December 6, 2024, which was my one year anniversary of my mitral valve replacement and 3 CABGs, I played tennis. Thanks to Dr. Marc Gerdisch and his staff ...Read more
December 6, 2024, which was my one year anniversary of my mitral valve replacement and 3 CABGs, I played tennis. Thanks to Dr. Marc Gerdisch and his staff for giving me this gift! Thanks to Adam for the educational information! 17 months later and I’m still able to play tennis, be with family, serve others.
Fidel Martínez Ruiz Congratulations, David, I´m also a"mitral valve replaced", 1 and half years ago and was a good amat... Read more
Fidel Martínez Ruiz Congratulations, David, I´m also a"mitral valve replaced", 1 and half years ago and was a good amateur tennis player. I´m very glad seeing you playing after surgery. Now, practice mountain hiking with friends every week and gym. I think is important to keep your heart in good conditions, as long as you don't push it to the limit. By the way, which is your favorite shot, drive or backhand? (lol). think last one.
Marie Myers Great post, and congratulations on your successful surgery!
Deena Z Nothing spells success than being able to go back to your normal life or even more. Congrats
Adam Pick Wow! You make the HVS gear look fantastic! Thanks for your support David!
Rebecca J Thanks for sharing your story and the updates along the way. I have mitral valve repair schedule with ... Read more
Rebecca J Thanks for sharing your story and the updates along the way. I have mitral valve repair schedule with Dr. Gerdish in April. Very happy about the rapid recovery protocol.
David Rasmusson Yes, Rebecca, that’s what compelled me to go to Doctor Gerdisch in Indianapolis even though there a ... Read more
David Rasmusson Yes, Rebecca, that’s what compelled me to go to Doctor Gerdisch in Indianapolis even though there are competent cardio thoracic surgeons here in Louisville. His use of plates more than wires was also compelling. His staff was very professional and responsive. Although impatient with recovery because I occasionally still need an afternoon nap, I shouldn’t complain because I started playing tennis again just 4 weeks after my mitral valve replacement and 3CABGs! It’s been 12 weeks and each day is better. You’ll do great!
Rebecca J Thanks for the update. Great mobility playing tennis 4 weeks after - guess at 12 weeks the sternum is ... Read more
Rebecca J Thanks for the update. Great mobility playing tennis 4 weeks after - guess at 12 weeks the sternum is, or is about, all the way healed. I hope the occasional needed nap doesn’t come with any lasting discomfort. How fortunate we are to have such a repairable structural condition.
I had my mitral valve replacement and 3 CABGs on 12/6/23 performed by Dr. Marc Gerdisch at Greenwood Indiana’s Franciscan hospital. Today, 1/5/24, 4 weeks ...Read more
I had my mitral valve replacement and 3 CABGs on 12/6/23 performed by Dr. Marc Gerdisch at Greenwood Indiana’s Franciscan hospital. Today, 1/5/24, 4 weeks and 2 days later, I played tennis! Admittedly, I got winded after only 30 minutes of hitting and took a breather, but it’s progress! Thanks Dr. Gerdisch, and Cindy and the rest of his staff.
Rose Madura David, that's great news and glad all is well! ❤️🩹👍
Marie Myers Wow, tennis after 4 weeks!! That is a fast recovery. Try not to do too much, too fast..
Valerie Allen That seems it would pull on your incision?
David Rasmusson No pulling sensation from the incision or the sternum. Dr. Gerdisch primarily uses plates to secure t ... Read more
David Rasmusson No pulling sensation from the incision or the sternum. Dr. Gerdisch primarily uses plates to secure the sternum. He also put me on a high protein pre- and post-op regimen to facilitate healing, so perhaps that alleviated incision discomfort. I have a one-handed backhand which cause me to really stretch open my chest at the end of the swing, but there wasn’t any problem doing so.
