The best thing I brought to the hospital to help was a neck role that is made of terrycloth and filled with oats on the inside. You put it in the microwave to warm it up. It was the greatest thing I used stomach on my neck on my side anywhere that hurt the nurses were really accommodating with warming it up ! If you don't have one get one
Mine was from bed Bath and beyond
Bob M That sounds great! My favorite was a cherry Popsicle day after surgery.
Lora Lee Peterson I've been thinking about you a lot, Jeanette! I'm glad you are home, and that everything is pretty w ... Read more
Lora Lee Peterson I've been thinking about you a lot, Jeanette! I'm glad you are home, and that everything is pretty well. You gotta love and hate pain meds, don't you? Hopefully, you'll be off those soon, and your stomach will feel better. It's good to have your sunny self back on the site!
Meredith Bray Neck support makes a HUGE difference in alleviating back pain. That's a great idea!
Day 6... HOME!!
Journal posted on July 12, 2015
Can't wait to get up tomorrow and take a shower and wash my hair! Lots of ups and downs and feeling So grateful! I was so afraid of having a second stroke so I am thrilled that I went well.i can tell it is going to be long recovery . Unfortunately lots of issues with my stomach, no appetite, nausea SNES etc. I think it's from the pain meds and iron pills. I'm really trying to reduce payments and just take Tylenol. My new best friend is buying beautiful recliner chair that my husband bought me.
Any recovery tip so welcome. Thank you for brothers and sisters for your support❤️I truly could not have done it without you! ❤️
Bob M Great recovery! Home is where your fixed heart is. Take it easy heart sister. Here is my post after I ... Read more
Bob M Great recovery! Home is where your fixed heart is. Take it easy heart sister. Here is my post after I came home:
It was so awesome sleeping in my own bed. With 5 hours of uninterrupted sleep! It was so awesome having my own shower. It was so awesome shaving my face. And then, I was completely exhausted. Time for a nice nap back in bed. A home health care nurse came by to register me into the program. And of course the best thing to me was spending my entire day with my guardian angel, my wife Kris.
Jeanette Davidson Sounds like a good lead for me to follow. Sleeping on my recliner or as you can see up at midnight.
M ... Read more
Jeanette Davidson Sounds like a good lead for me to follow. Sleeping on my recliner or as you can see up at midnight.
May want to give my bed a chance?
Any stomach aches?
Cheryl Batzing Jeanette, so glad to hear you are home! Will pray for your continued healing and recovery. Be gentle ... Read more
Cheryl Batzing Jeanette, so glad to hear you are home! Will pray for your continued healing and recovery. Be gentle with yourself and let others help you! I don't know if you are as independent as I am, but it was really hard asking for help and slowing down. But do it! My church & friends brought me meals for the first month...and I was so grateful! Just let others know your needs is my advice. You'll get more and more independent before you know it. Blessings, heart sister!
Jeanette Davidson I have a great family support system and I am really lucky😊
Bob M Although I love my recliner, bed worked for me. No stomach aches for me. Take it easy heart sister!
Bob M Luck? I call it a blessing for you, me and our awesome Community!
Tammy Pilcher Jeanette, I'm so happy for you! Prayers for continued recovery! God bless you!
John Jones great to be home. take care of yourself
Jeanette, so glad you are healing and feeling better each day. Take good care of yourself.❤️🙏 ... Read more
Jeanette, so glad you are healing and feeling better each day. Take good care of yourself.❤️🙏
Nancy D be patient with yourself, and remember to continue the deep breathing, incentive spirometer - you nee ... Read more
Nancy D be patient with yourself, and remember to continue the deep breathing, incentive spirometer - you need to help prevent pneumonia! Also walk one more step each day- and listen to your body. When it says rest- do that! I encourage naps! Keep hydrated- your appetite will return as will your taste buds! I loved cold fruit in small quantities- Did I mention rest?? ;-)
Gerald Schaffer Welcome home! I wish I had some good ideas for you other than make sure you get your nutrition howeve ... Read more
Gerald Schaffer Welcome home! I wish I had some good ideas for you other than make sure you get your nutrition however you can, you can't get stronger without it. Like others have said get your rest also while trying to do a little more everyday. Keep the faith from what I've read here the past year or so it gets better everyday a little bit at a time. I'd make a call to your family doc also to see if there is something you can take to help with the nausea.
Duane Beeman Here is a tip. Stay away from Gilligans Island reruns. They will make you stupid
Jeanette Davidson I love fresh fruit too! Did call Doc today
First day I have put TV on . Ready for a big nap. Thx gang ... Read more
Jeanette Davidson I love fresh fruit too! Did call Doc today
First day I have put TV on . Ready for a big nap. Thx gang💕
Tim Goff Great progress Jeanette! The food aversions are strange at first, but eventually they subside. Keep u ... Read more
Tim Goff Great progress Jeanette! The food aversions are strange at first, but eventually they subside. Keep up the good work.
Ericka Carlson Jeanette, if your nausea doesn't improve it might be the Metoprolol. I had such ever nausea I lost 10 ... Read more
Ericka Carlson Jeanette, if your nausea doesn't improve it might be the Metoprolol. I had such ever nausea I lost 10 lbs, that combined with the migraines, insomnia, and vertigo meant I had to stop taking it at 2.5 weeks. Luckily I was doing so well with my pulse and BP I didn't have to find a substitute.
Rita Savelis Rest, rest, rest. And rather than iron pills eat red meat, liver, lentils and red wine.
Pain meds and other meds can cause that nausea. I used Tylenol after my second day home, So glad you ... Read more
Pain meds and other meds can cause that nausea. I used Tylenol after my second day home, So glad you are home & doing well. Sorry I didn't write on here, sooner!
Lora Lee Peterson You look great! I hope you are feeling okay, and everything is going well! Prayers keep going up fo ... Read more
Lora Lee Peterson You look great! I hope you are feeling okay, and everything is going well! Prayers keep going up for you!
Ray Lockhart Looking good! Best wishes to keep that recovery going strong!
Terrie Syvertsen Jeanette- Now aren't you just PRETTY AS A PICTURE!!!!
And there is that BEAUTIFUL SMILE we have grown ... Read more
Terrie Syvertsen Jeanette- Now aren't you just PRETTY AS A PICTURE!!!!
And there is that BEAUTIFUL SMILE we have grown to love! You have no idea how great it is to see you and your beautiful badge of survival! In the days to come I hope you find this mark to be a source of comfort that this surgery is behind you(as I do mine) and know the healing time has begun! Can't wait to read about how this time in your life effects you as it is a HUGE blessing to be given another chance to continue on any paths you choose and I think will be a tremendous asset to your counseling abilities which I'm sure have been exemplary anyway! Just adds to your gifts!
Sending you prayers of good healthy healing days ahead with the knowledge of prayers and love coming from your heart brothers and sisters! Take care!
Kelly Weisgarber So great to see you!!! Hope you are feeling better with each passing day!
Mary Myers Love your smile Jeanette! Let the healing continue! Love your heart sis .
Cheryl Batzing You look great, Jeanette! Prayers for continued healing & recovery, heart sister!
Tammy Pilcher Looking good, Jeanette! So happy for you! God bless!
Elaine Foster Praise the Lord! You look great, and that is an inspiration to those waiting. Belieiving for a quic ... Read more
Elaine Foster Praise the Lord! You look great, and that is an inspiration to those waiting. Belieiving for a quick recovery!
W. Carter Praise God, you should be an inspiration to all that are scheduled for surgery. A valve and bypass is ... Read more
W. Carter Praise God, you should be an inspiration to all that are scheduled for surgery. A valve and bypass is a super tough operation and you are sitting up, looking beautiful, and smiling! Heres hoping and praying you are up and around soon doing things that were impossible to do before the surgery. :-)
Bob M Nice scar! God bless and rise up! Take it easy heart sister!
