergh!!!
Ericka Carlson Sounds great Joe! I'm just over week 4 and the coughing isn't bad anymore. I'm still not a fan of s ... Read more
Ericka Carlson Sounds great Joe! I'm just over week 4 and the coughing isn't bad anymore. I'm still not a fan of sneezing though. :)
MB Carstens Hi Joe! Four weeks ago I had a mitral valve repair at Penn Presbyterian (Dr. Hargrove). I had a wond ... Read more
MB Carstens Hi Joe! Four weeks ago I had a mitral valve repair at Penn Presbyterian (Dr. Hargrove). I had a wonderful experience there - and their follow up has been just as great! I am glad to hear you are in the fabulous Penn system and on the road to recovery! Did you get your Penn Cardiac Care pillow?
Tammy Pilcher Welcome to the best side of OHS, Joe! It gets better!! God bless you!
Update on Joe [from Chris]: Joe surprised us all yesterday by willingly getting in the car yesterday morning, hospital-bound for surgery. He was scared beyond ...Read more
Update on Joe [from Chris]: Joe surprised us all yesterday by willingly getting in the car yesterday morning, hospital-bound for surgery. He was scared beyond belief and needed two "cocktails" to calm his nerves in the pre-op room (after the remaining consents were signed). He was scheduled for a 10:15am start, he got off to a much later start. He went into A-FIB before they even started (only his second reported episode), which in my mind confirmed the need for surgery.
Joe came out of surgery after 2 am and was sent right up to ICU (where he is now still under sedation 12 hours later). We met with Dr. Bavaria Last night, who reported that he is very pleased with the surgery and that we can all breathe a little sigh of relief after the vent is removed. The doctor was able to repair the valve and reimplant it after fixing the aortic aneurism / root.
They have Joe sedated/comfortable right now while they work on leveling his numbers. The plan is to take him off the ventilation sometime later today. The UPENN cardiac ICU nurses are rock stars; explaining and updating at every turn.
Joe has a long road ahead of him but he is well under way. Thank you all for your support / concern and well wishes. He will be excited to type his own update in a day or two.
Chris
Gerald Schaffer Thanks for the update and praying he is able to get off the vent soon. It's great news that the valve ... Read more
Gerald Schaffer Thanks for the update and praying he is able to get off the vent soon. It's great news that the valve could be repaired.
Kathleen F. yes lots of healing thoughts and well wishes your way, Joe! Thank you for the update, Chris.
Robyn Tatu Sending prayers to Joe, Thanks for the update!
Tammy Pilcher Thank you for the update, Chris! I'm so happy Joe's surgery was a success and will keep in prayer fo ... Read more
Tammy Pilcher Thank you for the update, Chris! I'm so happy Joe's surgery was a success and will keep in prayer for his recovery!
Lora Lee Peterson Joe is so brave, and be sure to tell him how proud we all are of him!
Kimberly Biddick Wonderful news, Chris!!! Thank you for keeping us all updated. Many prayers sent your way for contin ... Read more
Kimberly Biddick Wonderful news, Chris!!! Thank you for keeping us all updated. Many prayers sent your way for continued progress in the right direction!!
Mary Myers That is great news! He is on the road to recovery! God bless joe as he continues on this journey.
Kelly Weisgarber Thank you for the update! Joe will be so happy it's behind him!
John Jones Great news. I am so glad his surgery is behind him. I know how he was dreading it. Looking forward to ... Read more
John Jones Great news. I am so glad his surgery is behind him. I know how he was dreading it. Looking forward to communicating with him again soon. Odd how quickly a bond can develop between people who would otherwise likely never meet. Thanks for posting.
Petey Bello Great news his operation was a success. My prayers are with both you & Joe!
Rita Savelis I hope Joe takes his time to type his update. No need at all to hurry. Now's the time to heal and res ... Read more
Rita Savelis I hope Joe takes his time to type his update. No need at all to hurry. Now's the time to heal and rest. We all dread our surgeries. I was crying on the operating table waiting to be put under anasthesia....
I can't say it's wonderful to see my name up in lights on this website as the next to go in for surgery. It's about the last type of recognition award I was ...Read more
I can't say it's wonderful to see my name up in lights on this website as the next to go in for surgery. It's about the last type of recognition award I was looking to receive in life, but I guess it's mine to own.
I'm scared senseless and I wish I knew where to run, but I expect that I'll be carried kicking and screaming onto that operating table by my partner, my mom, dad, and grandparents (though I'd really like to see grandma with two bionic knees and hip catch me!). I just hope the surgical team knocks me out before I get too worked up or find an escape route. I can't for the life of me visualize going through with this, though I suppose that's not a prerequisite.
Everyone keeps telling me to be positive, but I'm just not that guy. I'm not sulking - ok, maybe I am a bit - but I'm being realistic as this really does suck and will continue to for awhile. That being said, I've got an awesome network of support from cheering squads within my family, friends and colleagues, which has helped me understand how much I want to just get through this and go back to life (somewhat) as I knew it. So, maybe I'm not the most positive, but I'm going to try to be the most persevering and get through it -- grumpy face and all.
I've written before about my love/hate relationship with the site. As much as reading all the stories helps immeasurably, it also sends me into a tailspin - even though they're mostly positive and encouraging. The sheer concentration on it makes me nuts. At the end of the day, I do peek at (fine pore over) it more than I admit and it's been an invaluable source of support, inspiration and education. I don't know Adam, but thank you for developing it and thank you for each of your participation.
I'm going to go try to relax as my family comes to town and we get ready for Monday morning. I could use all the good wishes you all got and I will see you on the other side of this, probably just as grumpy if not worse about this all -- but, willing to help and support those of you going next. I don't think I could have gotten comfortable with even scheduling a date if not for all of your stories and insights. Thank you from the bottom of my structurally in need of repair heart. =)
Petey Bello Sending prayers and well wishes your way Joe! Stay positive!!! Look forward to hearing about your suc ... Read more
Petey Bello Sending prayers and well wishes your way Joe! Stay positive!!! Look forward to hearing about your success and speedy recovery!
