This is just a flagship year for my family. I had open heart on June 13th. Then we had our third baby on July 6th, which gave us 3 kids in the house 3 or under ...Read more
This is just a flagship year for my family. I had open heart on June 13th. Then we had our third baby on July 6th, which gave us 3 kids in the house 3 or under during my recovery. My recovery has gone great, but this week we found out my wife has kidney cancer (at 34 years old). So to end the year with a bang, she'll be having her kidney removed in December. I suppose the good news is that with a $200k open heart surgery and who knows what for the baby c-section, my deductible and out of pocket maximums are already met for the year... On a side note, when the baby won't sleep I lay her on my chest, and the ticking of my mechanical aortic valve knocks her out every time.
Civita Fahey wow Evan! I'm sorry to hear about your wife..., but you seem to be looking at it with some positivene ... Read more
Civita Fahey wow Evan! I'm sorry to hear about your wife..., but you seem to be looking at it with some positiveness.. My prayers to her and your family.. Like OHS isn't enough! sometimes when it rains it pours!
Catie B Evan, I'm so sorry for this health scare with your wife! I hope her surgery and treatment are extrem ... Read more
Catie B Evan, I'm so sorry for this health scare with your wife! I hope her surgery and treatment are extremely successful! I hope 2018 is far less stressful for you all.
Marie Myers So sorry to hear the news about your wife! That is one stressful year. Hope everything goes well with ... Read more
Marie Myers So sorry to hear the news about your wife! That is one stressful year. Hope everything goes well with her surgery.
Bonnie Stone-Hope Thank goodness your wife was diagnosed early. Glad to hear that your recovery has gone well.
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Bonnie Stone-Hope Thank goodness your wife was diagnosed early. Glad to hear that your recovery has gone well.
Hugs and best wishes for good health for your family.
Gerald Poulton Good attitude Evan, life happens and we just have to live with it and make the best of it 🙏
Barbara Wood I'm happy to hear that your recovery goes well, but so sorry to hear your wife is anticipating cancer ... Read more
Barbara Wood I'm happy to hear that your recovery goes well, but so sorry to hear your wife is anticipating cancer surgery. Hope all goes well with her treatment. Wishing you & your family all the best.
Cathy Zuber When it rains, it sure can pour!! Concentrate on keeping your good attitude!! Laughs help!! Then l ... Read more
Cathy Zuber When it rains, it sure can pour!! Concentrate on keeping your good attitude!! Laughs help!! Then later, when she's older, you and your wife can share the story with your daughter how she fell asleep listening to a heart valve!!
Rita Savelis Oh gosh Evan, I'm so sorry that your family has to go through more surgery this year.
Thank you for s ... Read more
Rita Savelis Oh gosh Evan, I'm so sorry that your family has to go through more surgery this year.
Thank you for sharing the lovely story of your ticking valve helping your baby sleep (my cat likes mine too).
Shannon Gray Oh Evan...thinking of you and your family. I will keep you all in my prayers.
Sandy Laine I was so happy to see a post from you, Evan, that i liked it before I read it. Not something to real ... Read more
Sandy Laine I was so happy to see a post from you, Evan, that i liked it before I read it. Not something to really 'like'. Your family remains in my thoughts and prayers - and I do believe all will be well. All the best to you and yours.
I had my first appointment with my cardiologist Tuesday. They did an echo and there is zero leakage at my new valve. Heart rate was in the low 50's, so they're ...Read more
I had my first appointment with my cardiologist Tuesday. They did an echo and there is zero leakage at my new valve. Heart rate was in the low 50's, so they're going to back down the metoprolol for a few months then try and take me off of it. INR was 2.0, which is about where it's been for the past month. They're going to hold me there for a few months, then let me come down to 1.5 for the rest of my life (or until the FDA approves on-x for use without anticoagulation). The doctor said she wouldn't go back to work earlier than I need to, but saw no reason I couldn't go back if I wanted to. For the most part there is no pain. I can sneeze all I want and don't feel a thing. The surgeon restricted me to lifting 40 pounds for 7 weeks, but that's up now, so according to him I'm free and clear. Since the new baby is only a month old, I'm going to stay out until august 22, which will be an even 10 weeks of recovery time. That'll let me help out some more at home, and I'll be sure to be good and ready when I return.