Halleluiah.... God Bless You....
Surgery update
Journal posted on July 6, 2015
Hello everyone, my name is Greg and I am Jeanette's brother. She asked me to give an update when her surgery was completed. Her doctor said everything went smoothly, they completed the valve replacement and triple bypass. She is currently in the ICU and we are told she will be off the respirator in about 2 hours.
Thanks to all of you for your support for my sister
Wonderful, so glad to hear the news. Continued prayers for rest and healing.
Terrie Syvertsen Thank you Greg for giving us all an update for your Sister Jeanette! Thank God for watching over her ... Read more
Terrie Syvertsen Thank you Greg for giving us all an update for your Sister Jeanette! Thank God for watching over her and her medical team! Please give her our love when able and know we will continue our prayers for her to be well and begin her healing!
Patrick Dowd SWEET!!!! I look forward to hearing her experience.. She's been a great support to others. TG for the ... Read more
Patrick Dowd SWEET!!!! I look forward to hearing her experience.. She's been a great support to others. TG for the good news. Mope all goes well. You must be very happy
Mary Myers Jeanette, am so happy that all went well. Big hugs from my heart to yours!
Cheryl Batzing so glad to hear the good news, Greg, on Jeanette's successful surgery and now recovery! Prayers comin ... Read more
Cheryl Batzing so glad to hear the good news, Greg, on Jeanette's successful surgery and now recovery! Prayers coming her way continually for healing!
Steve Offenbecher Praise God you are doing well. See you on the other side this weekend.
Thank You
Journal posted on July 5, 2015
As I am settling in and getting ready for tomorrow , I want to take a moment to thank all of you. Love to you my heart brothers and sisters who have helped me so much during my suffering, anxiety and brought me peace on many days when things were really hard. Your prayers and support have meant so much to me. I can't wait to tell you my story on the other side . May God continue to bless all of you on your healing journey 💞
Kenny Knox You're going to do great! You will be going home before you know it!
Sending healing prayers and comfort your way. Your loving spirit will guide you through the next few ... Read more
Sending healing prayers and comfort your way. Your loving spirit will guide you through the next few days. Sleep well, ❤️🙏
Cheryl Batzing Jeanette, your post is very special! You are offering us all God's blessings, and you are getting "fi ... Read more
Cheryl Batzing Jeanette, your post is very special! You are offering us all God's blessings, and you are getting "fixed" tomorrow is amazing! You are in my prayers for a successful surgery, quick recovery and quick healing. Can't wait to hear update tomorrow afternoon! Blessings, your heart sister, Cheryl.
Rhonda Rawles Good luck to you tomorrow, will be thinking of you and sending prayers your way! Looking forward to ... Read more
Rhonda Rawles Good luck to you tomorrow, will be thinking of you and sending prayers your way! Looking forward to hearing from you in a few days on the other side of surgery.
Tammy Pilcher God bless you, Jeanette! You are such a special person, always encouraging and allowing Christ's lov ... Read more
Tammy Pilcher God bless you, Jeanette! You are such a special person, always encouraging and allowing Christ's love to flow through you to others. We will be praying for you and looking forward to a great post op post! You are going to do great! Hugs!! :-)
Steven A Husted yes you are going to do just fine prayers for you and looking forward to hearing from you on the othe ... Read more
Steven A Husted yes you are going to do just fine prayers for you and looking forward to hearing from you on the other side
Steve Offenbecher Bless you and if you get anxious, pray for Gods wisdom and guidance. I go in Friday so see you on the ... Read more
Steve Offenbecher Bless you and if you get anxious, pray for Gods wisdom and guidance. I go in Friday so see you on the other side.
Coming To Know God Through Suffering
Journal posted on July 4, 2015
"COMING TO KNOW GOD THROUGH MY SUFFERING"
As an eight-year-old girl, I vividly remember going on a spiritual retreat. I can still bring myself back to the joy that I felt in my heart as I came to know the Light of Jesus alive inside myself. From that moment on, I had a hunger to be more like God and live a humanitarian and spiritual life. As I grew older, I began to face many of life's challenges and had a hard time dealing with human suffering. Confusion, anger and disbelief became new feelings to me.
I had cancer when I was 35 years old, and was a single mother needing to go on welfare to survive. I remember praying to God the day of my diagnosis and asking Him, "How could You possibly add this to my plate Lord,due to my current circumstances." I knew I must draw closer to Him instead of questioning His plan for me as hard as that seemed. That is when the Lord became a waterfall in my life. He would speak to me through others. I began to learn that if my heart was open and I would see Him in everyone and everything , He would reveal himself to me. Divine serendipitous moments came to me often. While I was undergoing extensive radiation treatment, I remember feeling moments of peace. I would lie in my bed in the afternoon resting and literally feel a beam of light directly coming to my body. I suffered, but nowhere to the extent of what the doctors were expecting. I knew it was all the people that were praying for me as well as the Lord carrying me.
Three years ago I had a stroke. It was related to the cancer radiation treatment which damaged my heart. I was working as a Bereavement Counselor for Hospice at the time, doing the most meaningful and fulfilling work than I ever have done in my life. My heart was so full and complete. I was halted and brought to my knees at the time of my stroke. I couldn't speak, I couldn't write, I couldn't read . Today I am 85% improved and no one would even recognize that I suffered a stroke. I know that my God saved me. The only words that I could speak at the time of my stroke were "Oh my God". During my healing journey I became closer and closer to God. I feel his spirit alive within me. I feel that I am a vessel to help others heal . As I share my testimony, counsel and empathize with other survivors I feel very blessed to have had these experiences. My soul is well and satiated.
I'm now getting ready to have open heart surgery on Monday for a valve replacement and double bypass. Again caused from the radiation treatment. I visualize every day the Lord with his hands touching my surgeons hands and guiding the procedure. I am scared, and I know the Lord has a plan for me and is watching over me. With each obstacle I become richer and live a more meaningful life. There is Joy in my heart is and my light shining from my spirit! I have a servants heart and I pray that the Lord will help heal me and continue to bless me so I may continue to touch others. My mantra is that in every crisis there is an opportunity. In My crises the opportunity has been personal growth, the ability to live in the present moment and help others grow and heal emotionally . I have been truly blessed!
John Jones Take care Jeanette. I will be praying for you and thinking of you often through tomorrow. Looking for ... Read more
John Jones Take care Jeanette. I will be praying for you and thinking of you often through tomorrow. Looking forward to hearing from you post op.
Jeanette Davidson John aren't we the same day? I was hoping we could hold hands and be surgery twins!😉
Lisa Amiri Jeanette we will all be thinking and praying for you! Looking forward to hearing from you after the s ... Read more
Lisa Amiri Jeanette we will all be thinking and praying for you! Looking forward to hearing from you after the surgery💗
Bob M God bless for you Jeanette! I pray that your surgery will be textbook and your recovery will be uneve ... Read more
Bob M God bless for you Jeanette! I pray that your surgery will be textbook and your recovery will be uneventful! Monday will be a new day for you with a fixed heart. God bless and rise up!
Your strength in God will carry you through. I will be praying for your comfort and for your healing ... Read more
Your strength in God will carry you through. I will be praying for your comfort and for your healing.
Steve Salvador you will be in my prayers, know that you are in good hands with the Lord.
Nancy D Praying for you - and know that God isn't finished with you yet! You still have work for Him to do! ... Read more
Nancy D Praying for you - and know that God isn't finished with you yet! You still have work for Him to do! Go in knowing he holds your heart in His hands, and moves the hands of your team charged with caring for you!! Prayers for an uneventful and complete recovery!! Be blessed! +++
If this munchkin can do it, so can I!