Jeanette Davidson Joe, thank you for your well written words! I connection you, get you and understand. I have weeks u ... Read more
Jeanette Davidson Joe, thank you for your well written words! I connection you, get you and understand. I have weeks until my surgery and I'm scared senseless too!!! At this point I just think I need it to be over. I'll be praying for you and sending you good energy ! Stay strong!❤️
Dan D. Good luck to you. I'm generally attitude is pretty pessimistic & anxious. I moved from calm acceptanc ... Read more
Dan D. Good luck to you. I'm generally attitude is pretty pessimistic & anxious. I moved from calm acceptance to outright panic, but with the help of meditation, my support team and Xanax, I kept calm. I know what you mean about this site. As surgery approached, I think I stopped posting for while. It seemed ridiculous that one moment I'm normal me and the next moment (upon waking), I'm not normal-me, but a semi-helpless, recovering surgical patient. But my nurses & support team were great. I'm 4 weeks from surgery and I still can't believe that I got through it all. It wasn't easy, but it wasn't unbearable or torturous. You have a great support team who will advocate for you if necessary. You will do it and be home and on the recovery train soon.
Tammy Pilcher Great post, Joe! I know, and I would expect everyone here knows, exactly what you're feeling. One n ... Read more
Tammy Pilcher Great post, Joe! I know, and I would expect everyone here knows, exactly what you're feeling. One night before my surgery, I told my husband that I just wanted to run away and hide. But I knew that wasn't my best option.:-) So I reminded myself that this surgery could save my life and as hard as it was to surrender to it, I needed to do just that. I prayed for Father God to give me courage and peace. I know He did, because I was able to remain calm, and oddly enough, a little happy that I was getting to have this surgery to fix my broken heart. You can do this and you won't be by yourself! God will be right there with you and your heart family here will be sending up many prayers for you! God bless you!
Barry Van Gemert Joe, I would much rather see my name in a list of upcoming surgeries vs. an obituary. Just putting it ... Read more
Barry Van Gemert Joe, I would much rather see my name in a list of upcoming surgeries vs. an obituary. Just putting it all into perspective for you. I am sure your surgery will be a success!
Jim Kelly-Evans You have an expert surgeon and a great hospital...you'll do fine...good luck from a fellow Philadelph ... Read more
Jim Kelly-Evans You have an expert surgeon and a great hospital...you'll do fine...good luck from a fellow Philadelphian!
Robyn Tatu I wish there was a way to calm you . But we all agree the pre-surgery period is the absolute worst! ... Read more
Robyn Tatu I wish there was a way to calm you . But we all agree the pre-surgery period is the absolute worst! and it's something you have to do; regardless. The odds are way in your favor and you are strong. We will be behind you with prayers and healing thoughts directed at you and your care givers, You will do fine.
Rita Savelis Beautiful writing Joe. It does suck. It is hard. I'll say: "Sorry you have to go through with this", ... Read more
Rita Savelis Beautiful writing Joe. It does suck. It is hard. I'll say: "Sorry you have to go through with this", rather than "everything will be okay". You get through the surgery because you're under anasthesia, then your work begins and you move forward. There are bad days but at least you are moving forward. Less time to ponder it all. But it's hard. Most days seem the same, but every week one feels a tiny tiny bit of improvement. Then you make it to 4 weeks and then to 8 weeks. There are various glitches, but time passes. Pre-surgery is hard. I feel for you. Embrace the difficulty. One is never really ready. It's like jumping off a cliff into cold water.
Nancy D Be sure to communicate your anxiety with your anesthesia provider who you will meet after signing all ... Read more
Nancy D Be sure to communicate your anxiety with your anesthesia provider who you will meet after signing all the papers and getting all the prep behind you! They have the ways and means to make you relax and forget the trip to the Operating room! I apparently talked all the way down the hall with my husband and son, but have no recollection leaving my room! Once awake you are somewhat in charge of your recovery- put on your game face, and take it one deep breath and one step at a time! You too will be amazed at what you can do! Take it easy- none of us signed up for this willingly, but enjoy the family gathering, and we will be sending positive prayers and energy your way!
Tammy Pilcher Nancy, I had the same experience with the meds to "relax" me before going to the OR. I didn't rememb ... Read more
Tammy Pilcher Nancy, I had the same experience with the meds to "relax" me before going to the OR. I didn't remember another thing until waking after surgery. My family said they were talking to me and I would answer, but then just fall right back asleep. I didn't really get to say goodbye to them or at least I don't remember it.:-)
Tammy Pilcher I forgot to add, I'm glad it worked out that way though!
Kelly Weisgarber I can't give advice on after surgery but I can relate to your feelings of anxiety. Good luck to you o ... Read more
Kelly Weisgarber I can't give advice on after surgery but I can relate to your feelings of anxiety. Good luck to you on Monday. Sending prayers.
Eddie Patton With you man, scared senseless but at peace with it for today anyway. Walking through those doors on ... Read more
Eddie Patton With you man, scared senseless but at peace with it for today anyway. Walking through those doors on Wednesday is going to be the biggest leap of faith I have ever took. The only thing I go back to is that if I don't have this done I likely won't see my daughters get married much less see my grandchildren. I won't get to see what my son becomes. And above all, my wife will get to spend all that money I have saved :). Not going to offer any of those cliches we all hear because they don't really mean anything when it's you having to walk in that day. If nothing else just consider it the best of two evils. Good luck man, hope you find enough peace to make it, I know I will be a wreck but I think I can do it. Hope we are some of the ones on the other side saying "It wasn't nearly as bad as I thought".
Wiliam Height I think everyone goes through the stages of What?, Denial, Anger, Why Me!, Acceptance, and even Forgi ... Read more
Wiliam Height I think everyone goes through the stages of What?, Denial, Anger, Why Me!, Acceptance, and even Forgiveness. You have tons of love and will be on the other side of this before you know. Keep it light this weekend and positive your in good hands by the surgical team of your choice and you have to let it go. We all go in for our hearts to be fixed and as an added bonus come out with better heads.
