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Cherie Farmer Allred posted an update
11 years ago (November 25, 2014)
I've made my decisions...surgeon, valve and date, Dec. 5.. And I feel peaceful and good ...I choose more experience ( 20+ yrs open heart and especially valves) over more innovative. And sooner rather than later, I could have waited until The first of January ...but my surgeon says he expects... Read more.
11 years ago (November 25, 2014)
Stay strong Cherie! You will do great! It's got to be a relief to have made your decisions and are set to go. Wishing you a joyful Thanksgiving! :)
11 years ago (November 25, 2014)
Cherie, I'm glad you have everything set and can feel that peace that comes with it. The way I continued to feel that was to keep reminding myself of the things you mentioned. The experience of my surgeon, the statistics, etc. I also made a journal of favorite scriptures that... Read more.
11 years ago (November 25, 2014)
You will be strong as all of us had to find the courage, you have to Believe in You and you will be fine, for me i kept on this site and loaded myself with information, i also listen to a lot of music of all kinds some peaceful and... Read more.
11 years ago (November 25, 2014)
Cherie, Sounds like you are locked an loaded for a great procedure. Your attitude is in the right place. Now, it's time to let your medical team do their job and get you all fixed up for Christmas -- and, the rest of your life! Happy Thanksgiving!
11 years ago (November 25, 2014)
Cherie, You will be brave and strong... choose no other way. During my surgery twenty years ago, I wasn't fearful or afraid (this was my second OHS) so I knew what to expect. Actually, I wanted to just get it over and done so that I could feel better. My... Read more.
11 years ago (November 25, 2014)
I found once my decisions were firm and the date set, I felt as you do "peaceful and good!" It stayed with me until surgery was over, as I hope it will with you. I kept busy too- making ahead meals to freeze for post op, arranged my recliner in... Read more.
11 years ago (November 25, 2014)
Thanks everybody!! I appreciate your kind words..it really helps to hear this from people who have been in my shoes!!
Cherie Farmer Allred posted an update
11 years ago (November 10, 2014)
I am a 62 y/o active golf playing, traveling retired nurse. I was diagnosed 11 yrs ago with an aortic murmur . Eighteen months ago my murmur changed from moderate to moderate to severe and within the past 3 months my valve has progressed to the point I'm having exertion... Read more.
11 years ago (November 10, 2014)
Welcome, i think that goal of yours can be reached !
11 years ago (November 10, 2014)
Welcome Cherie! You will find so much support here.
11 years ago (November 10, 2014)
Hi, I think you and I have similar stories. I am a 64 yr old retired nurse. My valve went from mod to severe in a short period of time as well. I just had a cardiac cath and now am waiting to hear from the surgeon to discuss valves... Read more.
11 years ago (November 10, 2014)
Nice to meet you and welcome to the Community, Cheri. Finish well!
11 years ago (November 10, 2014)
Hello Cherie. Love the opening line to your Journal! Having a positive attitude is a great start. After selecting the surgeon for you and having a good cardiologist all of the preparations will fall into place. Have you had a heart cath yet? If you don't mind, where are you... Read more.
11 years ago (November 11, 2014)
Thank u everyone for your comments, yes Terrie I had my second cath in within a two year period a couple of weeks ago ...and then an echo last week...that confirmed changes in just the past three months...so my Huntsville, Al. cardiologist thinks my window of opportunity, worsening valve but... Read more.
11 years ago (November 11, 2014)
Cherie, My murmur was tracked for 6 years. I had my surgery (15 months ago) before any symptoms. Getting the AVS done sooner than later was the best advice my Cardiologist gave me. I was driving and back to work 4 weeks after surgery. You'll do great!
11 years ago (November 11, 2014)
Cherie - I'm a retired nurse too, and live in Denver, but I've elected to have my mitral valve repair done at Cleveland Clinic in January. It's a fantastic place. Good luck with all the decisions you'll be facing.
11 years ago (November 12, 2014)
Cherie, Sweet Home Alabama. Birmingham is my home. Are you from Huntsville?
11 years ago (November 25, 2014)
Great to know! If we're ever in Huntsville, will look you up. If you're in B'ham, please do the same. Have a thankful and happy Thanksgiving!
11 years ago (December 4, 2014)
Cherie, you are in my thoughts and prayers... Blessings to you, the surgical team, family and friends tomorrow, your surgery date, 12/5. Be strong and of a courageous mindset!