This beautiful little girl had open heart surgery less than 24 hours before this photo was taken. When asked why she was up so quickly, she replied her Hello Kitty slippers make everything better.😥❤️
Tammy Pilcher Oh my goodness, what a precious little angel! Thanks for sharing, Jeanette! God bless you, both!
Clare Auten That is awesome. Maybe you should get some Hello Kitty slippers for Monday.
Such a sweet girl. Yes, you need some slippers for sure. Amazing that such a young child can recove ... Read more
Such a sweet girl. Yes, you need some slippers for sure. Amazing that such a young child can recover so quickly. And, we old gals have been afraid?
Terrie Syvertsen Jeanette: Oh my God she is adorable and now you have one more thing to add to your list of things you ... Read more
Terrie Syvertsen Jeanette: Oh my God she is adorable and now you have one more thing to add to your list of things you will need to go with all of your fancy boxer shorts. You would be a fashion plate!1 Lovely photo.
Nancy D Saw this before my surgery and looked for some Hello Kitty slippers to inspire me but they didn't co ... Read more
Nancy D Saw this before my surgery and looked for some Hello Kitty slippers to inspire me but they didn't come in my size...so I held this mental picture of her when I felt down or weak and she was inspiration enough! Thanks for finding this and sharing......
Lewis Garlisi Amazing and beautiful. Puts some things in perspective.
Kelly Weisgarber Jeanette. I'll be thinking of you Monday. Enjoy the Holiday weekend, knowing Monday starts your new l ... Read more
Kelly Weisgarber Jeanette. I'll be thinking of you Monday. Enjoy the Holiday weekend, knowing Monday starts your new life!
Linda Whitney Rooting for you Jeanette, it will be in the past sooner than you think! Adore the Munchkin and the s ... Read more
Linda Whitney Rooting for you Jeanette, it will be in the past sooner than you think! Adore the Munchkin and the slippers are a definite plus!
Tim Goff what a cutie- their spirit is nothing short of amazing!
Lora Lee Peterson I am going to print this picture and
have it with me before I have surgery!
Small Miracles
Journal posted on July 1, 2015
Miracles can come to us and through us in many ways and in many forms. A message , a moment , a touch , an exchange, a healing. I choose it to be my miracle when I believe and receive .
Feeling hopeful today as surgery is drawing near! 💕
Robert Osmachenko Miracles happen in the strangest of fashions. Fancy meeting you here.
Nice words to live by. Take ... Read more
Robert Osmachenko Miracles happen in the strangest of fashions. Fancy meeting you here.
Nice words to live by. Take care.
Rhonda Rawles You are having surgery on my birthday so I pray it brings you good luck! I just celebrated 6 months ... Read more
Rhonda Rawles You are having surgery on my birthday so I pray it brings you good luck! I just celebrated 6 months from surgery and one of my birthday wishes will be to bring lunch and visit my nurses in the ICU that brought me back to life twice. No matter how many times we visit and thank them, it will never be enough.
Jeanette Davidson Happy birthday Rhonda! Many more years of good health and happiness. What a great gesture I am sure ... Read more
Jeanette Davidson Happy birthday Rhonda! Many more years of good health and happiness. What a great gesture I am sure I will feel the same way!💕
Surgery is set July 6th!
Journal posted on June 30, 2015
Today my heart ❤️ is really OPEN,
as I get ready for OPEN HEART ❤️SURGERY. It makes me think about what it really means to me to OPEN MY HEART.
For me, to open my heart is to be listening to God - ready to hear His teachings. Opening the eyes of my heart, so I can see God in everyone and everything. Learning to see something a different way from how I've seen it before. An open heart receives with joy, love , and gratitude that is offered to it. To me, it means to have the ability to love and accept another for who they truly are ! ❤️❤️❤️
Jeanette Davidson I have such a hard time seeing the board with surgical dates...it bleeps off my screen all the time. ... Read more
Jeanette Davidson I have such a hard time seeing the board with surgical dates...it bleeps off my screen all the time. Not sure if my date will appear in there ????
You are going to beat me there. I am pleased you have a date set. You are ready for this. You will ... Read more
You are going to beat me there. I am pleased you have a date set. You are ready for this. You will be in my daily prayers. I know you will be taken care of, my heart sister🙏❤️🌹
Tammy Pilcher Yay Jeanette! So happy you have your date and that it's soon! You will have a fixed heart! It will ... Read more
Tammy Pilcher Yay Jeanette! So happy you have your date and that it's soon! You will have a fixed heart! It will be full of love and gratitude for our awesome God just as it is now, but magnified! Prayers and best wishes for Monday! God bless!
Amen, Tammy. Amen, Jeanette. Your words make me think of a song I love. "Open the Eyes of My Heart, L ... Read more
Amen, Tammy. Amen, Jeanette. Your words make me think of a song I love. "Open the Eyes of My Heart, Lord". So glad you have your date set.
I will be driving back from St. Louis on July 6th..bright and early. I will be praying for you at "The Foundry" Sunday evening, a special time of Prayer & Praising God at my church, there...in St. Louis.
My best advice....(not that you asked for any)...is keep your focus on Him. Trust in Him...to see you through this. Our God is ever faithful.
Tammy Pilcher Pamla, Amen and Amen to your advice! Prayers for safe travel for you and enjoy your trip! Hugs, Tam ... Read more
Tammy Pilcher Pamla, Amen and Amen to your advice! Prayers for safe travel for you and enjoy your trip! Hugs, Tammy :-)
Jeanette Davidson Thank you ladies! So glad I have you heart sisters on my team!💗
Kimberly Biddick Beautiful post, Jeanette! It must feel pretty good to have a date and know that the waiting is almos ... Read more
Kimberly Biddick Beautiful post, Jeanette! It must feel pretty good to have a date and know that the waiting is almost over! Many prayers for you over the next week!!
Eddie Patton The dates do push off the bottom on phones if you look using a pc or something else with a full brows ... Read more
Eddie Patton The dates do push off the bottom on phones if you look using a pc or something else with a full browser you can see the dates.
Jeanette... I think your name will show up in the next day, or two...on the surgery board on this sit ... Read more
Jeanette... I think your name will show up in the next day, or two...on the surgery board on this site. :-)
Bob M Amen! Amen! God bless and rise up! You are ready!
Larry Fuller Hi Jeanette-your date now shows up and you are second from the top on the upcoming board..
Have been ... Read more
Larry Fuller Hi Jeanette-your date now shows up and you are second from the top on the upcoming board..
Have been following your posts and am glad you finally have a soon to be here date.
Your support team is great and I'm sure you'll do well.i am 3 weeks post op on my AVR and am infinitely better than I was dying my hospital stay.
Bring earplugs to hospital they allowed me to actually sleep on day 3-4 of my stay and made all god difference.
If you just can't seem to eat the main course as I couldn't, just order the soup.it it far less chewy than anything resembling chicken or meat loaf.
All the best
Larry
Getting Organized
Journal posted on June 29, 2015
Although my surgical date isn't scheduled, I'm meeting with my surgeon tomorrow and really believe it's going to be within the next week , according to what the cardiologist has shared with me So today, I really started to get myself organized. I have my list with all the things I want to bring to the hospital . I'm very girly so my cute boxer shorts, toiletries in addition to my spiritual things mean a lot to me. I am meticulous with my house so I wanted to get all the laundry put away, cook some soup, and then make it very easy and comfortable transition back home. I thought I would do something cute for my husband so I took a bunch of my business cards, wrote loving messages on them, and placed them in a bunch of his shoes. I am in a good place, cooked some soup, and got some heathy favorites in the house. Eating really clean, playing my worship music, and thanking God for all the wonderful things that are to come. Heading to a beautiful shrine near my home today with my mom to light some candles and pray . God bless you brothers and sisters have a wonderful day 💞
Tammy Pilcher Jeanette, it sounds like you're ready! You're going to do great! I hope they get you scheduled soon ... Read more
Tammy Pilcher Jeanette, it sounds like you're ready! You're going to do great! I hope they get you scheduled soon and you can get this behind you. I'll be praying for the very best for you, heart sister! God bless you!