Kim Schurman Keep your chin up! I'm in the same boat as well and I am 36 yrs old. My cath is set for Tuesday and o ... Read more
Kim Schurman Keep your chin up! I'm in the same boat as well and I am 36 yrs old. My cath is set for Tuesday and official surgery on Thursday. I've come to accept what is coming up and I'm ready for this to be over which it will be soon enough. Each of us goes thru our own trials- just a little sooner than expected! Best wishes for the surgery- you will make it thru this as well as everyone else that has had it done before! ;)
Pat Bluemel You'll hear it over and over in the hospital, you are young and you will bounce back from this quickl ... Read more
Pat Bluemel You'll hear it over and over in the hospital, you are young and you will bounce back from this quickly. I hope you wake up tomorrow morning with peace. Check in goes so fast you really don't have time to think before you take your nap. Then you wake up. See you on the other side Joe.
Petey Bello You're in my prayers - good luck tomorrow!
Thought I already posted this, but maybe I didn't? In any event. I've got a week until my surgery date. Already broke out in neck to toe rash, I assume, ...Read more
Thought I already posted this, but maybe I didn't? In any event. I've got a week until my surgery date. Already broke out in neck to toe rash, I assume, stressing out over the whole ordeal. I'm trying to take my own advice to others and concentrate on what I can control - that's preparation, etc. When I first started reading these journals, I saw a list on someone's site of things they did or bought to prep for surgery/recovery. I wouldn't know where to find it again, so maybe we can do a refresh? Any ideas?
Clare Auten I really didn't take much to the hospital. Cell phone and charger are a must. At home, I made sure t ... Read more
Clare Auten I really didn't take much to the hospital. Cell phone and charger are a must. At home, I made sure the house was as clean as I could with 3 kids. I did laundry. I paid bills that would come due in the few weeks following surgery. Glad I did that because my husband hates to do any of the money stuff. Other than that I just enjoyed life.
Ray Lockhart Adams short list from his book was Pillow, Robe, Toothbrush and toothpaste, Slippers, Pajamas, Loose ... Read more
Ray Lockhart Adams short list from his book was Pillow, Robe, Toothbrush and toothpaste, Slippers, Pajamas, Loose fitting clothes, book/Journal, Ear plugs, iPod/mobile phone and camera.
I am also considering buying the Incision Shield described in Adam's book (page 151 of the printed version). I wonder if anybody has had any good or bad experiences with this item?
Tammy Pilcher Hi Joe, I didn't use much of what I took. I did use boxer shorts under my gown for post op walks. ... Read more
Tammy Pilcher Hi Joe, I didn't use much of what I took. I did use boxer shorts under my gown for post op walks. I used my own toothbrush, toothpaste, floss, hairbrush, lip balm, and face wipes. Also like Clare said, cell phone and charger. For the trip home, I wore button front PJs and I had my own pillow from home for the car. I hope this helps. Prayers and best wishes!
Suzanne Hunter As above like everyone has said phone and charger. Loose boxers or pj bottoms. I wore hosp tops as it ... Read more
Suzanne Hunter As above like everyone has said phone and charger. Loose boxers or pj bottoms. I wore hosp tops as it was just easier for first 2-3 days then loose t shirt tops no buttons as they would have rubbed on incision. The nurse are very good at just pulling up a loose t shirt. Tissues were handy and wet wipes. I wore sox with anti skid feet instead of slippers . All the best
Sharon Madden A tablet or something else with a sound machine. Hospitals are crazy noisy it was great to drown t ... Read more
Sharon Madden A tablet or something else with a sound machine. Hospitals are crazy noisy it was great to drown that out a little to get some sleep.
Heading into surgery on June 15th. Still freaked out of my mind, but hopefully someone will sedate me and drag me there to get it done. =) I'm wondering ...Read more
Heading into surgery on June 15th. Still freaked out of my mind, but hopefully someone will sedate me and drag me there to get it done. =) I'm wondering what's a typical day like when you get home the first few weeks. I read a lot about not being able to use arms, being tired, etc. Then again, people are emailing, taking pics in parks and the like - so this cant be sitting in a chair all day crying - can it? What fills up the day if you can't even use your arms? Is it hard to get around the house? Can you cook? Are steps unrealistic? How long are these walks everyone talks about? So many questions. Basically, would love to know from morning to night -- what's a practical example of how much one does while recuperating? I understand we're all different as well, but would love to hear specifics from some of u as I'm a bit confused on what to expect. Thanks!
Duane Beeman I'm going in on June 9th. I'll plow the road for you and coach you up a little when I get out. Bi-c ... Read more
Duane Beeman I'm going in on June 9th. I'll plow the road for you and coach you up a little when I get out. Bi-cuspid for me too. You got this, kid. They aren't going to let anything happen to you. You can go to school on me. If I can take it, you KNOW you can !! A buddy of mine went through it and said that the the worst part of the whole thing was still being constipated after six days. He said, "whatever you do Beeman, don't eat a steak the night before surgery".
Clare Auten You are right, everyone is different. My surgery was on a Thursday. Home the following Wed. Husband ... Read more
Clare Auten You are right, everyone is different. My surgery was on a Thursday. Home the following Wed. Husband went to work that Friday. I remember getting my 2 older kids out to the school bus at the corner. And then resting for a bit before I went to the second floor for a shower. Sat and rested before the shower and then again after (no shower chair). Managed breakfast and lunch for myself and 4 year old....probably something cold or microwaved though. I do remember resting a lot during the day but I was able to meet my basic needs. I had a difficult time getting out to walk. My surgery was in a cold, icy, snowy January.
