Hi Duane,
I hope the spring weather is providing some opportunities to get out and do some fishing. Been out a few times this spring and have done well. ...Read more
Hi Duane,
I hope the spring weather is providing some opportunities to get out and do some fishing. Been out a few times this spring and have done well. Have a trip planned to the far north of NH at the end of the month for 5 days. Now on some meds that I dislike, but otherwise all is good and hope you are feeling better.
Tim
Bstonehope@icloud.com posted a note for Duane that says:
Hello Duane,
Really enjoyed your post, very funny!
Thought I was reading a Dave Barry book👍
Good that you can still laugh in spite of the serious complications ...Read more
Hello Duane,
Really enjoyed your post, very funny!
Thought I was reading a Dave Barry book👍
Good that you can still laugh in spite of the serious complications you experienced.
“When the going gets tough, the tough get going”
Duane Beeman Just checked in for the first time in a while. Glad you enjoyed the post. If I didn't laugh, I'd cr ... Read more
Duane Beeman Just checked in for the first time in a while. Glad you enjoyed the post. If I didn't laugh, I'd cry. It's not always easy but it sure beats the alternative.
Duane-I appreciated your encouraging note so much - I actually read it out loud to my dad. And I do think it helped. Unfortunately, still waiting to feel ...Read more
Duane-I appreciated your encouraging note so much - I actually read it out loud to my dad. And I do think it helped. Unfortunately, still waiting to feel the sun on my face when I get discharged. Nonetheless, very happy to have the surgery behind me and hoping today is the day!😍
Duane Beeman Just checked in. So happy for you....and for your dad. Now go live your new life....it' a good one. ... Read more
Duane Beeman Just checked in. So happy for you....and for your dad. Now go live your new life....it' a good one.
Hi Duane, Larry here. we share the same surgery date for aortic valve.
glad to hear you're still ornery as ever.
visiting northern mich first week of oct ...Read more
Hi Duane, Larry here. we share the same surgery date for aortic valve.
glad to hear you're still ornery as ever.
visiting northern mich first week of oct
life is good
larry
Duane, thanks for responding to my first fear and loathing post here... I would not have known about your Journal otherwise...I read it all last night ...you ...Read more
Duane, thanks for responding to my first fear and loathing post here... I would not have known about your Journal otherwise...I read it all last night ...you are amazing....your children must respect you so much...and a life lived gratefully without remorse, resentment and regret is very attractive...I believe reading your Journal may help me self correct...the surgery scheduled for me is 4/24/17...where is your boy in FL? We are in Tampa Bay area💟🐟🥇
Duane Beeman He's in Brandon......he hates me. Just kidding !!! Muhammad Ali once observed that, "a man who look ... Read more
Duane Beeman He's in Brandon......he hates me. Just kidding !!! Muhammad Ali once observed that, "a man who looks at life at 50, the same way he did at 20. has wasted 30 years of his life." I feel the same way about heart surgery !! Every day from here on out is a gift....pure, simple and undeniable.
Duane, just read your journal.. with less than 3 weeks to go, I wasn't sure I wanted to read a journal of someone who had some major complications. But, I ...Read more
Duane, just read your journal.. with less than 3 weeks to go, I wasn't sure I wanted to read a journal of someone who had some major complications. But, I have to say, its an amazing road you traveled and with a great sense of humor.. your posts put a smile on my face as I was reading and then concern as I read your adventure, but now, I have more faith than ever that we can all get through this.. we need to trust the surgeons and the Guy upstairs that all will be ok.. thanks again for the humor ..
Duane Beeman My adventure was the exception to the rule. I believe it can't get much worse than what I went throug ... Read more
Duane Beeman My adventure was the exception to the rule. I believe it can't get much worse than what I went through, so you SHOULD be encouraged. They replaced my ascending aorta with dacron, threw in a heart valve and sent me to ICU in "extremely critical condition". Then the fight really got started !! Civita....I promise you that you'll be sitting in the sunshine two months from now and all will be well with your world.
Duane I saw a old post from you and I would like to know which valve did you get .I got a bovine valve at 67 in 2010 and now at 74 doing good. Duane did you ...Read more
Duane I saw a old post from you and I would like to know which valve did you get .I got a bovine valve at 67 in 2010 and now at 74 doing good. Duane did you visit Edwards Lab and did say how long a bovine valves last.