Terrie Syvertsen Jeanette-Heart Sister you are sounding so ready that it made me smile reading your post. Furthermore, ... Read more
Terrie Syvertsen Jeanette-Heart Sister you are sounding so ready that it made me smile reading your post. Furthermore, you will be a "hit" on any floor with girlie boxer shorts and very comfortable as you begin your walks down the hospital hallways which is something I know of due to the fact as I had shorts with turtles, dancing tea-cups(which made me sometimes dizzy@ and one specific pair that sported dozens of swimming fish and lobsters! It was fun as it made the other patients smile and laugh as well as engage in friendly banter which helped make the walk heartfelt and cracked the nurses up every round of the floor I made! With your wonderful personality and great smile I am sure you will warm the hearts of everyone you come in contact with so I think having the "ready" attitude that you have will work in your favor. Cute idea with the cards to your husband and I know he will appreciate the thought as just one more reason he loves you- You are setting a great example for others waiting for their dates or getting ready to enter into their own surgeries and I hope you're feeling the love from the "community" here and know if you're date is near we are all set to "have your back" and your heart! Bless you Lady! You are going to be just fine.
I am hoping you are scheduled soon so you can start your recovery. Sounds like you are super organize ... Read more
I am hoping you are scheduled soon so you can start your recovery. Sounds like you are super organized. I have several projects to finish before mine. Today, I used electric clippers and trimmed our bushes out front. I had to take a lot of breaks. I am going to completely clean out my pantry and fridge this week. I have new robes, Capri pajamas, and packed toiletries in my bag. Wish we were planning a beach vacation instead!😎
Jeanette Davidson So glad Mary that we have each other. It's going to be great to be encourages , supporters and buddie ... Read more
Jeanette Davidson So glad Mary that we have each other. It's going to be great to be encourages , supporters and buddies on this journey. Try not to over exert yourself. I also packed some nice handcream and a great music playlist. One of the girls also recommended a light weight scarf and slip on t shirt dress for the ride home. After we recover maybe you'll come visit me for a heart sister beach vacation reunion . There are a few other ladies that live in Florida I think that would be a lot of fun ! Stay well and hopeful 💗😘
Jeanette, you are so kind. That really does sound like fun. Who knows, maybe one day I will be down ... Read more
Jeanette, you are so kind. That really does sound like fun. Who knows, maybe one day I will be down your way😀.
I packed small packages of Kleenex tissue. Hospital tissue is like paper. I also packed lip balm for dry lips. I put a nail file in because I can't stand a hangnail or broken nail until I can fix it. My nails are short for the hospital. I bought some mini bottles of mouthwash, cleansing wipes, and travel size roll on deodorant. Just thinking about how I might feel. I like your girlie boxer idea but I am almost 6 feet tall and those may be too short for me, ha. I won't be as cute, ha.
I will be thinking of you tomorrow, ❤️ Sister.
Kelly Weisgarber Good luck tomorrow Jeanette. I hope the meeting goes well. You sound like you are getting so much do ... Read more
Kelly Weisgarber Good luck tomorrow Jeanette. I hope the meeting goes well. You sound like you are getting so much done. I don't have a date yet and I feel overwhelmed with all I want to do before. Keep us posted!
Hi Jeanette... I agree with Tammy. It sounds like you are ready!
I pray they can get you on the surg ... Read more
Hi Jeanette... I agree with Tammy. It sounds like you are ready!
I pray they can get you on the surgery schedule very soon. The waiting is the hardest part...but when you have the Peace of Christ in you, as you do, it's easier to prepare yourself for what is to come.
God Bless You....
Has anyone had a lot of arm pain from their Cardiac Cath? It's astonishing to me how much it hurts. Forgive me to everyone who is recovering from surgery because this is no comparison I understand ,but I just think it's odd.My doctor said there's a lot of internal bruising and maybe he hit a nerve. Would love to have some feedback my brothers and sisters!❤️
Susan Wozniak Mine hurt also but one day I noticed the painwas gone! I think the size makes it hurt more. I actu ... Read more
Susan Wozniak Mine hurt also but one day I noticed the painwas gone! I think the size makes it hurt more. I actually thought the leg caths were more comfortable! Hope ypu are feeling better.
Paige Baitinger Hi Jeanette, I hope you are feeling better soon. I appreciate your comments. Everything I can get my ... Read more
Paige Baitinger Hi Jeanette, I hope you are feeling better soon. I appreciate your comments. Everything I can get my hands on to read about the pre-op procedures and the surgery helps calm my fears. I am going in for the cardiac cath Monday morning. After that, aortic valve replacement will be scheduled. This heart blog community has been a source of strength for me. I'll keep you in my prayers :-)
Jeanette Davidson So great to connect with you Paige! I don't think it's typical to have pain like I'm having right n ... Read more
Jeanette Davidson So great to connect with you Paige! I don't think it's typical to have pain like I'm having right now ...you will do fine. I'm a psychotherapist and I teach people self care, so I have to practice what I preach! We Are on our own journey, everyone's situation is different . We can just be a support and encourage each other. This site has been wonderful ,let's stay in touch and support each other during this journey ! Best of luck. There are good things about having the cath done to like just getting comfortable in the hospital and the pre-op area etc. the nurses and teams are usually wonderful ! Take care heart sister and stay in touch ❤️
Robert Osmachenko I had my cath thru my groin and it hurt for a day or so but one must protect that area from breaking ... Read more
Robert Osmachenko I had my cath thru my groin and it hurt for a day or so but one must protect that area from breaking open, so that was the challenge for a week.
Post surgery aches and pains are numerous and varied as you read the various entries. I'm post 10 months and still getting "google eyes" (vertigo) and chest tightness. Every so often my right forearm freezes up and then one minute later it is gone. My left foot gets numb occasionally and then goes away. I do my stretches and eat healthy whole foods and hopefully can combat these oddities of the human body.
Peace be with you.
Tammy Pilcher I hope you feel better soon, Jeanette. I don't remember having alot of arm pain after I got home fro ... Read more
Tammy Pilcher I hope you feel better soon, Jeanette. I don't remember having alot of arm pain after I got home from my cath, but I do remember it hurting until they took off the thing putting pressure on my wrist to stop the bleeding. Maybe it won't hurt too long. Prayers for you heart sister!
Kyle Väth Yep - those little suckers hurt. Lots of nerves traveling through there. Hang in there. It gets bette ... Read more
Kyle Väth Yep - those little suckers hurt. Lots of nerves traveling through there. Hang in there. It gets better.
Jeanette Davidson Thank you Kyle! Finally feeling better tonight! Maybe because my son came to visit?😉
Ready!!!
Journal posted on June 21, 2015
Did you ever feel like you were ready? You know when it's time? So here I am thinking of going to the Cleveland clinic and starting with another surgeon , yet I've been feeling a few symptoms and changes. It is time..,I need to get my date on the calendar ASAP. My surgeon here in Florida is coming back from vacation in a week and I think when we meet we should pick our date . I've been doing this process since last December and I really feel like I have declined , ( more tired, fluttering in my chest) so I wouldn't call myself a symptomatic anymore . Maybe now that I know I have two issues going on I'm driving myself a little crazy too! Happy Father's Day! I wish you all well! ❤️
Sounds like a well thought out decision. Knowing when will make you feel better. I am 3 weeks away ... Read more
Sounds like a well thought out decision. Knowing when will make you feel better. I am 3 weeks away and still have some tests. Hoping your surgeon will schedule you quickly. Keeping you in prayer, heart sister.