Patrick Kennedy I'm About two weeks post op. 42 years old and in reasonably good health before the operation. The big ... Read more
Patrick Kennedy I'm About two weeks post op. 42 years old and in reasonably good health before the operation. The biggest issue is not being able to drive. To be honest I feel better than I excepted. I run my own business and am working half days or so. Lots of long walks. I can cook meals and get my 5 and 10 year old ready for school, including breakfast and packing lunches. Sleep has gotten better and better. Still waking up for an hour or so in the middle of the night. But stopped talking pain medications a week ago. Tonight I went to a local soccer game and sat on a "bleacher style" bench for two hours. I do get tried and light headed but like I said better than I expected. We are all different for sure but this has been my experience so far.
Tammy Pilcher Joe, I had my BAV replaced and an aortic root enlargement with a Dacron patch on a Friday and went ho ... Read more
Tammy Pilcher Joe, I had my BAV replaced and an aortic root enlargement with a Dacron patch on a Friday and went home the following Tuesday. I was able to get up and down on my own by holding my heart pillow close to my chest so that I wouldn't use my arms to push or pull. I was able to go to the bathroom on my own, but needed help showering the first couple of weeks. I felt pretty weak after taking a shower and needed to rest. I had my husband with me the first week home, so he prepared meals ( reheated what friends brought over) Yay! I was able to walk three times a day for ten minutes at a time and gradually added more time as the weeks went by. I tired very easily and rested alot! I slept in a power recliner the first couple of weeks and then moved to my bed using a wedge pillow with regular pillows on top. I felt stronger and was able to do more each day. I'm seven months post op now and for the most part back to normal, though still careful not to do anything that could hurt my sternum. I'm walking around three miles in an hour at least once a day, sometimes twice. I'm 51 years old and feeling pretty good! God is Great! Prayers and best wishes, Tammy
Christine Pittelli Patrick that is amazing, I am in good health as well , I am 44 , I had my BAV repaired and an aneurys ... Read more
Christine Pittelli Patrick that is amazing, I am in good health as well , I am 44 , I had my BAV repaired and an aneurysm in my ascending aorta removed. After three weeks I was on my own taking care of my 10 and 12 year old girls. Although I got through it, I was not breathing well until 4 months and felt like an elephant was sitting on my chest ( that was due to the plate). I had no issues during recovery, and it is so true that we all recover differently. I am amazed at those such as yourself that are able to function and get back to work so quickly. Our bodies are truly unique.
Suzanne Hunter I had valve replaced on a Wednesday and home following Wednesday. I slept in my own bed didn't have r ... Read more
Suzanne Hunter I had valve replaced on a Wednesday and home following Wednesday. I slept in my own bed didn't have recliner. I tried not to sleep during day just rested. I showered myself from the time I got home. I reheated meals made by family and friends. I made my hot drinks in microwave as the kettle was too heavy. I walked three times a day outside around our horse farm. Roughly 10 mins to begin with. I couldn't drive for 8 weeks and had to rely on my husband for that. I was lucky because I did have my husband working from our farm so he was always close by. I wouldn't have liked to be by myself during day that first week home. You do feel tired to begin with but just start to do the normal daily things and build up from there. I managed to do our monthly accounts during the second week and my concentration was ok. Mainly don't lift anything too heavy because you will pay for it later!! I didn't return to work until 3 months because I had some vision issues and as I am a school teacher and do lots of book work,reading etc it was too hard. I am now 9 months post op and back in classroom 4 days a week. Life does get better quite quickly if you allow yourself to heal at your own pace and what feels right for you. I used to get a bit panicky about not being at the same stage as other people on this site or not being able to do certain things as quickly as before. WE ARE ALL DIFFERENT and you must do what's right for you. Everyone here is so supportive and non judgemental. No questions are ever ridiculed but answered by the kindest people. When you have been through this kind of surgery you are so much more aware of how people think and react to bring sawed open and our hearts fixed. We are here for you. Take care.
Bob M Joe, check out my journal, and you can see my words and photos from my recovery. My surgery was on De ... Read more
Bob M Joe, check out my journal, and you can see my words and photos from my recovery. My surgery was on December 10, 2014, and I am 100% recovered. It was an awesome journey. I pray that yours will be too. God bless and rise up!
Daniel Spurgeon Joe, the post op days in the hospital I was mostly bored. As long as I took my prescribed pain meds ... Read more
Daniel Spurgeon Joe, the post op days in the hospital I was mostly bored. As long as I took my prescribed pain meds the sternum didn't bother me. I didn't want to watch a movie or concentrate on a book, so I mostly surfed the Internet (hospital has free wifi) and talked to my family when they came to visit. I walked every time the nurses had time to escort me, had them take me outside (it was in the 90's but I wanted outside anyway) and was glad to get home. I felt like the procedure erased my circadian rhythm so I forced myself to maintain a sleep/wake cycle based on the clock. I also woke up at 3 in the morning every day for a week in an anxious state for no apparent reason. As long as I didn't try to lift anything heavy I could use my arms for my normal daily activities. As soon as the nurse practitioner lowered my metroprolol dose I gained a little more energy. I was definitely more tired than usual, but not unhappy or somber. Nothing to dread, just go at your own pace and call your doctor with any questions that arise along the way. I recommend taking some music to the hospital with you. In hindsight it would have been a great time to catch up on CLE's!
Lora Lee Peterson Thank you Joe for asking the questions, and thank you everyone for answering them. I'm going to prin ... Read more
Lora Lee Peterson Thank you Joe for asking the questions, and thank you everyone for answering them. I'm going to print this off for my husband to read, so he know what to expect too.
