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Diagnosis: Aortic Regurgitation

Member Since: March 16, 2017

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Dana Betts posted an update
9 years ago (April 3, 2017)
Wow. Now it feels so real. I Will see a hematologist before surgery because I bruise incredibly easy now. I am having the On-X valve which means Coumadin. Last week or so I have been "nesting" like before having a baby. Anyone else experience this?
9 years ago (April 3, 2017)
I didn't have time to "nest". Lol. Only 10 days from diagnosis to OR. I do have an ON-X valve. They keep my INR pretty low so not too much bruising. I am almost at 3 and a half years post op.
9 years ago (April 3, 2017)
Dana I was all about nesting in preparation for what I thought I wouldn't be able to do, including grocery shopping! It kept me busy and my mind focused on a successful recovery! Praying for the best for you ❤
9 years ago (April 3, 2017)
That's what I did too. Got as much ready as I could before. Made me feel like I still had some control.
9 years ago (April 4, 2017)
My surgery is 4/24, I guess I am nesting. I'm getting ready to switch my winter to spring clothes and cleaning my oven and fridge, and other things.. so I guess its normal.. I guess as Noreen says its control., I don't like losing it.. sometimes too much time before... Read more.
9 years ago (April 4, 2017)
Thank you. I love this site where I am never alone with thoughts and feelings.
Dana Betts posted an update
9 years ago (April 3, 2017)
Wow. Now it feels so real. I Will see a hematologist before surgery because I bruise incredibly easy now. I am having the On-X valve which means Coumadin. Last week or so I have been "nesting" like before having a baby. Anyone else experience this?
Dana Betts posted an update
9 years ago (March 24, 2017)
Where would I be without my husband? He is my rock. We have been married almost 24 years ( we got married when I was 5...lol). He listens to my fears, holds me when I cry and takes it in stride when I lash out at him out of fear... Read more.
9 years ago (March 24, 2017)
Same thing, my husband.. he is so caring and I know that he is scared too but always tells me its going to be ok.. he tries to keep me busy when we aren't working tries to make me laugh.. my family is also supportive and co workers, but I... Read more.
9 years ago (March 24, 2017)
Love it Citiva
9 years ago (March 24, 2017)
do you have a date yet? I'm on 4/24.. and its one month from today.. the anxiety is setting in.. Im trying really hard not to think about it, but its just the way I am.. I obsess.. I should have it just scheduled it when they said its time,... Read more.
9 years ago (March 24, 2017)
My sugnificant other. I'm not married but we've been together for almost 7 years. My surgery was 3/15 and she's been with me every step of the way
9 years ago (March 24, 2017)
Dana, you are in the right path, family and friends will see you through this ordeal. It only gets better once to you get in the road to full recovery.
9 years ago (March 24, 2017)
it does get better and yes i know the feeling of every one telling you it will be alright when you are scared to death of ohs
9 years ago (March 24, 2017)
No surgery date yet. See aurgeon on 4/3
9 years ago (March 25, 2017)
I'm very lucky to have a "rock" too...he stands by me even when I wallow in it, reminds me it's not my first rodeo & I'll be fine & I always believe him! Nice post Dana, & I like how you married him when you were 5:)

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