Barry Van Gemert Cleveland is well known for successful outcomes with complex procedures.
Terrie Syvertsen Jeanette-The more the waiting continues usually the more that anxiety sneaks in and with it comes the ... Read more
Terrie Syvertsen Jeanette-The more the waiting continues usually the more that anxiety sneaks in and with it comes the tendency to feel more fatigue and symptoms that can be due to that anxiety beginning to mount while waiting for tests and answers or just to find yourself with a date. Also, caring about the community you are a part of makes it difficult at times as you add the concern and love for the people you meet here on site and stand by while they continue their journeys and can do nothing but wait and watch and pray for them while your own life seems put on hold??
When you get in touch with your surgeon and you get together about what you are feeling emotionally and symptom wise & getting more answers, I am sure you will begin to feel a whole lot better and able to really feel like you are moving forward instead of treading water? This is a hard place to be in as it is for those on the upcoming surgeries list but you will get there in due time. I hope things will get clearer for you when your surgeon returns as I am sure you two will be able to get a date set which will really make you feel better.
Take care heart Sister!-
Tammy Pilcher Jeanette, I just noticed you're in Florida. I live in northwest Florida and had my surgery in Orland ... Read more
Tammy Pilcher Jeanette, I just noticed you're in Florida. I live in northwest Florida and had my surgery in Orlando with Dr. Kevin Accola. He is wonderful and has done many patients here surgeries. I found him on this site and in Adam's book. You can watch videos of him on this site. Just thought I would mention him in case you haven't heard of him before. If I can answer any questions for you, I will. Prayers and best wishes for you!
Lila Robinson If I've learned one thing in all of this, trust your instincts....especially in regards to "worsening ... Read more
Lila Robinson If I've learned one thing in all of this, trust your instincts....especially in regards to "worsening" symptoms. I just though I was slowing down. Never really thought it was shortness of breath, etc. because it's gradual; now, post-surgery, I realize it was coming on a lot lot longer and no one ever sent me to have it looked at even thought I was gaining weight, slowing down and had a murmur that was very noticeable for years and years and years. Until I ASKED, shouldn't somebody be looking at this, as the last question of my wellness checkup, where she said everything was fine with bloodwork, etc., only then did a stress echo get ordered. (I had to remind her that my father died of massive heart attack at 59 and his mother at 58 of congestive heart failure)...I'm 56.
Bob M Follow your heart ... It will lead you to the correct decision for you
Tammy Pilcher You're very welcome, Jeanette. Let me know if I can help you. Some other patients on this site who ... Read more
Tammy Pilcher You're very welcome, Jeanette. Let me know if I can help you. Some other patients on this site who used Dr. Accola are Melinda Hacker, Debbie Poole, and Mark Schmitz. There are others, but I can't remember their names. I actually met him on a Monday and took my tests with me for him to review. He did my surgery on Friday of the same week. My BAV was critical with an AVA of 0.39cm2 and I had been having symptoms for a long time before I knew about my valve. He also did an aortic root enlargement with a Dacron patch.
The Right Surgeon???
Journal posted on June 19, 2015
So after getting this news yesterday that I need bypass and valve surgery at the same time this definitely makes me more concerned. It complicates things on many levels . Since I've been on this blog I just keep hearing about Dr. Svennson at the Cleveland Clinic . Sounds like he's number one in the country. I'd love to get some feedback from anyone who traveled to Cleveland and used him. Any input would be greatly appreciated!❤️
Kenny Knox Hey Jeanette! I'm having my valve replacement with Dr. Svensson in 11 days! Living down the street ... Read more
Kenny Knox Hey Jeanette! I'm having my valve replacement with Dr. Svensson in 11 days! Living down the street in Columbus, going to the Cleveland Clinic was a no brainer for me.
I met Dr. Svensson back in March and was very impressed both by the CC and Dr. Svensson. I know some folks personally who were treated by him as well and give him high remarks.
My preop consultation with him was very direct and pointed and I have the utmost confidence in him. Honestly, I didn't know much about him before going to see him and after I met him, I started researching and learned of the skill he possesses.
I found this article pretty cool while researching. Good luck in your decision making process!
BOSTON - Appearing on Thursday night's Celtics Late Night Show on CLNS Radio, Boston Celtics forward Chris Wilcox proudly announced that Friday will be the one-year mark since his open heart surgery. Wilcox, who missed the later part of the 2011-2012
Jeff Lashins He repaired my aortic valve May 1st. I think he was great. My interaction with him was pretty minim ... Read more
Jeff Lashins He repaired my aortic valve May 1st. I think he was great. My interaction with him was pretty minimal, to be honest. I had a pre-op meeting with him the day before my surgery in which he patiently answered all my questions. When I was recovering, I would see him for about 15 seconds every morning. He would just quickly check-in with all his patients (I think it was mostly PR).
Overall, Svensson is great. My repair was tricky, which is why I flew from California to Cleveland for Svensson. Although I can't see what his repair looks like on the inside, various medical professionals have commented on how good my scar is healing and looks. I'm 7 weeks since surgery, and I'm feeling pretty good. Totally off pain killers and I've started cardio rehab.
I highly recommend Svensson and I recommend that you stay at one of the Intercontinental hotels on campus while you and your family are there. It's really convenient.
If you have any other questions, feel free to contact me at jlashins@hotmail.com. Also happy to talk by phone.
Good luck!
Terry Shermeister Jeanette, My friend had a similar operation as you will have. He was going to have an aortic valve a ... Read more
Terry Shermeister Jeanette, My friend had a similar operation as you will have. He was going to have an aortic valve and they went in for the cardiac cath and found blockage. That is a usual procedure and why they do the cath. He came out feeling much more vital and he's about two months out feeling great.
Mary K I had my surgery done by him. I agree with Jeff in that I am tremendously pleased with my outcome nin ... Read more
Mary K I had my surgery done by him. I agree with Jeff in that I am tremendously pleased with my outcome nine days out. You will not see him much, but his two nurse practitioners both named Diane are top notch. He even employs a Reiki practitioner, Sandy who worked miracles on me during some of my more challenging times there.
Dr. Svensson is known for being incredibly fast. So you are not on the heart lung as with others. I was very concerned about pump head, but perceive that my cognitive functioning is intact.
We are now staying at the close by Marriott that is quite a bit cheaper has free half hour shuttles to CC It has nice rooms, but views of a building next door.
Challenging News
Journal posted on June 18, 2015
As you all have known, I was feeling nervous about my catherization procedure that I was having today . I read so many of your stories and many walk away feeling excited that things are clear, but my results turned out differently. Turns out I will be needing a triple bypass in conjunction with my AVR surgery. This in fact leaves no surgical option and I must have a full sternotomy. I did not cry when I got the news and continue have to have faith that I have a lot more work to do on this planet !!! It was a good experience to get comfortable at the hospital . It was a little bit of a trial run of what it will be like the day of surgery. So as the day is coming to a close , I feel grateful for my doctors, for my family and friends, and for all of you my heart brothers and sisters !❤️
Mary K Sorry for your news, heart sister. I am sending love your way.
Sharon Madden Good thing they found it now. You will truly have the heart of a teenager when this is all done. K ... Read more
Sharon Madden Good thing they found it now. You will truly have the heart of a teenager when this is all done. Keep your spirits up. God Bless.
Tammy Pilcher Jeanette, I'm so sorry. Your faith will serve you well and I'll be praying for you. God bless you!