Steven A Husted i agree with all of the above and the part about being constipated i had no bowl movement or very lit ... Read more
Steven A Husted i agree with all of the above and the part about being constipated i had no bowl movement or very little for about a week try to eat very light before surgery try lots of liquids
Pat Bluemel Typical day when I got home (from day one): Ascended and descended the stairs in my house (16 steps ... Read more
Pat Bluemel Typical day when I got home (from day one): Ascended and descended the stairs in my house (16 steps each way) a couple times a day. Walked my dog twice a day (short walks, he doesn't lunge). Each walk would be one house further on my block. First week of walks sucked. Totally winded, totally tired, but I pushed on. Cooked, watched TV, surfed the web, updated my journal. Showered on my own, texted with friends. Able to care for my two cats and dog from day one. Was left on my own during the day at the start of week 2. Slept in my rented recliner for the first 4 nights, then on and off depending on my mood and odd waking hours. I would wake up from 3-6am for some reason for the first two weeks. You have the use of your arms when you wake up from surgery there are just some things you shouldn't do. Like lifting anything over 5lbs. Reaching high above your head (I so wanted to stretch), reaching behind you or pushing yourself up from a laying down position. I was driving at 4 weeks, back to work in 6 weeks. Check out my journal, I was pretty direct in the day to day about what I was feeling.
Patrick Kennedy Christine, I should make it clear that had a matriel valve repaired. I sure there are different recov ... Read more
Patrick Kennedy Christine, I should make it clear that had a matriel valve repaired. I sure there are different recovery times for different procedures and people. I have no doubt been very fortunate.
Joe __ i'm very grateful for everyone's input. you are all truly the best. i can't see me ever being ready ... Read more
Joe __ i'm very grateful for everyone's input. you are all truly the best. i can't see me ever being ready to do this, but I also can't imagine people being more helpful and uplifting as those of you on this site. i'm one of those cynical lawyer types by nature -- but going thru this and interacting with u all makes me believe that this whole ordeal may just change my outlook for the better. ;)
Stephen Doherty Hi Joe .. am new here, just reading your journal and the thoughts you have put into words and the rep ... Read more
Stephen Doherty Hi Joe .. am new here, just reading your journal and the thoughts you have put into words and the replies, have been a help for me just to read .. So many questions in my head.
Terry Shermeister Hi Joe, for me I came home after 4 days in the hospital. I had borrowed an electric recliner and sle ... Read more
Terry Shermeister Hi Joe, for me I came home after 4 days in the hospital. I had borrowed an electric recliner and slept in it. My chest did not hurt all that much. When I did use my arms by mistake, I was reminded by the pain that I should stop. My nurse at the hospital did an effective job of presenting why I need to let the sternum heal. I set up a walking routine around the house, and if I'd get up at night, I'd walk a while too. I was on certain meds, diuretics, pain, BP, etc., and it took a while for me to get my body working again. Walks helped. After one week, I started walking outside for about 40 minutes. After three weeks I visited my surgeon and he let me know that I was healing very well, and did not have to see him again. Showers, cleaning, drying off, getting used to my scar, all that was an adjustment. My friends and support group brought food, helped clean, and did a great job of keeping my spirits up. Tomorrow will be my 4th week, and I get stronger each and every day. There is much more to it than that. I'm an active man so I needed to do a lot of walking. They say it's an individual process, and they are right. It's different for all of us. Good luck with the surgery, and with the recovery.
Rita Savelis I was SO TIRED for 2 weeks. My eyes were half open. Eating breakfast felt like the biggest chore. Mor ... Read more
Rita Savelis I was SO TIRED for 2 weeks. My eyes were half open. Eating breakfast felt like the biggest chore. Mornings were hard. Days felt the same. After 8 days I felt a bit of improvement for the first time. After that I noticed that each week (NOT each day) I felt a tiny bit better. Don't try to be better than you are. Just rest. Just heal. Take the time. I did not have much pain but lots of discomfort. I live in France so stayed in hospital 4 weeks and then rehab for 3. DO NOT know how Americans manage their short stays. Wow. What a people.
What helped me on heartvalvesurgery was people like Dan D who tell it straight. But I know exactly what you mean. It's both wonderful and awful...
I have such a love-hate relationship with this site. The content is amazingly helpful and all of you are incredibly supportive and positive despite knowing ...Read more
I have such a love-hate relationship with this site. The content is amazingly helpful and all of you are incredibly supportive and positive despite knowing so little about me. That being said, it still makes me weak, upset and anxious whenever I read the posts and think about this whole ordeal that I try to avoid coming back to check. Here I am trying again, as my pre-op appt is on Tuesday 2/26 and my tentative surgery date is 6/15 - if I can bring myself to show up. I'm babbling and I'm sure I'll make it there, but I do have a few things on my mind:
- My surgeon closes the bone with wires, meanwhile I hear that the newer method is with plates. Does anyone have any information on pros/cons of closure procedures?
- How long have people stayed out of work? I'm an attorney at a pretty busy Fortune 500 company. While I don't have to lift things often and it's mostly me on the computer and in meetings, it's a lot of working. What should I be reasonably expecting as a return timeline?
Thanks again for all your help. It definitely makes this journey seem more doable.
Hi Joe.... Have you ordered and read Adam Pick's book? It put me at ease, for the most part. It is he ... Read more
Hi Joe.... Have you ordered and read Adam Pick's book? It put me at ease, for the most part. It is helpful and informative.
The caring and support you get on this site will sooner or later excel any fears.
I think average is around 8-12 weeks, approximately.
Good you don't have to lift very often, Usually not over 10 pounds for 8 weeks....depending on your situation.
As long as you are feeling well and not taking pain meds you will probably be able to return to work at closer to eight weeks. Each individual is different.
I am 2 1/2 weeks post-op after Open Heart Surgery with Mitral Valve Replacement and Maze Procedure.
(May 6,2015)
I have no pain and am healing well. I am in cardiac rehab so they monitor my vital signs while I'm exercising. It ends beginning of July.
If I had my doctor's office job back in St. Louis....I think I would probably be ready to return by 8-10 weeks, tops.
But....since I am In Minnesota caring for my now 15 mo old grandson twins...it will take longer. They are like 25-27 pounds.
It's good to make a "to do" list in preparation for when you return home. It keeps your mind busy.
I hope this helps you some.
God Bless You...
As Pamla says, Adam's book is great! I read it after I had my surgery (because I found about this site while I was in the hospital) and it was so uplifting.