Overall I'd say this ordeal hasn't been as bad as I expected. The anticipation before surgery may be the worst. The firsts three days post op are uncomfortable and kind of scary until you realize you're not going to bust open. After that the hard part is trying not to use your arms to move around in bed or get out of a chair. Knowing what to expect by reading all the info on this website definitely helped as well. It sucks having to take meds every day for life, but my 3 year olds already know the when daddy's watch alarms at 5pm every day, it's time for medicine. Getting used to the constant ticking wasn't so hard either. It bothers me more if I don't hear it, which is rare, but it's always a relief when I move a little or breathe and it starts ticking again. Oh, and the blood thinners aren't as scary as I had in my head. When I started them, I was paranoid about cutting myself or even brushing my teeth too hard. Well, about 5 weeks after surgery, I went to cut a peach, dropped the knife, and it went straight through my sock into my toe. It bled, but I just put pressure on it like I would normally. It seems like it took a bit longer before I could take the gauze away, but blood didn't just gush for hours like I'd convinced myself it would.
Anyway, this is more of an entry to myself so that I can look back a year or more from now and remember what it was like. Oh, two more things. Got my insurance statement, billed from the hospital was $220,000. The negotiated rate was $86,000. I owe $0 since I'd already met my $500 deductible and max out of pocket for my family for the year. Thank you employer provided health insurance. Last thing. Maybe it's morbid, but something I'm glad I did was get a journal for each of my daughters and write to them the day before surgery. Yeah, risk is low, but with them being three, there were things I wanted to tell them that they wouldn't understand for another 10 or 15 years. Since everything went fine, now I can continue writing and give the the journals to them someday maybe when they graduate or get married. I only mention this because it did relieve stress before surgery. I wasn't as worried them not remembering me if I wasn't around. Keeping a journal for them was something I always wanted to do, but this was a good excuse to go do it.
So long for now, and good luck to those still waiting. Waiting is the worst part...
Rita Savelis Thanks Evan for this lovely post. Your daughters are lucky to have such a great dad! Take care.
Craig Wise Excellent Evan. Very well summarized. Indeed, lucky daughters you have.
Rose Madura Hi Evan, great news. God bless you and your family.
Catie B Great to hear, Evan! I'm glad you're doing so well!
Jill Krajnovich Glad you are doing so well, Evan! Love how you started journals for each of your daughters! What a ni ... Read more
Jill Krajnovich Glad you are doing so well, Evan! Love how you started journals for each of your daughters! What a nice gift to give them when they are older and can better appreciate your love and commitment for them!
Sounds like you are doing great. Positive attitude. What a great story you have.
Went into a-fib yesterday and my home health nurse had me go to the ER. My heart rate was bouncing between 65 and 150. They watched me for a couple hours, and ...Read more
Went into a-fib yesterday and my home health nurse had me go to the ER. My heart rate was bouncing between 65 and 150. They watched me for a couple hours, and with concurrence from my cardiologist bumped up my metoprolol from 50 to 75mg twice per day plus an additional 25mg as needed if my heart rate starts to elevate. It has been 4.5 weeks since surgery with no issues, so I was thinking about heading back to work. Think I'll hold off for a few more weeks now! I even sneezed for the first time a few days ago and had absolutely no pain. I didn't even have my pillow with me.
Phyllis Petersen Sorry to hear you had a setback. Hopefully, it's a one-off and you're moving ahead again now.
Rose Madura Hi Evan, So sorry to hear of this setback. I too had an afib attack plus two aflutters that landed m ... Read more
Rose Madura Hi Evan, So sorry to hear of this setback. I too had an afib attack plus two aflutters that landed me in ER. I am very symptomatic and it is scary. I hope this is the only setback for you.
Valerie Archual Prayers for a quick recovery and no more afib!!!
Sandy Laine Can't 'like' this - also glad that it's only been and hope it only stays a one-time thing. Hope you ... Read more
Sandy Laine Can't 'like' this - also glad that it's only been and hope it only stays a one-time thing. Hope you and all your girls are doing great and supporting each other!
Last week, at the American Association for Thoracic Surgeons meeting, Ted sent me a great question about atrial fibrillation after heart valve surgery. He write
Evan Gresh Thanks, interesting video. Since I'm already on Coumadin the doctor said risk of clots was low. I onl ... Read more
Evan Gresh Thanks, interesting video. Since I'm already on Coumadin the doctor said risk of clots was low. I only had one more run yesterday where my rate went up to about 150, but no problems today. I'll keep an eye on it, and hopefully that was my only hiccup along the recovery road. Everything else has been just fine so far.