12/6, surgery day: mitral valve replacement and 3 CABGs; procedure started at noon-ish; valve needed replacement instead of repaired because ...Read more
12/6, surgery day: mitral valve replacement and 3 CABGs; procedure started at noon-ish; valve needed replacement instead of repaired because of rheumatic fever effects I must have incurred in my youth; wife and adult daughter saw me briefly in ICU recovery that night; not awake; thankfully breathing tube was able to be removed before while still in OR; my wife said that my daughter turned green seeing me with breathing mask and so many tubes, IVs, equipment in and around me.12/7, recovery day 1: awake! Wife relieved to see me sitting up in bed talking. Began so many pills, jabs, and other sleep interruptions. Great ICU RNs! Either my wife or daughter stayed at my bedside during visiting hours, but I was mostly sleeping with intermittent awake conversation times.12/9, Sat, recovery day 3: moved to step-down unit (a day later because none had been available); only wanted to eat applesauce but worked on a couple of bites of other things; very tired of drinking protein “shakes.” One of two drainage tube removed, so it stopped poking me on my left side whenever I used the breathing incentive spirometer (“torture device” as I so named it). Moved from bed to recliner, seemed more comfortable. Never had had trouble swallowing pills but started resenting those horse-sized potassium pills even when broken in two; “stop with the pills already!”; late day intestinal cramping and diarrhea (discovered later that my digestive tract does not cope well with lettuce since having surgery). Always painful to cough, and needed to cough several times. Painful to blow nose, too.
12/10, Sun, recovery day 4: intestines feeling much better, I’m feeling much better. Respiratory, physical and occupational therapists all give the okay for discharge; surgeon gives the green light and orders second tube removed and portable pace maker wires removed and neck tube removed—free at last! Alas, no meds-to-beds on Sundays so discharge is moved to Monday.12/11, Mon, recovery day 5: Dr. Gerdisch and crew visits one last time during morning rounds—he tore me apart and put me back together again and I’m a mess, but I love him for his unmatched competence, his comprehensive treatment plan, and his remarkable team he’s put together! (I can’t say that enough! Fantastic!) Was discharged; wife and daughter checked out of hotel; I slept during the 2-hour drive to home.12/12, Tue, recovery day 6, home day 2: my darling wife had ordered a shower stool and it felt great to just sit in the shower; slept a lot, all comfortably in a recliner, without being woken up to be jabbed, poked, vitals taken, respiratory therapied, physical therapied, occupational therapied—it was great to have moved on from that! Yet there were still the pills, pills, and pills. Walking around a very little bit using the walker. I was surprised to see my left thigh so thoroughly black and blue because of the vein harvesting.12/13, Wed, recovery day 7, home day 3: home health visiting RN visited with orders from Dr. Gerdisch’s team to check vitals, pain management, and ask mental health questions—all doing well. Scheduled home health RN for following week visit to do the same and to remove stitches.12/16, Sat, recovery day 10, home day 6: about 4 hours of feeling lucid and human again like I might be back to being me, starting at 5am and ending about 9am. Walking a bit more around the house with the walker. Have been reading and streaming when awake. “When will this end?!”; meals have become appealing. My wife is an angel!12/17, Sun, recovery day 11, home day 7: severe intestinal cramps and diarrhea; discovered it was eating lettuce that triggered it; my digestive system was not yet ready for lettuce. A miserable day.12/18, Mon, recovery day 12, home day 8: pain has been managed throughout with medications and Tylenol, so no issues there for the most part. Feeling so much better. Ditched the walker. Started 10-minute daily walks outside but had to stop 4 times to catch my breath. Sleeping enough and in recliner. Video medical follow-up reviewed condition and meds; reduced a couple (sorry I can’t remember which ones). Actually WANT, for a few minutes anyway, to do things as some vitality was restored, but I napped a lot.12/20, Wed, recovery day 14, home day 9: home health RN checked vitals and pain, and removed stitches. One or two fewer pills—my wife was tracking that so I don’t know which ones. But I still took and am still taking Tylenol, a muscle relaxant and nerve medication neurontin to manage pain. Really feeling much more like myself; walked outside for 15 minutes. Hungry enough that no sodium (or very little) and no sugars (except fruits) was no problem.12/21, Thu, recovery day 15, home day 10: walked outside for 45 minutes stopping only 4 times to rest a minute. Wife drove me to the shopping mall to get a Christmas gift, and I walked from parking lot into the mall—a miracle, not because of my condition but rather because it’s a shopping mall. Feeling so much better. Still sleeping in the comfy recliner. Worked on website; paid bills; made my own breakfast, put away clean dishes, chased down a spider, set table, vacuum a very little bit (hurt some) then napped for 2 hours from the exertion. The area around the center of my chest is numb, which is a new sensation. I’ve reduced my diuretic. Weight has stabilized. My left thigh’s, the vein harvest area’s, black-and-blueness has reduced; and it weeps whatever clear fluid. It’s still painful to cough or blow my nose. I tire very quickly.22/22, Fri, TODAY, recovery day 16, home day 11: ambitious enough to write all these my prattlings. I slept 6 straight hours last night without bathroom break interruptions. I’m really feeling positive, stronger, more like me. Hope for an even better day springs eternal!