Work. I didn't go to work for two and a half months, and like you I have a desk job. The first days after I let the hospital I could barely walk for 5 minutes. As I kept on doing it my heart got stronger.
And while I'm aware that work is important, my health comes first. Period. My recovery came first because without a good recovery I cannot have a job, I cannot have a life, my life. Forget about work while you can and focus on yourself, on what you have to need to do, what you need to do.
It's OK to be, and to feel, afraid about this. But think of the alternative which is doing nothing about it. What can you have if you do nothing about it? In my case that was a very scary answer.
My philosophy for all this was: if it needs to be done, it will get done. I cannot control the outcome of this, I can only control how I deal with this.
Hope this helps you. Keep strong
Great encouragement, Rodrigo!
Sandy Davis Joe
What helped my husband and I was watching the Northwestern webinar on this site. It is their ann ... Read more
Sandy Davis Joe
What helped my husband and I was watching the Northwestern webinar on this site. It is their annual bicuspid conference. It answered our questions and put our fears at ease. Good luck. I totally understand your love/hate thing, but remember knowledge is everything.
Tammy Pilcher Hi Joe, I second what everyone above said and just wanted to add I was closed with wires too and hav ... Read more
Tammy Pilcher Hi Joe, I second what everyone above said and just wanted to add I was closed with wires too and have done great! Prayers and best wishes!
Greg Johnson I got sick of judge Judy after about 1 week. I was doing work emails from my recliner after 10 days. ... Read more
Greg Johnson I got sick of judge Judy after about 1 week. I was doing work emails from my recliner after 10 days. After 4 weeks I started working 1/2 time. A few hours in the am. Then a nap and then some more in the pm. I could do some from home but went to the office 3 days that 4th week. Then 4 days the fifth week. The 6th week I was full time and leading an ISO audit of my company. I would get tired. I would come home after work and nap. My chest was sore and hurt like hell sometimes. I'm 12 weeks now and it still hurts sometimes. I think recovery is a balance of not getting infections and not sitting around. I stayed away from anyone who was sick. Stayed out of malls etc. ( which suits me fine anyway ). Do what you can until your body tells you to stop. And then stop. This isn't the time for pushing too hard.
Lila Robinson Hi Joe - I'm 4 weeks post op; so much of what you said sounded like me! I would come to the site, an ... Read more
Lila Robinson Hi Joe - I'm 4 weeks post op; so much of what you said sounded like me! I would come to the site, and then wonderful people and stories brought me a sense of peace, and, in a moment I would suddenly feel overwhelmed. And then check out of the site for a few days! I kept thinking I might not have the procedure too! It's a process of acceptance and knowing you really have to "just do it". That leap of faith I talked about in my blog was a huge step and a difficult step; and then, in some way, it was no big deal. I just knew that I just had to let go and trust.
My surgeon closed my sternum with stainless steel wires. I do not have any clicking or difficulty with it so far .
I work mostly on computer (Dept. Administrator at an esteemed University) so, even though I'm officially "on leave" I have been working form home from about day 6 or 7 post op! Not a lot, but enough to keep up with things.
Don't hesitate to ask questions of me...or anyone here you're comfortable with. And don't be afraid to express your concerns or fears. It's a big deal. But it's an honor to be a living miracle too! ~Lila
I had the David valve sparing procedure last August. It is a full sternotomy. The surgeon removed the first four inches of my ascending aorta and stitched a Dacron graft to my natural aortic valve and aortic arch. My chest was closed with wires. I was released from the hospital five days after surgery and went back to the office on day seven. I'm a lawyer in a mid sized firm practicing construction and employment law. I worked six hours a day until day 10 and then had a 12 hour mediation on day 11 after surgery. I was tired after the first 8 hours, partially because of the early wake up time. I felt just as well typing at my desk as sitting at home, so despite my wife and my medical providers giving me some constructive criticism, I would do it the same way a second time around. There are other lawyers on this site who can hopefully pitch in.
My cables don't bother me and I like the idea of multiple independent binding points instead of a rigid plate, but after the bone grows over the cables or plate I doubt there is any difference. I do push ups and go mountain biking and my sternum doesn't shift at all.
Tom Elliott Hi Joe. I also had a full sternotomy and got wired shut. I've had no problems with it. The wire is no ... Read more
Tom Elliott Hi Joe. I also had a full sternotomy and got wired shut. I've had no problems with it. The wire is not enough metal to set off airport scanners; I don't know if that's the case with plates or not.
I'm not a lawyer (nor do I play one on television), but I have a mix of work activities similar to what you describe. I was back at work part time in six weeks, which crept up to full time by eight weeks.
I would caution you not to make too many or too aggressive commitments about returning to work, not to others and more importantly not to yourself. Heart surgery is a big deal, and the body and mind need whatever time they need to recover.
Good luck to you!
Joe __ Thanks so much for all the advice and sharing. I won't be racing back to work, but it does seem that ... Read more
Joe __ Thanks so much for all the advice and sharing. I won't be racing back to work, but it does seem that people are up and about able to function pretty soon after release and that we all gradually recuperate as our bodies allow us. I'm hoping for a repair and a mini-sternotomy, which a few surgeons have now said is very likely. Apparently, the healing time gets cut a bit so hopefully I'll be able to ease back into it, keep up with emails, and maybe start off part time and back into full time. Thankfully, it's summer and there's typically a bit of a lull with everyone on vacation and the like. Back to the BBQ. It's not today at least, so I'm going to try to enjoy things while I can.