John Jones Sorry to hear the news. But we know God is good. As you say, there is more for you to do on this plan ... Read more
John Jones Sorry to hear the news. But we know God is good. As you say, there is more for you to do on this planet. (Hebrews 13:5) ... I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee."
I know God will take care of you as you face this. You are so strong. I will keep you in my daily pr ... Read more
I know God will take care of you as you face this. You are so strong. I will keep you in my daily prayers. Much love, heart sister
Linda McHugh So sorry to hear this Lynne...sending hugs
Ericka Carlson How wonderful that they caught the issue now before you got really sick!! You're going to do great Je ... Read more
Ericka Carlson How wonderful that they caught the issue now before you got really sick!! You're going to do great Jeanette, and you'll be like new on the other side. You're in my thoughts.
Larry Beck I hope my doctor fixes anything else that needs fixing beside the two valves, no way do I want to go ... Read more
Larry Beck I hope my doctor fixes anything else that needs fixing beside the two valves, no way do I want to go through this again! Hang in there, after my brother had his bypass surgery he had a lot more energy than before!
Rhonda Rawles Not the news you hoped for but here's to a full tune up and feeling better than ever on the other sid ... Read more
Rhonda Rawles Not the news you hoped for but here's to a full tune up and feeling better than ever on the other side of surgery!
Tim Goff How lucky they found this out before you had a major problem. The sternotomy heals fast and soon it w ... Read more
Tim Goff How lucky they found this out before you had a major problem. The sternotomy heals fast and soon it will be in the rear view mirror.
Lila Robinson You got through the catheterization and now they know everything they need to do. It's a blessing, a ... Read more
Lila Robinson You got through the catheterization and now they know everything they need to do. It's a blessing, albeit not the news you were hoping for. But, today is my 8 weeks post full sternotomy and my new Freestyle 25 tissue aortic valve and Dacron Aortic root replacement is done and over. I'd love to "show you my scar"...it's incredible how well it heals. You're right, it's challenging news...and I'm so admiring your courage and resolve! Keep that positive attitude. It is great to be on the other side of it....
Bob M Your heart will be completely fixed; it will be a new day for you. God bless and rise up!
Rita Savelis 10 week post full sternotomy - 3 valves changed. Every week is better. Thinking of you Jeannette.
Lora Lee Peterson I'm nervous about the results of the cath when I have it done, so I feel for you about the results. ... Read more
Lora Lee Peterson I'm nervous about the results of the cath when I have it done, so I feel for you about the results. I never thought I would be thinking about these kinds of things, as my parents and grandparents are and were so healthy. Like everyone says who has had this done, we will feel so much better, and will have so much energy. I hope so! I'm praying for you that it all goes well, and also praying for peace until you have this done. I feel like I know what is going through you mind right now, because I'm pretty sure my mind is on the same page. We have faith, but it's really hard not to think about it. These positive posts that others are leaving you, seem to really help me, so I'm sure they will help you to find that peace with everything. It sounds like you are there already, but I know how one day you are there, and the next day, you are thinking, "omg, what is going on here?"
Anticipation
Journal posted on June 16, 2015
Having my heart Cath on Thursday. It's starting to get real. Feeling my anticipation getting greater and greater. It's anxiety , impatience and anticipation. I just want to get it done and move on to the next stage of life. Feeling a little concerned about the recovery process I just feel like I completed my stroke recovery and now having another . I'm also feeling more tired - probably a combination of stress and a more incompetent valve. I really appreciate your prayers and support!❤️
Lora Lee Peterson I'm praying for you and your team of doctors and nurses. You'll get through this, and I will be anxi ... Read more
Lora Lee Peterson I'm praying for you and your team of doctors and nurses. You'll get through this, and I will be anxiously awaiting your first post when you are up and at 'em again!
Tammy Pilcher Prayers and best wishes for Thursday, Jeanette! I hope they can do it in your wrist like mine. It ... Read more
Tammy Pilcher Prayers and best wishes for Thursday, Jeanette! I hope they can do it in your wrist like mine. It wasn't bad. I'll pray for good clear arteries for you!:-)
Jeanette Davidson I have such tiny veins , with a big heart. Do you think I can ask for pediatric nurse? Hee hee !
I ... Read more
Jeanette Davidson I have such tiny veins , with a big heart. Do you think I can ask for pediatric nurse? Hee hee !
I went for my blood work today it's always a nightmare !
Staying strong , positive and giving it ALL TO GOD!💞
Many prayers being said for you. I hope the catherization goes well on Thurs. I know you are anxiou ... Read more
Many prayers being said for you. I hope the catherization goes well on Thurs. I know you are anxious, I feel it too as I read more and more. I know you have a strong spirit and so much love around you. It will carry you through. ❤️🙏
Rita Savelis I totally hear you about wanting to move on to the next stage! That's how I felt.
Robyn Tatu While waiting for the surgery you never really stop being anxious about it. No wonder you're tired.! ... Read more
Robyn Tatu While waiting for the surgery you never really stop being anxious about it. No wonder you're tired.! Here's knowing that you'll feel better once you are on the recovery side. And I hope you can gain some peace i the time before.
Radiation
Journal posted on June 15, 2015
Hello my heart brothers and sisters ~
I was wondering if anyone has had radiation treatment to the chest, like I had. Having lots of studies this week so the surgeons can decipher the best way to go about my surgery. They might have to do something less invasive, which is a good thing and a bad thing . Has anyone had a similar experience? ❤️
Rita Savelis Hi Jeannette, I had Hodgkins disease in 1978 with radiation treatment.... and 9 weeks ago I had open ... Read more
Rita Savelis Hi Jeannette, I had Hodgkins disease in 1978 with radiation treatment.... and 9 weeks ago I had open heart surgery to replace my aortic and mitral valves and repair my tricuspid valve. My surgeon in France was "specialised" in patients who radiation therapy in the past with damage to their hearts years later. I was diagnosed about 6 yrs ago and started having symptoms about a year ago. My surgery went well, although I have had several bouts of fluid buildup in the lung lining since... I also had to get a pacemaker.
Jeanette Davidson Sorry Rita about your fluid issue. Thanks for sharing your story. That is really helpful. I had Hodgk ... Read more
Jeanette Davidson Sorry Rita about your fluid issue. Thanks for sharing your story. That is really helpful. I had Hodgkins also , 18 years ago. I am curious at this point with their approach with me. I will keep you posted. I wish you continued health and healing❤️
Rita Savelis It's comforting to have a surgeon who has operated on former Hodgkin's/radiation patients because eve ... Read more
Rita Savelis It's comforting to have a surgeon who has operated on former Hodgkin's/radiation patients because even though they don't know exactly what they'll find when they operate, they have seen various examples in former surgeries and they do understand that your situation will be different from a patient who has heart disease due to age, infection or other reasons.
Jeanette Davidson That is so spot on heart sister! That is why this Thursday I'm having multiple tests to really get a ... Read more
Jeanette Davidson That is so spot on heart sister! That is why this Thursday I'm having multiple tests to really get a handle on the damage. I have said that from the beginning when people wanted to make comments to me like I found replacement is really easy everybody gets it all the time. I knew mine was going to be different . I am so happy to have you to support me on this journey. I thank you ❤️
Divine Intervention
Journal posted on June 10, 2015
" A Divine Intervention"
It was a teary day. I was coming to a level of acceptance. We went to Benihana to celebrate SHELLY's 75th birthday. We sat at a table and a couple came to join us. We struck up a conversation and learned that the gentleman sitting beside me was a person who had an aortic valve replacement surgery 13 years ago. Oh my, God is good! The Lord literally placed this man beside me to comfort me, support me, and tell me his story. I can't even explain to you the emotion that I felt during dinner. I seemed to be reminded in many ways, that I will be okay, and life will go on! I feel truly blessed today! He is surely my heart brother. 😥😘
What a beautiful story. A real blessing and so comforting.