Duane Beeman Bovine valve Peter. I did not visit the lab as I didn't think it would make any difference in my deci ... Read more
Duane Beeman Bovine valve Peter. I did not visit the lab as I didn't think it would make any difference in my decision. I think the longevity of each valve differs based upon the age, make-up and lifestyle of the recipient. I am glad you are well. I know people that are on year number 14
Jane Welp I chose bovine tissue for AVR & at age 67 years I am hopeful it will last well! So many unknowns.
Duane Beeman Life is an unknown, eh ?. You buy your ticket and take your chances. I don't worry about it. I jus ... Read more
Duane Beeman Life is an unknown, eh ?. You buy your ticket and take your chances. I don't worry about it. I just get up every day and understand that if this happened forty years ago I'd probably be a dead man. I consider each day going forward a gift of medical science
Duane-where are you at in No. Mich?
Larry Fuller
If you got an Edwards Valve you should inquire about their open house in So Cal.
I got to go last year, ...Read more
Duane-where are you at in No. Mich?
Larry Fuller
If you got an Edwards Valve you should inquire about their open house in So Cal.
I got to go last year, was treated like a king and got lots of insight on the valve making process-very rewarding( and free)
Duane Beeman I was born and raised in Traverse City but now live Hubbard Lake near Alpena Michigan. I went from L ... Read more
Duane Beeman I was born and raised in Traverse City but now live Hubbard Lake near Alpena Michigan. I went from Lake Michigan to Lake Huron !!
Hello heart brother. So great to hear that you are living every day to the fullest. You did have a scary fight! You won the fight and I am so happy for you. ...Read more
Hello heart brother. So great to hear that you are living every day to the fullest. You did have a scary fight! You won the fight and I am so happy for you. You have really made me stop and think about how I can slow down. My heart valve anniversary will be 3 years in July. Give me a call sometime and we can have an ice tea! Night my heart brother. Enjoy opening day fishing!
Your heart sister Mary
Hi Duane. Found your journal today as a result of your update. Wow...what a journey you had. I am 6 weeks post op Bentall Procedure...new cow valve and bitchin' ...Read more
Hi Duane. Found your journal today as a result of your update. Wow...what a journey you had. I am 6 weeks post op Bentall Procedure...new cow valve and bitchin' Dacron shield replacing ascending aorta and the root (aneurysms had developed on both sides of the valve)....
Recovering well, as best I can tell...
Sure loved your most recent update. So glad you are doing well after all you went through.
I chuckled about the 'Cardio diet' in the hospital. While I was there, I couldn't figure out...for the life of me...how anyone could mess up scrambled eggs. They tasted so horrible. Then...come to find out...they used an 'egg substitute'. Not a real egg to be found. LOL...
Too funny.
Anyway, thanks for posting the update...and stay the course!
Duane Beeman Larry: That food was worse than they feed people in jail !! I ate a steak tonight and I'm heading f ... Read more
Duane Beeman Larry: That food was worse than they feed people in jail !! I ate a steak tonight and I'm heading for the ice cream soon, My Michigan Wolverines lost by a point so I'm pouting....it's ALL good brother. We'd be headstones if this would have happened to us fifty years ago ! Suck up all the air you can, cause I'm breathing deep. Take care
Larry Ring Too funny that we have such parallel tracks. I'm an attorney too...(hated to admit that to the medic ... Read more
Larry Ring Too funny that we have such parallel tracks. I'm an attorney too...(hated to admit that to the medical team that supported me through this journey)...
Back to work in five weeks....my youngest daughter is finishing nursing school so retirement isn't in the cards...LOL...
Sole practitioner, so definitely honing down the stress levels at work.
So you've stopped drinking completely? If so...good for you! But now...do you wish you'd opted for mechanical? LOL...
I, too, have a bovine valve...left the choice up to my surgeon who assured me (like yours) that he would select the best option once he "saw" the valve area.
I am banking on TAVR in 15-20 years if the cow valve needs replacing.
I am thankful that I don't have to take warfarin for the rest of my life...don't have to worry about what/how I eat...and can have the occasional binge night...LOL
So great to connect with you.