I'm about 25 min outside Philly and considering Penn for my AVR and aneurysm surgery with Dr Bavaraia. Wondering if anyone has any experience with the surgeon ...Read more
I'm about 25 min outside Philly and considering Penn for my AVR and aneurysm surgery with Dr Bavaraia. Wondering if anyone has any experience with the surgeon or facility. It's close to home and familiar (went to the Law School). Many have pointed me to Dr Svensson at Cleveland Clinic. Sent in full records for initial screening but his staff didn't provide an analysis with much specificity. To their credit, the screening is different than going in to see the doc in person and my expectations may have been set incorrectly about the service as I've heard nothing but praise for that group. Anyhow, also worrisome of traveling a far distance and how that may play into recovery/post op follow up. Another recent option is Dr Stewart at Mt Sinai in NYC, who we've met with too. Some days I think I know what I'm looking for in a surgeon and facility, other days I have no clue. If someone could promise me I'll be fine and repaired well rather than replaced I'd go with them, but that can't happen, so soliciting some perspectives from you all that have been through it. Thanks!
Barry Van Gemert If convenience takes you to a lower rated facility and surgeon, that would be a big mistake that you ... Read more
Barry Van Gemert If convenience takes you to a lower rated facility and surgeon, that would be a big mistake that you could end up regretting.
MB Carstens I am going to get my mitral valve repair done at Penn and have been very pleased so far with the doct ... Read more
MB Carstens I am going to get my mitral valve repair done at Penn and have been very pleased so far with the doctors and treatment. I have heard wonderful things about all of the doctors at Penn, Bavaria included. I would be happy to walk you through my experience so far.
Tammy Pilcher Hi Joe, I traveled to Orlando from my home in northwest Florida (7 hour drive) to get a highly rated ... Read more
Tammy Pilcher Hi Joe, I traveled to Orlando from my home in northwest Florida (7 hour drive) to get a highly rated surgeon and hospital I found on this site. I am so glad I did! I was released on a Tuesday after having surgery on Friday. It took an extra hour coming home, because we stopped each hour to walk around a few minutes. I sat in the back seat with my heart pillow and a big pillow. I was very comfortable and the ride was well worth getting my great results! I did have my BAV replaced with a bovine valve, but that would have been the case anywhere. My valve was critical with an AVA of 0.39cm2. Repair wasn't an option. I also got an aortic root enlargement with a Dacron patch. I agree with Barry that you need to go to a hospital and surgeon that does high volumes with great successes even if it's not as convenient. Prayers and best wishes on your decision!
I just want to add that I'm not saying your local choices aren't highly rated, because I haven't checked.
Barry Van Gemert US News does not rate the cardiology department at Penn very high, while Cleveland and Mt. Sinai are ... Read more
Barry Van Gemert US News does not rate the cardiology department at Penn very high, while Cleveland and Mt. Sinai are world class. Not to say you can't have a good outcome at Penn, but obviously you would be taking your chances.
Wiliam Height Looks like you're doing your research properly in that you've contacted two of the best. Just keep a ... Read more
Wiliam Height Looks like you're doing your research properly in that you've contacted two of the best. Just keep asking questions to help you get the answers you need to make your decision. There are people here that make a decision based on convenience or go to local regional and as said above that is a mistake.
MB Carstens All 3 are ranked within the top ten in the nation - not too shabby
See US News hospital ratings for heart disease & heart surgery, including reputation, patient safety, nurse staffing, and advanced technology.
Barry Van Gemert What Penn hospital is being considered here? U Penn Presby is rated well, but Penn hospital in Philad ... Read more
Barry Van Gemert What Penn hospital is being considered here? U Penn Presby is rated well, but Penn hospital in Philadelphia is not.
Joe __ Hospital at the University of Pennsylvania is the local hospital. It's highly rated; I think #7 nati ... Read more
Joe __ Hospital at the University of Pennsylvania is the local hospital. It's highly rated; I think #7 nationally for Cardio, but those ratings aren't specific to aortic surgery - rather, they group all of cardio together. Im pretty confident That any of these surgeons I'm considering is top notch. I'm moreso wondering how often those who chose to travel farther away had to go back after release? And did you directly return home once released or stick around near the Hospital for a bit?
Tammy Pilcher Joe, I came home the day I was released. My surgeon told me since I lived so far away I could do my ... Read more
Tammy Pilcher Joe, I came home the day I was released. My surgeon told me since I lived so far away I could do my follow up with him over the phone and let my cardiologist here check my incision or we could do face time online. He said he wouldn't need to see me again unless I was having problems. I saw my cardiologist 2 weeks after my surgery like he said and I've been fine. I go for my first echo since surgery next week. I'll have that done here with my cardiologist once a year.
Tammy Pilcher Joe, I forgot to tell you I'm a little over 6 months post op.
Wiliam Height I didn't find the 6 week follow up for my MVR to be a full battery of tests or that significant. You ... Read more
Wiliam Height I didn't find the 6 week follow up for my MVR to be a full battery of tests or that significant. You will leave any facility and return to the care of your cardiologist. I personally didn't go for overall hospital rankings but more who I believed to be the best surgeon and surgical team for my condition. You feel any of the surgeons you are considering is top notch, so I think you have your answer.
Ben Hyman I also don't consider US News and World Report to be a good indicator of skills for Heart Valve Surge ... Read more
Ben Hyman I also don't consider US News and World Report to be a good indicator of skills for Heart Valve Surgery. The report is pretty generic to cover all types of Heart Surgery and Cardiology. Heart Valve Surgery is pretty specialized and some of the best hospitals listed may not even offer that procedure or only do a few of them. I'm looking at Abbott Northwestern in Minneapolis and it's rated 29th overall. However it's rated almost as high as Mayo which is the number two hospital behind Cleveland Clinic. I would rate the surgeons at that facility against any top hospital in the country
Ray Lockhart I'm from North Jersey and have chosen to go to Cleveland Clinic. I am a little worried about the sev ... Read more
Ray Lockhart I'm from North Jersey and have chosen to go to Cleveland Clinic. I am a little worried about the seven hour car ride home, but others have reassured me that it will not be a big deal. I have been going to CCF for annual echoes and evaluations for the past thirteen years so in my case there is really no reason to go elsewhere. My surgeon is Dr. Joseph Sabik, the same surgeon I had selected thirteen years ago (another story). So far, I have not had the anxiety that others describe. I believe the most dangerous part of the procedure will be the drive out and back. But then, I have had thirteen years to digest the situation. Hang in there. You will be fine.