Rita Savelis It's good to write it all out. Thanks for your detailed information.
Grace Mason Keep up the walking David, each week will be better. Funny, the part about a miracle walking into the ... Read more
Grace Mason Keep up the walking David, each week will be better. Funny, the part about a miracle walking into the Mall 😄
Pamela Gregory Things are looking up! Sounds like a little better each day which is what I thought too. Glad you ar... Read more
Pamela Gregory Things are looking up! Sounds like a little better each day which is what I thought too. Glad you are on the mend
Larry Peterson Sounds like great progress, David. Always good to read a detailed description from another heart war ... Read more
Larry Peterson Sounds like great progress, David. Always good to read a detailed description from another heart warrior. I'm on day 18 home, walking quite a bit. Sleep still tough in recliner at times.
John Foreman Thanks for your recovery details. Good to see how you’re progressing in your recovery. My surgery i ... Read more
John Foreman Thanks for your recovery details. Good to see how you’re progressing in your recovery. My surgery is January 18 th.
DeWayne Adamson A couple weeks ahead of you but you sound on about the same timeline. The difference between day 16 a ... Read more
DeWayne Adamson A couple weeks ahead of you but you sound on about the same timeline. The difference between day 16 and day 30 is dramatic. I sometimes forget I had an operation and then do dumb things like lifting to much or walking too far. Thanks for the detailed recap!
Deena Z Great, detailed summary. Sharing the wisdom!
J Alexander Lassally Agree. Nice to see that progression, which we can forget about. I am at day 26 now - and need to remi ... Read more
J Alexander Lassally Agree. Nice to see that progression, which we can forget about. I am at day 26 now - and need to remind myself this all the time !
Pamela Gregory Hooray! You look fantastic and happy to be home. Take is easy at rehab.
Barbara deLoache Wow.. You do look terrific.. very encouraging… keep up the good work! My surgery will be in 2024. I ... Read more
Barbara deLoache Wow.. You do look terrific.. very encouraging… keep up the good work! My surgery will be in 2024. I hope i can do as well as you have!!!
Grace Mason You would never know you had surgery David! Enjoy your rehab! Awesome to get started so quickly.
David Rasmusson Thanks All, but you realize this photo was given my best effort.
Marianne posting again. Did anyone have trouble with the respiratory exercises? David is in a lot of pain when he breathes deeply.
Jeff Williams It was almost impossible for me in the hospital. I think it took a couple of weeks to start feeling l ... Read more
Jeff Williams It was almost impossible for me in the hospital. I think it took a couple of weeks to start feeling less terrible. Just do what you can and it will get better.
Jennifer Fuller Yes, it hurts. I just did the exercises as well as I could without causing too much pain. Eventually, ... Read more
Jennifer Fuller Yes, it hurts. I just did the exercises as well as I could without causing too much pain. Eventually, as everything heals, the pain lessens and lessens. At six weeks out, I can breathe deeply without pain.
J Alexander Lassally Yes it was painful and I paced myself. One can't fight the body too much the first few days - that i ... Read more
J Alexander Lassally Yes it was painful and I paced myself. One can't fight the body too much the first few days - that is my philosophy...