Duane Beeman Wow. What a coincidence. You think the practice contributed to our current circumstances ? I was f ... Read more
Duane Beeman Wow. What a coincidence. You think the practice contributed to our current circumstances ? I was fortunate that I had some good years before this happened and paid all my debt off before the steam roller hit me. Practiced in the Detroit Metro area most of my career. Also, I'm VERY lucky that I had a long term disability policy in place. It covers me until I'm 65 and then I'm on my own I guess. It's not the heart valve replacement that took me out of circulation or rendered me "disabled". It's the aortic dissection. I have to take 850 milligrams of blood pressure meds every day to maintain a satisfactory level and to keep the dissection stable. That alone makes it pretty tough to function at times. I just have to take everything slow now. Sometimes when I stand up I have to close my eyes and compose myself for 10 seconds to make the dizziness go away. I also had a stroke during surgery that has impacted my ability to focus at times. Not a good trait for an attorney. As far as drinking, I will swear under oath that I have not had a drop of hard liquor since my surgery......and I was a pro back in the day. I do have an occasional glass of wine and I will have a beer but I ain't even on the charts compared to what I did back in the day. Should have done this years ago, but it seemed like a good idea at the time !! You're not kidding about re-thinking the mechanical valve thing. I'm scared to death of replacement surgery. But I am truthfully living a simple life now. I loved the practice and the fight at the time, but in retrospect, it was all bullshit. I'm enjoying this "no stress" life more than you can imagine. I would have NEVER have quit practicing but for this physical problem, but I have no regrets. I'm loving the forced relaxation. I was steelhead fishing on the AuSable River last week on a sunny Tuesday morning, thinking about the poor bastards sitting in a courtroom or office somewhere, selling their heartbeats for a dollar. I just smiled and thanked God for kicking my ass and giving me this opportunity to live like a man should.
Larry Ring I had a bicuspid aortic valve...congenital defect...and the sequela of events (calcification...stenos ... Read more
Larry Ring I had a bicuspid aortic valve...congenital defect...and the sequela of events (calcification...stenosis...aneurysm) seems to be quite common. When the bad valve was first found (10 years ago), my cardiolgist said I had a 50/50 chance of needing replacement surgery by the time I was 70. I drew the short straw and needed it at 59. LOL....
I have kept my stress level as low as possible since opening my own practice. So, no...I don't think it contributed...
Now trying to lower stress levels even further...LOL...we shall see.
Duane Beeman I was two years from diagnosis to replacement. At least I didn't have long to agonize over it. Bicu ... Read more
Duane Beeman I was two years from diagnosis to replacement. At least I didn't have long to agonize over it. Bicuspid aortic valve just like you....
Cynthia Johnson posted a note for Duane that says:
Duane,
Was just posting a message for my sister who is recuperating from OHS for a rare condition called Ebstein's Anomaly. Somehow I stumbled upon your post. ...Read more
Duane,
Was just posting a message for my sister who is recuperating from OHS for a rare condition called Ebstein's Anomaly. Somehow I stumbled upon your post. Your direct, tell-it-like-it-is style combined with your sense of humor (had you been your own nurse you would have smothered yourself with a pillow AND Everyone has a fight plan until they get punched in the head ; Barb is going to love those zingers! )....just what I needed to ease my concern just enough to perhaps sleep. So glad to hear you fought your way back.
Sincerely,
Cynthia
Duane Beeman Thanks Cynthia. It's been the battle of my life, but it has CHANGED my life. I'm still the same "tel ... Read more
Duane Beeman Thanks Cynthia. It's been the battle of my life, but it has CHANGED my life. I'm still the same "tell it like it is" guy, but I'm a lot more humble in the process. I found out just how tenuous our grasp on this planet really is. I'm devoted to enjoying every second of it I have left. Best of luck to your sister, if she needs somebody to correspond with, give her my name.
Hey Duane-you should try to attend the Edwards Lifescience patient day if you have an Edwards valve.
I got accepted immediately.
great reason to get out of ...Read more
Hey Duane-you should try to attend the Edwards Lifescience patient day if you have an Edwards valve.
I got accepted immediately.
great reason to get out of Michigan for a couple of days-airfare&hotel paid.
best regards
Larry Fuller
Lilly Black Duane, I requested information and didn't receive anything. How can I attend the patient day? Do you ... Read more
Lilly Black Duane, I requested information and didn't receive anything. How can I attend the patient day? Do you know?
Lilly Black oh sorry! I should be asking Larry Fuller.