New here. Scared out of my mind. Procrastinating over Surgery date. Late 30s guy diagnosed with Bicuspid Aortic Valve and Ascending Aortic Aneurysm 1/1/15 ...Read more
New here. Scared out of my mind. Procrastinating over Surgery date. Late 30s guy diagnosed with Bicuspid Aortic Valve and Ascending Aortic Aneurysm 1/1/15 (Happy New Year!) after a first and only bout of A-fib. No other symptoms, still feel fine. Detected on echo before discharge next day. Valve repair candidate with great odds (85% likely can be repaired), but have to figure out a plan B as well. Curious as to views on mechanical v. tissue, especially at my age. Of course, how much is this gonna, well, suck? No other way to really describe it. That's my other primary question. Help?
Tim Goff joe it is normal to be apprehensive or scared, but if you trust in the medical evaluation then surger ... Read more
Tim Goff joe it is normal to be apprehensive or scared, but if you trust in the medical evaluation then surgery is far less scary than the alternative. You will find plenty of people here with a similar condition to your own. Reach out to them and get informed. The heart brothers and sisters are here for you.
Jason Lathrop It is very scary, like a bomb going off in your life. I just went through a mitral valve repair and a ... Read more
Jason Lathrop It is very scary, like a bomb going off in your life. I just went through a mitral valve repair and am healing with excellent results (3 weeks out). You (and modern medicine) can handle this. Research and trust. You will be okay.
Tammy Pilcher Hi Joe, welcome to the site! I had my BAV replaced with a bovine tissue valve almost 6 months ago. ... Read more
Tammy Pilcher Hi Joe, welcome to the site! I had my BAV replaced with a bovine tissue valve almost 6 months ago. I've done great and it wasn't as bad as I anticipated. I was 50 at that time. If I can answer any questions, I will and you're welcome to read my journal about my surgery experience. Prayers and best wishes!
Rodrigo Ponce Heart surgery is scary, but the prospect of getting worse and eventually dying if I didn't do somethi ... Read more
Rodrigo Ponce Heart surgery is scary, but the prospect of getting worse and eventually dying if I didn't do something was even scarier.
I am 37 years old, and 6 weeks ago I had aortic valve replacement surgery due to BAV. I was diagnosed with moderate aortic stenosis.
I chose a mechanical valve because with a tissue valve, at least, I'd be facing two more surgeries or possibly three. Whatever you decide, you'll make the right choice for you. But you have to stop procrastinating about your surgery because the sooner you do it the better it will be for you and your family
Pat Bluemel I'm 42 and went with tissue for the same diagnosis. I'm accident prone and didn't want to worry abou ... Read more
Pat Bluemel I'm 42 and went with tissue for the same diagnosis. I'm accident prone and didn't want to worry about bleeding events. I'll likely go mechanical next go round when hopefully, they can do the procedure with TAVR. I went in for repair with the same likelyhood as yours and my valve was too far gone. I'm cool with the outcome. What is your Anny measuring? You don't want to dissect, that would be bad news. Make sure to get a second opinion so you know without a doubt it's go time. There are certainly sucky parts about recovering but you are young and if you have no other health situations you'll do great.
Jeff Lashins I'm 40 and I have a bicuspid aortic valve that's been a bit compromised by a bout with endocarditis. ... Read more
Jeff Lashins I'm 40 and I have a bicuspid aortic valve that's been a bit compromised by a bout with endocarditis. The surgeon is going to attempt a repair, but, if he has to replace, I'm going tissue. I lead a very active life and don't want to be on blood thinners and worried about every bump and bruise I get. At our ages, the mechanical valve won't last our lifetime. We'll need another replacement down the road anyway. And 10-15 years down the road, if I need another replacement, maybe the arthroscopic replacement will be the standard. There are so many medical advances in this cardio space these days.
Elaine Foster I had BAVR in Dec 2014 at age 58, with a bovine valve. It was a big deal, but not as bad as I had an ... Read more
Elaine Foster I had BAVR in Dec 2014 at age 58, with a bovine valve. It was a big deal, but not as bad as I had anticipated. My strength comes from the Lord who made heaven and earth. My advice is to get a second opinion. Research your Dr. and hospital.
Daniel Spurgeon I was 34 when I was diagnosed with an aortic root aneurysm. I had a healthy tricuspid valve, but the ... Read more
Daniel Spurgeon I was 34 when I was diagnosed with an aortic root aneurysm. I had a healthy tricuspid valve, but there is always a chance that after the David procedure the graft will alter the geometry of the valve enough that the valve will need replaced. I chose a tissue valve because I didn't want the lifestyle restrictions or risks that blood thinners entail. My surgeon was able to preserve my natural valve, which still seals nicely despite being sewn to an artificial aorta.
I was worried about my ansurysm, especially after reading the more recent studies about dissection diameters and variety of stimuli. I felt much better after I scheduled a date to get the inevitable surgery over with. You are part of a big club here and we understand how you feel. It is big news, so give yourself some slack while you process the news.
Jennifer Anderson The fear is worse than the actual surgery Joe, I promise! I had the same diagnosis as you and they w ... Read more
Jennifer Anderson The fear is worse than the actual surgery Joe, I promise! I had the same diagnosis as you and they were able to repair my valve and put a graft in to fix my ascending aortic root aneurysm. As far as how bad this sucks... well, scary-wise, yep this sucks, but recovery and pain-wise, surprisingly not bad! I remember opening my eyes after surgery and not really even noticing too much discomfort, just massive relief that it was done and over with. Hang in there and keep reading this blog, it offers so much comfort.
Joe __ Thanks so much for the uplifting notes. I'm closer and closer to putting on my big boy pants by the ... Read more
Joe __ Thanks so much for the uplifting notes. I'm closer and closer to putting on my big boy pants by the day but still struggling - so nice to hear these perspectives.