Richard Munson I am assuming we are talking about the little breathing doo hicky they provide in the hospital. I was ... Read more
Richard Munson I am assuming we are talking about the little breathing doo hicky they provide in the hospital. I was instructed that it was pretty important. I tried to make a game out of it competing with my roomie in the hospital then against myself at home.
DeWayne Adamson Just do it to the point you don't induce pain.
Susan Lynn The incentive spirometer is designed to improve breathing over time. Lung capacity will increase sl... Read more
Susan Lynn The incentive spirometer is designed to improve breathing over time. Lung capacity will increase slowly. David will want to try to breathe a little deeper, each time he uses it, but he should resist the temptation to try to fully inflate his lungs. Patience is definitely a virtue when it comes to recovery. He'll see progress every week!
Richard Munson Susan, i knew spirometer was better than doo hicky.
Brady Busch I was given one during my pre-surgery days,brought it to the hospital and was given another while the ... Read more
Brady Busch I was given one during my pre-surgery days,brought it to the hospital and was given another while there.They never pushed me to use it.One time,a nurse came in my room,while I was practicing and gave a positive comment.Getting up and walking,was mostly encouraged.
Susan Lynn Richard - I actually prefer doo hicky! Like Brady, no one really held me to using it all that much,... Read more
Susan Lynn Richard - I actually prefer doo hicky! Like Brady, no one really held me to using it all that much, but I wish I used it more. I think some of the SOB I experienced in the beginning of recovery could have been reduced.
Ann T For me I found that making sure I was keeping up with the pain medication helped me to do the breathi ... Read more
Ann T For me I found that making sure I was keeping up with the pain medication helped me to do the breathing exercises more effectively. Hope that helps some.
Rose Madura I always wondered if I tried harder to do the doo hickey, if I would not have had the kind of issues ... Read more
Rose Madura I always wondered if I tried harder to do the doo hickey, if I would not have had the kind of issues that I had - i.e. pleural effusion. Or is there no connection?
Rita Savelis Surgery is hard on the lungs. These exercices help them open up again. But they are hard. So take it ... Read more
Rita Savelis Surgery is hard on the lungs. These exercices help them open up again. But they are hard. So take it slow. They are important to do, but at your own pace. Everyone's lungs havd a different experience going through heart surgery. Take care.
Abhishek Sharma It will be better and better over time.. but for few days it hard to take deep breath.. after 1.5-2 ... Read more
Abhishek Sharma It will be better and better over time.. but for few days it hard to take deep breath.. after 1.5-2 months it will be much strength in lungs.. try deep breathing exercises don't worry about pain it will slowly goes away..
Chase Garrett My surgery was Oct 31st. I did well with the spirometer because I practiced with one for a couple of weeks before the surgery.
The first week was the worst for me. I developed post surgery afib, but it went away after a couple of days. I think due to that, I couldn't sleep at all. After 7 days, I took a Tylenol PM and finally started to sleep 3 hours, then another, then 6 that night. I woke up every hour to use the bathroom. The diuretic was doing its job.
My afib came back after a couple of weeks, after I started trying to jog a bit. My lungs opened up, from the deep breathing while trying to jog, but it triggered the afib. That lasted 5 days, until I figured out the jogging had triggered it. When I went back to just walking, the afib went away. ... Read more
Chase Garrett My surgery was Oct 31st. I did well with the spirometer because I practiced with one for a couple of weeks before the surgery.
The first week was the worst for me. I developed post surgery afib, but it went away after a couple of days. I think due to that, I couldn't sleep at all. After 7 days, I took a Tylenol PM and finally started to sleep 3 hours, then another, then 6 that night. I woke up every hour to use the bathroom. The diuretic was doing its job.
My afib came back after a couple of weeks, after I started trying to jog a bit. My lungs opened up, from the deep breathing while trying to jog, but it triggered the afib. That lasted 5 days, until I figured out the jogging had triggered it. When I went back to just walking, the afib went away.
I bought a Kardia Mobile device to check for afib for $79 on Amazon. I take my blood pressure and check for afib daily. I'm 6 weeks out and feel great. Just need naps everyday and I think that's from the medication. I take a half metoprolol 2 daily and amiodarone twice daily.