Nancy D God works in wonderful ways...He knew just what you needed, and brought you proof positive that there ... Read more
Nancy D God works in wonderful ways...He knew just what you needed, and brought you proof positive that there is good life after heart surgery!!! Hold tight to that message and He will see you through!
John Jones In reading John Chapter 20 beginning in verse 19 Jesus' disciples are gathered in a room with the doo ... Read more
John Jones In reading John Chapter 20 beginning in verse 19 Jesus' disciples are gathered in a room with the door closed "for fear of the Jews." Jesus came and stood in the midst of them saying "Peace be unto you."
I find it comforting to know that Jesus is with us just as He was His disciples in the very midst of their fears.
Spending a week vacation with my husband, in one of my favorite places at our timeshare on the beach. After Reading some of the posts I decided I better be pretty cautious. Definitely feel so much more tired after being out in the heat. So it's going to be on under the umbrella, lots of fluids, and only on the beach when it's really breezy for short amount time. I am asymptomatic today and want to keep it that way until my surgery in about two months . I have to say does get scary though, staying in that hyper alert mode . Good wishes , my heart brothers and sisters and take good care ! ❤️
Rhonda Rawles I've read some scary stories the last few days so probably very wise of you to be cautious for sure. ... Read more
Rhonda Rawles I've read some scary stories the last few days so probably very wise of you to be cautious for sure. I too was asymptomatic or so I thought but looking back I know now that I ignored some signs like shortness of breath with minimal exertion. I'm now a little over 5 months out and can climb 2-3 flights of stairs with no issue whatsoever, feels amazing!
Kenneth Cole Jeanette, scary yes, but it's better on the other side. God bless you, keep us posted. I'm 6 weeks ... Read more
Kenneth Cole Jeanette, scary yes, but it's better on the other side. God bless you, keep us posted. I'm 6 weeks post-op and feeling GREAT.
Jeanette Davidson Kenneth, it's so exciting to me to see that you're doing well exclamation mark thank you for that gi ... Read more
Jeanette Davidson Kenneth, it's so exciting to me to see that you're doing well exclamation mark thank you for that gift !❤️
Jeanette Davidson Rhonda, I definitely have an issue with climbing stairs. Sometimes it's hard for me to look at that, ... Read more
Jeanette Davidson Rhonda, I definitely have an issue with climbing stairs. Sometimes it's hard for me to look at that, because I am doing well and so many in other areas. I know it is time !❤️
Rhonda Rawles Waiting is the worst, in my case everything happened within a 30 day period from diagnosis to surgery ... Read more
Rhonda Rawles Waiting is the worst, in my case everything happened within a 30 day period from diagnosis to surgery so I didn't have much time to worry. Keep up the great attitude, that is key!
"Starfish"
Journal posted on June 4, 2015
"Starfish"
I love Starfish!!!The starfish has the ability to re-grow their bits and pieces, which is symbolic of healing and renewal. We can regenerate our attitudes, our beliefs, our mind-sets the same. We can grow knew limbs of thought . We can grow new limbs of thought that take us to higher levels of experience. We can lop off parts of our belief systems that no longer serve us. We can replace these phantom limbs with higher-minded ideals.
Seeing healing and all positive blessings today. Trying to put into practice , my training as a mental health counselor! It's so much harder to help yourself than it is others! 💕
Robert Osmachenko Yes, it is harder to treat yourself, isn't it. Very well said and like your way of describing throug ... Read more
Robert Osmachenko Yes, it is harder to treat yourself, isn't it. Very well said and like your way of describing through word pictures.
Be well, and "don't push the river".
May You...
Journal posted on June 2, 2015
May you allow fear to soften and melt away.
May you release all regrets and resentments.
May you see the world with wonder.
May you imagine only good things.
May hope lie within you.
May peace wash over you.
May your heart open.( no pun intended 😉)
Make joy emerge.💕
Duane Beeman I'm working on it.... but I feel like the flying monkeys are about to come carry me away.....and my l ... Read more
Duane Beeman I'm working on it.... but I feel like the flying monkeys are about to come carry me away.....and my little dog too !!!
Too funny, Duane. :-)
I think I Shifted!
Journal posted on June 1, 2015
Very positive feelings today. I feel very much like myself again, feeling like I can do this. Sang My heart out in my car today. Released a lot of positive feelings! Gaining a sense of control with diet, exercise, and taking blood pressure. Embracing these days of peace and joy for now! Feeling STRONG!!💕
Tammy Pilcher You ARE STRONG, Jeanette! God bless you!
Terrie Syvertsen Jeanette- The closer the day comes the more ready you are going to be for your surgery. From the mome ... Read more
Terrie Syvertsen Jeanette- The closer the day comes the more ready you are going to be for your surgery. From the moment you roll in....you will be the center of everyone's Universe and the focus will be mending that beautiful heart of yours and making sure your every need is being met. Feel the peace in knowing that all will be well! Stay strong Lady and know the thoughts and prayers are with you NOW, the Universe is MIGHTY! SO are YOU!
Went to Holy Cross Hospital today ,where I will be having my surgery , to meet a new medical cardiologist. I wanted to establish a relationship with him prior to surgery since he will be following me in the hospital. Scheduled the cardiac Cath ,CT scans for June 18 Th! Based on the studies they'll be able to decide The best route to repair my valve. Feels good to begin to get the ball rolling setting up some dates. Feeling absolutely drained and exhausted tonight !❤️
Steven A Husted dear lord be with jeanette and give her the peace and comfort she needs to take her thru this ohs in ... Read more
Steven A Husted dear lord be with jeanette and give her the peace and comfort she needs to take her thru this ohs in jesus name we pray amen the lord will be with you you will do fine your heart brother steve (popeye)
Today when I thought about the surgery ,I thought about that part of my being that is just a "body". That's the part of me that doesn't matter as much as my "soul." As long as I am well with my soul , that is all that matters. I'm going to work on detaching myself from the physical aspect and fear of pain and suffering and stay in a peaceful spiritual realm. Today I can accept that I am having surgery. 💕
HE is always with us...and will see you through this.
May you feel His Peace & His presence.
There wa ... Read more
HE is always with us...and will see you through this.
May you feel His Peace & His presence.
There was an amazingly beautiful song at my church, Sunday.
My son & daughter in law, the twins and I all went.
"You Satisfy My Soul"....can be found on youtube.
Also... "Never Once" was played several times before my surgery....which gave me more peace...and helped some tears flow.
Tammy Pilcher Jeanette, what you describe is exactly what I did! "It is Well with My Soul" is one of my favorite h ... Read more
Tammy Pilcher Jeanette, what you describe is exactly what I did! "It is Well with My Soul" is one of my favorite hymns too! It is God's grace that we can go into open heart surgery with the assurance that no matter what we will be okay.
Duane Beeman Hey girl. I'll take your pain and suffering and you coast for awhile. Deal ? I've had a pretty eas ... Read more
Duane Beeman Hey girl. I'll take your pain and suffering and you coast for awhile. Deal ? I've had a pretty easy way of things......I can carry some extra weight for a friend.
Goals After Surgery🚴🎨📝✈️
🌸Get Really Fit!