Cathy Zuber Glad you are doing better. Are you driving yet??? Watch that increase in the Metropolol. Can make ... Read more
Cathy Zuber Glad you are doing better. Are you driving yet??? Watch that increase in the Metropolol. Can make you sleepy while driving, etc( even slept thru movie out with family). Glad other things are getting better!!
Evan Gresh Yeah, I was released to drive at three weeks. I have been more tired today than I have been lately. H ... Read more
Evan Gresh Yeah, I was released to drive at three weeks. I have been more tired today than I have been lately. Hoping it goes away or they can start lowering my dose. My first visit to the cardiologist was scheduled for august 15th (2 months after surgery), but after my trip to the ER yesterday they want to try and reschedule for this week.
Barbara Wood That's a shame about the afib! It is really common after surgery. That's a mighty big dose of metopro ... Read more
Barbara Wood That's a shame about the afib! It is really common after surgery. That's a mighty big dose of metoprolol too- I'd think you'll notice more tiredness, lightheadedness with that increase. Best wishes, let us know how it goes.
Laura Jacobs I am so sorry about the afib Evan. That sounds really scary to me. Thank goodness it is under control ... Read more
Laura Jacobs I am so sorry about the afib Evan. That sounds really scary to me. Thank goodness it is under control. How do you recognize afib? My heart rate goes up to the mid 140's at least once a day. I assumed it was normal.
Had my three week follow up with the surgeon yesterday. Cleared to drive, lift up to 40 lbs, and start rehab if I choose to. Earlier today we added baby #3, ...Read more
Had my three week follow up with the surgeon yesterday. Cleared to drive, lift up to 40 lbs, and start rehab if I choose to. Earlier today we added baby #3, Clara Rose, just 23 days after my AVR. Luckily she shows no indication she inherited any of my problems.
I honestly thought I'd be in worse shape than I am right now. My biggest problems are trying to keep from using my arms, and trying to stay motivated to keep ...Read more
I honestly thought I'd be in worse shape than I am right now. My biggest problems are trying to keep from using my arms, and trying to stay motivated to keep walking around. It's too easy to lay in the recliner and watch tv while I'm off work.. My first day home I just walked laps in the house. Yesterday I got outside and did about a half mile on our street. Today I'll see if I can double it. I know I need to not get ahead of myself, but I think the baby that's due July 7 will be here any day now. My surgeon wanted to give me at least 3+ weeks to recover, but I think I'll be happy if I get one more week! We still have grandparents staying with us to help with the twins, and our awesome church started a meal train which is providing us dinner for about two weeks. My friends at work all chipped in and hired a lawn service to handle my yard (3 acres) for the rest of the summer. I don't think we could ask for better family or friends!
Sandy Laine So happy to hear of your great support network - and that you feel you're doing well!
Marie Myers That is wonderful news! People are usually happy to help with a situation like yours. Take it easy th ... Read more
Marie Myers That is wonderful news! People are usually happy to help with a situation like yours. Take it easy though- you just had a huge surgery...
Steve Farthing Sounds like with your great support network, if the baby arrives early, yawl will be able to handle i ... Read more
Steve Farthing Sounds like with your great support network, if the baby arrives early, yawl will be able to handle it.
Matt Sheffield So happy to hear that things are going well. We had the same surgery. I had a St. Jude valve instal ... Read more
Matt Sheffield So happy to hear that things are going well. We had the same surgery. I had a St. Jude valve installed though. I think it's because where I had the surgery (St. Jude, Fullerton).
Kathy Blank Evan- great progress and a wonderful support system- keep up the progress but take advantage of rest ... Read more
Kathy Blank Evan- great progress and a wonderful support system- keep up the progress but take advantage of rest so your body will heal! Soon you won't be able to rest as much!
The great news is that I made it through surgery and seem to be recovering very well. The bad news is that before I woke up I had a coughing fit and tore a ...Read more
The great news is that I made it through surgery and seem to be recovering very well. The bad news is that before I woke up I had a coughing fit and tore a stitch between my new aortic arch and my old descending aorta causing internal bleeding. The nurses noticed it quickly and I was back in surgery just a few hours after my first one finished up. I've been getting greattteatmrnt by the staff and my family. The pain today is noticeably better than yesterday. I'm still having fairly consistent drainage, so I'll probably be in for another few days, but I'm looking forward to going home soon
Alethea Scally Super news, Evan! Here's to a speedy recovery!