Started feeling really good at about 4 weeks. Time will pass quickly. Get well soon, Brother
Marianne posting here. We’re at the end of day two. Had some pain during the night, but got it under control today. One drainage tube and the arterial ...Read more
Marianne posting here. We’re at the end of day two. Had some pain during the night, but got it under control today. One drainage tube and the arterial line out today.
Tim Leak Just hang in there David, I am one year 3 months post surgery. Every day will get better. The first f ... Read more
Tim Leak Just hang in there David, I am one year 3 months post surgery. Every day will get better. The first few days after surgery are rough once those tubes come out YOU WILL BE FEELING SO MUCH BETTER. Just think positive and do your part to help your care team get you well, and trust them !!. It gets better
Larry Peterson Not long now David, and you will be free from drain lines, IV's, suction pumps, and sensor leads! It ... Read more
Larry Peterson Not long now David, and you will be free from drain lines, IV's, suction pumps, and sensor leads! It will feel GREAT!
Deena Z Moving way faster through the post surgery process than most of us. - thought it might make you fee... Read more
Deena Z Moving way faster through the post surgery process than most of us. - thought it might make you feel good to know that.
Rich Butela Nice to get those tubes out. All the best on your recovery
Rose Madura Wow. it was 3 days before I got my tubes out. It did feel good. Stay strong.
Sharon Behl My chest tube drains were in for a full week. No medical person seemed overly alarmed, just watchful. ... Read more
Sharon Behl My chest tube drains were in for a full week. No medical person seemed overly alarmed, just watchful. We all heal different aspects of this adventure at different rates. Take it easy.
Deena Z Sharon, my tubes were in for 5.5 days at Mt. Sinai. too. I wonder if places have different protoco... Read more
Deena Z Sharon, my tubes were in for 5.5 days at Mt. Sinai. too. I wonder if places have different protocols for this? The tubes didn't bother me; maybe because I don't have as much muscle as some of the younger warriors or men.
Day 2 Still in ICU because no step-down bed available. Walked 30 yards. Fatigued. One of the chest tubes painful at bottom of exhale. Entire ...Read more
Day 2 Still in ICU because no step-down bed available. Walked 30 yards. Fatigued. One of the chest tubes painful at bottom of exhale. Entire chest aches, so medicine give that relieved some pain. Catheter out. Dieretic caused a lot of peeing into urnal jar. Ace bandages from vein harvesting leg removed. 11:00pm walked 50 yards or so to step-down bed. Sleeping periodically. Respiratory exercise get better results. Coughing up phlegm occasionally, and it’s painful to do so. Progress!
Pamela Gregory Hang in there David! You can see progress already in 2 days. 2 more days and you will be much farthe... Read more
Pamela Gregory Hang in there David! You can see progress already in 2 days. 2 more days and you will be much farther along. Use a pillow for coughing and try to keep walking. You are doing great!
Valerie Allen Keep on keepin’ on. If you were ready for step down you are doing well. Progress!
Rich Butela Sounds like you're doing great. Keep that positive attitude, it will serve you well
Grace Mason Great job David! Your warrior spirit is evident 💖
Went from pre-op to wheels in the OR at 12:15-ish. A mutual valve replacement and 3 CABGs and a Lima later, out into IC U at 7:15. Slept (without airway tube ...Read more
Went from pre-op to wheels in the OR at 12:15-ish. A mutual valve replacement and 3 CABGs and a Lima later, out into IC U at 7:15. Slept (without airway tube in throat) a lot and woke intermittently for them to check on me. At 6:15 am I was moved to chair and in a reclining position. Still with oxygen in my nostrils. My mouth was so dry it was difficult to, but I now drank a high protein drink with an ice water chaser. I’m a bit dizzy any my chest aches ever slightly. It was difficult to type this so I hope it makes sense.
Susan Lynn If you can remember all those details and type, you're doing great! Take it easy - you'll probably ... Read more
Susan Lynn If you can remember all those details and type, you're doing great! Take it easy - you'll probably be feeling the residual anesthesia working its way out of your system, today. Sleep if you can. Walk, rest, repeat when you're ready. Wishing you continued success!