🌸Strength Training Class
🌸Belly Dancing Class
🌸Bike riding up to 10 miles
🌸 Cruise- NY/ CANADA
🌸Family Cruise to Alaska
🌸 Trip back home where I grew up to Long Island
🌸Develop Psychotherapy Practice for people recovering from medical conditions
🌸Continue Counseling Stroke Survivors and their spouses
🌸 Condo in Texas to visit the kids often
🌸Art Class
🌸Make tons of meaningful memories with my family
Great list! Thank you for the good idea, I'm going to make my own list :-)
Beautiful people
Journal posted on May 22, 2015
As a bereavement counselor with hospice, I always loved work by Elizabeth. I hope this resonates with you !💕
"Our Deficits Make Us Stronger"
"The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen."
Elisabeth Kubler- Ross
My thoughts really get the best to me at night. Can't sleep some nights, wake up at 2 AM. So all the anticipatory anxiety. I see myself in preop, during surgery, post surgery . Livin my thoughts really get the best to me at night. Can't sleep some nights, wake up at 2 AM. So all the anticipatory anxiety. I see myself in preop, during surgery, post surgery It comes to me in my dreams... That's when the fear creeps in ...yikes! 😍
Alfonso Vasquez Jeanette I feel you! It was so scary, I couldn't sleep, I cried alone cuz I dint want my wife and kid ... Read more
Alfonso Vasquez Jeanette I feel you! It was so scary, I couldn't sleep, I cried alone cuz I dint want my wife and kids to know I was so afraid! No matter what anyone tell you, you still gonna feel the same till the moment you wake up and ask is it over???? Then time to recover will began, then we all be here to support you, we will be praying for you so just know God's got this! Keep strong you will be fine!
Jeanette Davidson I do appreciate that ...thank you! My life is so blessed and I KNOW The Lord has a plan for me! Your ... Read more
Jeanette Davidson I do appreciate that ...thank you! My life is so blessed and I KNOW The Lord has a plan for me! Your validation and empathy means so much ! 💕
Laura Metrano In some ways this is the worst part...anticipating the unknown, your imagination running wild. Once t ... Read more
Laura Metrano In some ways this is the worst part...anticipating the unknown, your imagination running wild. Once the surgery is over you will be living more in the present and although there are bound to be tough parts, there's less fear and anxiety.
When you start to imagine those scary scenarios, try if you can, to see them through to the the best possible outcome. Visualize yourself waking up from surgery with your heart repaired, filled with gratitude and relief! Picture yourself in recovery, smiling and strong, eating strawberry jello and walking the halls!
All good thoughts and prayers... You got this!!
Jeanette Davidson Laura those are great visualizations , thank you heart sister!❤️
Getting Healthy
Journal posted on May 21, 2015
So I've been battling these 20 pounds ,which is so hard to get off! So I made a decision to finally get real tight with my diet and get there. As you all know , I can't exercise the way I like to,but at least doing my 1 mile walk for some heart health helps and gets my blood flowing! The doctors have shared that its if I drop the weight it Will only help
me post surgery on many levels. So working today on acceptance, staying strong, and living life to the fullest. Many blessings my heart brothers and sisters !💕
Susan Bach You go girl ! Sounds like you have the right attitude !
Riding the roller coaster
Journal posted on May 19, 2015
Riding the roller coaster most days. I feel pretty good so I try to trick myself and say " well I don't have to have surgery . I can go on like this ."However, I know it is inevitable. Going to have an angiogram the latter part of the month which will give more info. Feeling TERRIFIED! I am a fighter, A stroke and cancer survivor , but just scared about post surgery complications. I had one stroke already and I am doing so great! Don't want another! Blessing to you all my heart brothers and sisters!💕
Duane Beeman I'm supposed to be a "tough guy" and I'm nervous too. But we're going to be OK. There's a young guy ... Read more
Duane Beeman I'm supposed to be a "tough guy" and I'm nervous too. But we're going to be OK. There's a young guy that was recently released from Ann Arbor's Frankel Center with NO heart. Just a box of some sort that keeps him alive while he is awaiting a heart transplant. When I think of that, I am confident that I'm going to be OK. You too.
Denise Cockayne Thanks for sharing I have not really worked out where I write on here but I have had cancer for 8 yea ... Read more
Denise Cockayne Thanks for sharing I have not really worked out where I write on here but I have had cancer for 8 years nearly, it cant be cured it can be managed though and this is one more thing I have to do, fix my heart then I can do chemo if necessary, God Bless xx
Hypochondriac
Journal posted on April 1, 2015
"HYPOCHONDRIAC"
As every cancer survivor knows ,once you have cancer in the back of your mind you always fear that you will get it again. So it becomes challenging to live with any little ache and pain because you're mind goes to the space of asking yourself the question , "Do I have cancer again?"
I think with my situation it is even more complicated and so hard for me to settle in with, because it's multilayered. So I have those cancer "bites"
that I get , and now I get stroke "bites" too!
With each funny pain I get in my head ,or heart or dizziness , or feeling off balance ; which are symptoms that I live with on a daily basis, subconsciously that fear comes and "bites" me. It usually gets me right in my gut. So daily, I have intermittent moments of blocking those fears coming into my mind.
Now , it's even that much more complicated with this heart condition because now I get heart "bites" , too. I check my blood pressure because if my heart is beating too fast, it concerns me ,or if I get a fluttering in my chest, it concerns me . Again, if I get dizzy or feel really fatigued , it concerns me.
So the doctors and all my friends say ....just have fun go about your life ...live normally. I don't think I'll ever be able to live "normally"again. My body has failed me in so many ways that I don't trust HER anymore. I try to treat HER with compassion and a lot of times I tell her to be quiet , but it's an ongoing challenge. I sometimes feel like I am just a become a full-blown hypochondriac!!!!!
I am not going to present to the world something that should be pitied. There are private moments that are very difficult , but as always I will forward on with optimism and courage!💕
Duane Beeman I'm learning quickly that life is not a straight line. We're a banged up group of people, that's for ... Read more
Duane Beeman I'm learning quickly that life is not a straight line. We're a banged up group of people, that's for sure ! But we "get it". I would reach out and put my arm around everybody on this site if I could. I walked outside today and felt the sun on my face. i stopped and soaked up the moment. You are not normal Jeanette. You are extraordinary. Here's a giant hug from an old tough guy.........................
Sherry Wilson Jeannette, don't get so discouraged, be positive....you are a true survivor! I'm sending you a giant ... Read more
Sherry Wilson Jeannette, don't get so discouraged, be positive....you are a true survivor! I'm sending you a giant hug, too.
Terry Shermeister Hi Jeanette and thanks so much for your thoughts and wishes. It's means so much, Terry
Denise Cockayne You are definately a winner as you are so positive and so aware of where you are in all this. I can a ... Read more
Denise Cockayne You are definately a winner as you are so positive and so aware of where you are in all this. I can actually understand, thankyou for sharing with me
Mechanical valve
Journal posted on April 1, 2015
So I finally selected a surgeon! I also learned that he's recommending a mechanical valve. I have lots of questions and concerns and was hoping to connect with someone else who has a mechanical valve!
Sherry Wilson I am also a cancer survivor with damaged heart valves from the radiation. I will be getting mechanic ... Read more
Sherry Wilson I am also a cancer survivor with damaged heart valves from the radiation. I will be getting mechanical valves very soon. Read all you can, ask as many questions as you can. (It helped me to watch the surgery on YouTube. It may not be for some, though.) Hugs!
Jeanette Davidson I definitely decided after lots of research I will not be getting mechanical valve will be choosing ... Read more
Jeanette Davidson I definitely decided after lots of research I will not be getting mechanical valve will be choosing to have a tissue valve. I literally think it's going to be a better "fit "for me !💕
Denise Cockayne I am getting mechanical and really wish I could get tissue but my surgeon is pretty sure it is best f ... Read more
Denise Cockayne I am getting mechanical and really wish I could get tissue but my surgeon is pretty sure it is best for me. I am doing all he tells me
Mine was from bed Bath and beyond