All pre-op testing done, and staying at the guest house next door to the hospital so I can be there at 5:30 am tomorrow. Ready to get this done and over with. ...Read more
All pre-op testing done, and staying at the guest house next door to the hospital so I can be there at 5:30 am tomorrow. Ready to get this done and over with. I'm most nervous about the arch replacement, but this isn't my surgeon's first rodeo, so I'm thinking positive thoughts. Camping with the girls was also a good way to spend the last weekend prior to surgery as well. This is probably my last entry until the flip side, best of wishes to everyone else around the world going through this tomorrow as well.
Eric Linnenburger Everything will go great! I look forward to learning from your experiences on the flip side. Now roll ... Read more
Eric Linnenburger Everything will go great! I look forward to learning from your experiences on the flip side. Now roll in there and kick some butt!
Cathleen Weed Best of luck and lots of positive vibes your way from California 🌴☀️!
Jennifer McInerney Good luck and best wishes for a speedy and uneventful recovery from Canada
I got another call from the surgeon's office. They were able to pull my surgery up to the 13th to try and give me an extra few days of recovery time before ...Read more
I got another call from the surgeon's office. They were able to pull my surgery up to the 13th to try and give me an extra few days of recovery time before the baby shows up. I'm working 72 hour weeks right now, so I'm going to go in to work next Monday to tie up any loose ends and take the rest of the week off to spend time with the family and go camping for a few days.
Laura Jacobs Oh my gosh...so much to deal with. So glad you will have family visiting to support you. What joy tho ... Read more
Laura Jacobs Oh my gosh...so much to deal with. So glad you will have family visiting to support you. What joy though to see your new baby!!! That is something to celebrate. Congratulations!!
Phyllis Petersen Wow, is that stressful! Praying that everything goes easily for you, so you can both enjoy your new a ... Read more
Phyllis Petersen Wow, is that stressful! Praying that everything goes easily for you, so you can both enjoy your new addition and help out with the children. Going camping sounds like a fantastic way to relax and have some great family time.
Sandy Laine Great news that they moved you up from the 20th - I had missed that it got delayed - but SO glad they ... Read more
Sandy Laine Great news that they moved you up from the 20th - I had missed that it got delayed - but SO glad they moved it up. They're looking out for the whole person (and family!) - I think you have a good team on your side! Enjoy the camping!
Evan Gresh Yes, I'm happy with my treatment so far. When the nurse called to reschedule the second time, she sai ... Read more
Evan Gresh Yes, I'm happy with my treatment so far. When the nurse called to reschedule the second time, she said the staff there wanted to give me as much time as possible before the baby, so they reworked the schedule to get me a time slot. I really appreciated them doing that, and let them know it!
Michael Carbone Great luck Evan Im sure all will go well. Enjoy the xamping trip not a bad idea to help with anxiety. ... Read more
Michael Carbone Great luck Evan Im sure all will go well. Enjoy the xamping trip not a bad idea to help with anxiety. I go in August as of right now for a redo. Anxiety is a bitch!
I got a call from the surgeon's office to let me know that due to a conflict, my surgery is being postponed 5 days to June 20th. My concern is that it gives ...Read more
I got a call from the surgeon's office to let me know that due to a conflict, my surgery is being postponed 5 days to June 20th. My concern is that it gives me 5 less days to recover (17) before the newest baby arrives (if my wife goes full term). My wife made it full term with twins 3 years ago, so fingers crossed. Our c-section is scheduled for July 7th, so there may be some overlap where neither of us can drive. Will be fun times in my house with two 3 year olds, a newborn, a wife recovering from surgery, and me three weeks removed from heart surgery!
Cathleen Weed Oh wow!! 😂 That's a lot on your plate!
Marie Myers Any chance there are family or friends who can help you out? Sounds like you might need a hand with n ... Read more
Marie Myers Any chance there are family or friends who can help you out? Sounds like you might need a hand with new baby and recovering from OHS. Especially the driving part...
Barbara Wood Oh yes, I hope you can line up some good help! (Your daughter's adorable...identical twins?)
Evan Gresh Yes, thank you, identical twins. Both my mother-in-law and my mom are coming to town to help. They li ... Read more
Evan Gresh Yes, thank you, identical twins. Both my mother-in-law and my mom are coming to town to help. They live about 12 hours away, so they're going to stay for a month or so between the two of them. They're going to be lifesavers.
Barbara Wood Oh good, I'm glad to hear you'll have the extra help! Best wishes to you & your family :)
Michael Carbone Yikes call in the reserves!! Lol it will be a busy household!!!
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Hugs and best wishes for good health for your family.
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Thank you for sharing the lovely story of your ticking valve helping your baby sleep (my cat likes mine too).