Marie Myers I am always amazed at warriors who can post so quickly! I was a lump of jelly for several days…I wo ... Read more
Marie Myers I am always amazed at warriors who can post so quickly! I was a lump of jelly for several days…I would agree with Susan Lynn; if you can remember all that and post, you are in good shape!!
Deena Z Ditto, Susan and Marie. You may have the fastest surgery rebound ever seen on HVS! Way to Go, David! ... Read more
Deena Z Ditto, Susan and Marie. You may have the fastest surgery rebound ever seen on HVS! Way to Go, David!!!!
Rose Madura Amazing. I remember the dry, dry mouth. You are doing great. Keep up the good work!
Did the 2-hour drive up from Louisville, KY, to Greenwood, IN (south of Indy) to be by Franciscan Hospital. Got a bit of sleep last night. Now on my way to ...Read more
Did the 2-hour drive up from Louisville, KY, to Greenwood, IN (south of Indy) to be by Franciscan Hospital. Got a bit of sleep last night. Now on my way to be admitted into surgery. Thanks for all your well-wishes and prayers.
Deena Z Almost to recovery. Focus on the prize:) And don't hesitate to ask for ANYTHING you want, post surge ... Read more
Deena Z Almost to recovery. Focus on the prize:) And don't hesitate to ask for ANYTHING you want, post surgery.
Finished the high protein drink regimen yesterday. Starting the carb drink today, the day before surgery.
Susan Lynn Good for you, David! Wishing you all the best, tomorrow! We'll be waiting to welcome you to rec... Read more
Susan Lynn Good for you, David! Wishing you all the best, tomorrow! We'll be waiting to welcome you to recovery!
Ana Brusso Looking good David. Lifted you up in prayer for your successful surgery tomorrow. God bless you 🙏 ... Read more
Ana Brusso Looking good David. Lifted you up in prayer for your successful surgery tomorrow. God bless you 🙏❤️
Valerie Allen We will be praying for you tomorrow. Our best wishes for a smooth surgery and recovery!
Grace Mason Sending prayers and well wishes David 🙏🏼❤️. You will be in recovery in a blink
Deena Z David, wow, you were given some additional "ammunition" going-in. And now you are almost to recovery ... Read more
Deena Z David, wow, you were given some additional "ammunition" going-in. And now you are almost to recovery. (finally) When you wake-up you will be beyond weak/exhausted, but know that is normal. Yet know your heart starts healing faster than I ever would have imagined. Every day you will get immensely stronger. Godspeed.
Adam Pick That's great David. "Carb-load" it up. For those of you interested to learn more about the Rapid Rec ... Read more
Adam Pick That's great David. "Carb-load" it up. For those of you interested to learn more about the Rapid Recovery Protocol 2.0 that David is following, here's a video to check out. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BxDtIONg9Hc
https://www.HeartValveSurgery.com - New medical advances for the pre- and post-operative care of heart surgery patients are leading to accelerated recoveries...
Rose Madura I think this program is awesome. I am anxious to hear how much difference you feel it made. Godspeed ... Read more
Rose Madura I think this program is awesome. I am anxious to hear how much difference you feel it made. Godspeed. Please update us when you feel up to it!
Deena Z Thanks, Adam. I hear ya, Rose. Fascinating. Hope it catches on elsewhere!
Because my pulse rate is on the slow side I apparently have a higher possibility of post-operative fibrillation. To help prevent it, I been taking 200mg of ...Read more
Because my pulse rate is on the slow side I apparently have a higher possibility of post-operative fibrillation. To help prevent it, I been taking 200mg of amiodarone 3 times a day prior to my procedure.
Marie Myers Interesting info! Did not know that correlation.
Valerie Allen My pulse rate is low. About 53. What is yours? I should ask my surgeon. Thanks for mentioning.