Your voice is invaluable. You’ve been there. You know what it feels like. Patient Day is about bringing together people like you who have benefitted from Edwards Lifesciences technologies, to connect with our teams, with one another, and with patient organizations. We look forward to engaging an intimate group of patients who will share their experience and expertise. Your insights can help Edwards and our partners have an impact on the lives of future patients.
Edwards Lifesciences hosted 100 heart valve patients and caregivers at its corporate headquarters to connect patients with each other and to share more about...
Eddie Patton Sounds interesting. Might look into myself. Thanks for the info.
It absolutely made my day to discover your post yesterday, Duane! I've not checked into this site for a few months, and not having any news about you, I was ...Read more
It absolutely made my day to discover your post yesterday, Duane! I've not checked into this site for a few months, and not having any news about you, I was more than a little concerned. Now I find out you were lounging around in ICU and being hand-fed by beautiful nurses! Thank God we are OK! One of these days you'll share that joke you promised me!
Duane Beeman Actually I've been up north at my cabin getting some things done. I have no internet access up there ... Read more
Duane Beeman Actually I've been up north at my cabin getting some things done. I have no internet access up there, but I'm OK with that. Thanks for writing. I appreciate it. And one of these days I will share that joke.....if I ever remember what we were talking about !!
Hey, Duane, notice you are also from Michigan. Just wondering if you have any advice for someone who might have valve surgery where you did.
Duane Beeman Beaumont or Ann Arbor are the only two places to be, in my humble opinion. Beaumont was my final ch ... Read more
Duane Beeman Beaumont or Ann Arbor are the only two places to be, in my humble opinion. Beaumont was my final choice.
Jean Raber Why? Just out of curiosity, would you recommend Beaumont? Not interested in U-M.
Duane Beeman I am pretty involved in the Beaumont System, given that my cardiologist is also part of that system. ... Read more
Duane Beeman I am pretty involved in the Beaumont System, given that my cardiologist is also part of that system. Also, doctor Sakwa (Beaumont) specializes in minimally invasive surgery. Finally, in the recent U.S News and World Report rankings of cardiac centers Beaumont was ranked 25th in the nation in contrast to Ann Arbor's Frankel Center, which was ranked 50th. At the end of the day they are both outstanding heart centers. No other Michigan hospital was ranked anywhere near those two.
Jean Raber Duane, thanks. If you don't mind question bombardo, what was your experience with staff, nurses (othe ... Read more
Jean Raber Duane, thanks. If you don't mind question bombardo, what was your experience with staff, nurses (other than wanting to throttle the one who kept bringing you the heart healthy gruel)? Did the hospital get records to your regular doc in a timely fashion? Did the hospital lose records or were there scheduling screw-ups along the way?
Not persuaded that I shouldn't have my MV repair done at the regional hospital, which I have fond feelings for. But Beaumont would be cheaper and closer than Cleveland Clinic given current insurance situation.
Duane Beeman Cleveland Clinic is, no doubt, the top dog. As far as staff at Beaumont, I could not have asked for ... Read more
Duane Beeman Cleveland Clinic is, no doubt, the top dog. As far as staff at Beaumont, I could not have asked for better care. All records were on line and accessible to those whom I permitted access. My primary care physician and cardiologist were timely informed of all developments
Dua, me, love your posts. You have been through the spin cycle but God has plans for you. It is a scary thing to think about, heart surgery, but you faced it ...Read more
Dua, me, love your posts. You have been through the spin cycle but God has plans for you. It is a scary thing to think about, heart surgery, but you faced it head on. That is commendable.
I recently found out I have Tricuspid and Mitral Regurgitation. Right now it is Mild. Stumbled upon this website while doing research to educate myself and found your posts. I also want to face this head on and deal with it with strength.
You continue to heal and feel better. Again, loved your posts and especially the cartoons. :)
Duane Beeman Head on is the ONLY way..................
Well written Duane! The power of prayer is awesome, BUT the end result is even more AWESOME! What you have written is what it's all about! Now that you've beaten ...Read more
Well written Duane! The power of prayer is awesome, BUT the end result is even more AWESOME! What you have written is what it's all about! Now that you've beaten the 10 count, keep the attitude positive and all will be well! I have had over 7 surgeries in the last 3 years -- the last 2 were the most aggressive ones. I had my thyroid removed and there was a problem while in recovery. Something broke internally and I was drowning in my own blood. They took me back in and had to reopen me to repair it. Then a 1 1/2 years later had to have the AVR! I believe that I am still here to share the result of the power of prayer and the awesomeness of God! I am glad you're doing well, doing some thinking and getting ready to testify what you've been through!