Larry Peterson David, just had my procedure last Thursday (AOV and AO aneurysym), and developed Afib on Saturday. M ... Read more
Larry Peterson David, just had my procedure last Thursday (AOV and AO aneurysym), and developed Afib on Saturday. My normal heart rate is often in the low or mid-50's. Don't know if it correlates or not. Anyway they beat it back with heavy duty IV amiodarone and it converted back to sinus on Sunday afternoon. I'm now on oral amniodarone for 30 days to keep it from coming back.
David Rasmusson Thanks for sharing, Larry. I may be a candidate for just that treatment.
Halfway through my course of very high protein drink taken as part of Dr. Gerdisch’s pre-operative regimen for my 12/6 procedure.
Rose Madura I like Dr Gerdisch's approach of "pre-hab". I think it will help!👍
Jennifer Fuller I was on a similar regimen. It wasn’t terrible, but I was glad when I finished the last one!
Deena Z That’s a really smart idea!! Dr. G thinks of every aspect/angle that can help his patient. Not jus ... Read more
Deena Z That’s a really smart idea!! Dr. G thinks of every aspect/angle that can help his patient. Not just a successful surgery, but also a faster and easier recovery. I’ve gathered this viewpoint from watching his webinars etc.
Grace Mason Really like the ERAS protocols. It says to me a more complete concern for patient well being, which i ... Read more
Grace Mason Really like the ERAS protocols. It says to me a more complete concern for patient well being, which in turn inspires confidence in your care.
Hi, this is Marianne. I’m David’s wife. Does anyone have any advice on caregiving and support through this? What was helpful to you during your recovery? ...Read more
Hi, this is Marianne. I’m David’s wife. Does anyone have any advice on caregiving and support through this? What was helpful to you during your recovery?
Deena Z Good question, Marianne! My husband made meals and brought them to my bed the first several days ... Read more
Deena Z Good question, Marianne! My husband made meals and brought them to my bed the first several days home; brought me a shower chair (which I needed for my showers the first week. -washing hair was a lot of energy); arranged and rearranged the pillows (many times) because my back and shoulder ached so much; brought me the heating pad for my back and incision; and told me many many times to slow down.
Jennifer Fuller All those things Deena said! But most importantly, listen! My husband sometimes wanted to focus time ... Read more
Jennifer Fuller All those things Deena said! But most importantly, listen! My husband sometimes wanted to focus time and energy on things I didn’t really care about, and didn’t always act on the things I did care about. He wasn’t doing this intentionally, he just seemed to be thinking about what his preferences would be in this situation, instead of just listening.
Grace Mason Some of the best advice immediately post surgery I received, Deena suggested, scope out places to buy ... Read more
Grace Mason Some of the best advice immediately post surgery I received, Deena suggested, scope out places to buy a protein smoothie. My throat was so sore it was difficult to talk and eating did not appeal at all. My husband brought me a protein smoothie every day in the hospital sometimes more than one and I gratefully drank every one of them👍🏼
Rose Madura The doctors noticed how attentive my Richard was so they kept reminding him to let me do as much on m ... Read more
Rose Madura The doctors noticed how attentive my Richard was so they kept reminding him to let me do as much on my own as I can. We had a shower chair and he actually washed my hair for me. One good thing is to remind him to do his Spirometer. Godspeed.
Rich Butela I think it's different for every person. I let my wife know that I did not want to be hovered over ... Read more
Rich Butela I think it's different for every person. I let my wife know that I did not want to be hovered over when I got home. When I feel bad, I like to be left alone for the most part. She is the opposite, so her instincts would be to pamper. She was very good about making sure I always had water near and bringing me treats, like her home made Ice cream!!! Communication is the key
Deb Yednak Let him lead the way. I wanted peace and quiet - didnt want to talk about it, and if I wanted anythi ... Read more
Deb Yednak Let him lead the way. I wanted peace and quiet - didnt want to talk about it, and if I wanted anything, or needed anything or wanted to be chatty, my brother stayed with me for the first week so I didnt have to go to a facility.....it worked out well, I didnt want to be fussed over.
Thanks to Dr. Marc Gerdisch and his staff ...Read more
Thanks to Dr. Marc Gerdisch and his staff for giving me this gift!
Thanks to Adam for the educational information!
17 months later and I’m still able to play tennis, be with family, serve others.