BTW start thinking about getting the Harley! May God continue to bless you! Onward & Upward!
Duane Beeman Thank you John. Life is a learning process
Welcome back Duane!!
I think we've all had a chance to think about the rest of our lives lately.i had an easy time compared to you and have tried to wrap my ...Read more
Welcome back Duane!!
I think we've all had a chance to think about the rest of our lives lately.i had an easy time compared to you and have tried to wrap my mind around all that has happened and why.
Perhaps doing s
More things for other people is now our task.take some kids fishing...or a senior.
Duane,
Sounds like you have really been doing some thinking and feeling.💗 The good Lord still has plans for you, here on Earth, whether it's as a father, ...Read more
Duane,
Sounds like you have really been doing some thinking and feeling.💗 The good Lord still has plans for you, here on Earth, whether it's as a father, friend, attorney or someone to encourage others, by sharing your experience with them. May you continue to heal completely, so you may enjoy your new, healthy life. Prayer is a powerful thing and you have many friends and family that continue to say prayers for you.🙏🏻
Take care of yourself. 😊 I hope you can enjoy some of this beautiful Michigan summer!
Hello Duane,
Hoping you were able to rest well last night. Please send me an email when you feel up to it You said that you were so tired when you got home. ...Read more
Hello Duane,
Hoping you were able to rest well last night. Please send me an email when you feel up to it You said that you were so tired when you got home. I remember coming home and being exhausted. It took me about three weeks at home , to start sleeping through the night and to feel energetic. I believe that we talked about that when I met you. You will gain strength each day, and before you know it you will feel amazing!
Happy 4th of July! At least your home for it!
Healthy hugs!
Your heart sister
Glad to hear you're home. Take it slow and remember just because you feel great one day doesn't mean you'll be even better the next. I have a few days where ...Read more
Glad to hear you're home. Take it slow and remember just because you feel great one day doesn't mean you'll be even better the next. I have a few days where I feel I'm going backward, but only a few. Take whatever help you can get and remember it takes about 6 months or more to really be back to "normal". I'm 9 weeks post op and still need to take a "rest" or nap in the afternoon and I didn't have it nearly as bad as you did. I'll keep in touch with my progress and see how you are doing also.
Nancy D I am still seeing progress at 10.5 months, much more subtle than before, but I think NEW normal will ... Read more
Nancy D I am still seeing progress at 10.5 months, much more subtle than before, but I think NEW normal will be 12 months.... Celebrate the little progresses as they add up quicker than the big ones!! The days your body says NO, rest and deep breathe often and those days will space out further and further! Forward progress!!! Take good care!
Duane,
Just like the old saying... There's no place like home! So glad to hear that you are heading down the road to recovery.☺️ Healing thoughts and prayers ...Read more
Duane,
Just like the old saying... There's no place like home! So glad to hear that you are heading down the road to recovery.☺️ Healing thoughts and prayers are continuing for you and all your heart brothers and sisters.
Mary Myers Welcome home Duane, It is so nice having you back. Home sweet home is the best! Remember to take ba ... Read more
Mary Myers Welcome home Duane, It is so nice having you back. Home sweet home is the best! Remember to take baby steps and sleep when your body needs it! Healthy hugs!
Hey Duane, I hope you're doing good today and making some progress. Celebrate even the smallest steps forward, because they all add up! We're still praying ...Read more
Hey Duane, I hope you're doing good today and making some progress. Celebrate even the smallest steps forward, because they all add up! We're still praying for you and wishing you all the best! Looking forward to hearing from you when you feel like it. God bless!
Cheryl Batzing Duane--what Tammy said! Hope you are recovering well and can't wait until you feel up to posting agai ... Read more
Cheryl Batzing Duane--what Tammy said! Hope you are recovering well and can't wait until you feel up to posting again.
Hey Duane, it's not often I say I'm glad to hear from an attorney but in this case I'm ecstatic! I'm so sorry about the problems you have had and have missed ...Read more
Hey Duane, it's not often I say I'm glad to hear from an attorney but in this case I'm ecstatic! I'm so sorry about the problems you have had and have missed your wit and wisdom. I want to hear more so I know you are going to be O.K. Thank you for visiting us today, please return often. :-)