Hi Everyone - My God what an experience I have gone through and continue to go through. I had my Aortic valve surgery (replaced with a cow valve) on June 19th. ...Read more
Hi Everyone - My God what an experience I have gone through and continue to go through. I had my Aortic valve surgery (replaced with a cow valve) on June 19th. The surgery itself took close to nine hours, as my surgeon had to replaced my aortic valve, place a graft in the aortic root, replace my entire ascending aortic valve with a graft and then replace the lower portion of my Aortic Arch with a graft. My doctor/surgeon knew exactly what needed to be replaced prior to the surgery, with the exception of replacing the bottom portion of my aortic arch. He wanted to have a better look at the arch, prior to making a decision as to whether it needed to be replaced. Turns out it did. I then spent the next eight days in the Cardiac ICU at Stanford. This is where everything went sideways. My blood pressure was very low and remained that way for a few days. When they would try to sit me up in bed, my pressure would drop significantly (60/40). I would pass out and an entire emergency team would come in to revive me. This apparently happened twice, as I was passed out and didn't know what was actually going on. In addition my White Blood Cell Count was very high. Getting my White Blood Cell count down to the normal range took all of the 24 days I was hospitalized. In addition, on my second day in the ICU I was given an antibiotic that it turns out I am allergic to. It took days for my skin to clear up, from the potential infections all over my body. When I checked in to Stanford Hospital for the surgery on Thursday June 19 my weight was 210 lbs. By Saturday June 21st I was 250 lbs. All this additional weight was caused by all the liquids they needed to give me during the surgery. My entire body was swollen. Every part of me. Both my feet had potato size blisters on them from the excess liquid. When I was finally stabilized in the ICU, they moved me to a Step-Down Room, where I spent the next 15 days, trying to get rid of the excess liquid in my body, lower my white blood cell count and keep my blood pressure within a normal range. I finally was able to achieve normal levels of everything. Everyone's body is different and how each person reacts to a huge operation like mine is different. My surgeon and his team weren't completely surprised by the various stages that I went through during post-op. I have been home for almost three weeks and am feeling more like myself every day. I would still recommend my cardiac surgeon and the entire Stanford cardiac team for their excellent support. They did everything they could do to finally send me home to my family. I will never forget the kindness of the nurses, administrators, doctors and the cardiac surgeons. They saved my life. It took a little while to finally stabilize me but they did.
I am alive and thankful for everything I have in my life. Cardiac surgery does knock you down a few notches, which I think is good because it gives you a real opportunity to assess your life and what is really important in it.
I apologize for not writing sooner. I hope everyone in this group, who goes through cardiac surgery, is in the process of recovering or already completely recovered. Bless you all. ITS GOOD TO BE BACK.
Denise Agnew Wow! What an incredible ordeal. I'm so sorry you had to go through so much, but it is great news to h ... Read more
Denise Agnew Wow! What an incredible ordeal. I'm so sorry you had to go through so much, but it is great news to hear you are feeling better every day and recovering well now that is over. Sounds like your medical team was/is amazing! Here's to continued good health!
Marie Myers You have been through a lot! Hope things are smooth from here on out.
Rose Madura Oh my! Thank you for posting. I'm sorry you've had such a rough experience. I had a lot of complicati ... Read more
Rose Madura Oh my! Thank you for posting. I'm sorry you've had such a rough experience. I had a lot of complications so I know how you feel. Hopefully, you've now turned a corner and will continue to gain strength and start feeling better. God bless you on this journey. ❤️🩹👍
J Alexander Lassally Wow. It seems like everything that happened was a big exclamation mark compared to others on here... ... Read more
J Alexander Lassally Wow. It seems like everything that happened was a big exclamation mark compared to others on here... For your knowledge, I too, passed out in the first attempts to get out and upon later research think we can attribute this in part to the drug Rocuronium they give to make you palalyzed and not move during the surgery. It causes low BP as a side effect ! Many of us gain 10-30 pounds of wanter weight, but again you had the exclamation mark!!
So what procedure type did your surgeon do?? That was a long procedure. Was it a sternotomy (front) or thoracotomy (side)... Some Stanford docs push the thoracotomy method, and they have their own.
Hope each day smooths out !!!
Nasser Abed Hi J, I had the sternotomy procedure. Hope all is well with you. Thanks Nasser
Nasser Abed All, Thanks for your best wishes. I'm feeling g stronger. It will take some time, as long as I con ... Read more
Nasser Abed All, Thanks for your best wishes. I'm feeling g stronger. It will take some time, as long as I continue to make progress everyday. Thank you all for responding. Be well. Nasser
Hi Everyone, Hope you are all well. This is it T-5 days to my surgery. This past Wednesday I met with my heart surgeon Dr. Michael P. Fischbein, at Stanford ...Read more
Hi Everyone, Hope you are all well. This is it T-5 days to my surgery. This past Wednesday I met with my heart surgeon Dr. Michael P. Fischbein, at Stanford Hospital. He is so comforting to talk with. He is the Director of Thoracic Aortic Surgery. We talked for the better part of an hour and he explained everything in very fine detail. He will replace my Bicuspid Aortic Valve with an animal (cow) valve. He will replace all of my ascending aorta with a material, which I forgot the name of (shame on me.) There is a new development, after he looked at my Echo, which I took last week, he found a slight aneurysm on the bottom side of the aortic arch (upper part of the aorta, above the ascending aorta.) He isn't sure yet if he will correct it. He wants to get a better look once he is in the area. He reviewed all the possible risks with me, although they are very minimum, he wanted to make certain that I understood. Yes, I'm sitting here somewhat worried. I think about this all the time and I think about my two daughters, who are my life and strength. I live in San Jose, CA and will travel to Stanford Hospital in Palo Alto, CA. It's about a 35 minute drive. My girlfriend Kathleen, who has been absolutely golden, will drive me to the hospital, where we will be meeting my daughters at 5:00AM Thursday morning. I can only imagine what I'll be feeling. I have to have the operation. I'd rather be safe than sorry. I may write again. Take good care. I'll be in touch. A special shout to Adam, thank you, thank you for this site. It helps ease the nerves! Best!!!!
Rose Madura Nasser, writing out your feelings is very good therapy. I had a similar surgery on 2017 and although ... Read more
Rose Madura Nasser, writing out your feelings is very good therapy. I had a similar surgery on 2017 and although I had some complications, the doctora and nurses knew what to do and today, eight years later, I'm doing very well. It's normal to feel worried about your family but it appears you have a great support team. God bless you in your journey. 👍
John Cook I had to have some work done to my aortic root as part of my Ross 11 days ago. If yours needs some wo ... Read more
John Cook I had to have some work done to my aortic root as part of my Ross 11 days ago. If yours needs some work too, they will take care of it.
Thanks very much for your kind words. It's a warm feeling that there are such beautiful people in a country and world falling apart. Thank you for your support! Take good care. I'll write soon. Bless you.
Nasser Abed Hi John - I hope your recovery continues to go well! Thanks for reaching out and caring. Best to you ... Read more
Nasser Abed Hi John - I hope your recovery continues to go well! Thanks for reaching out and caring. Best to you and your family.
Hi Everyone - My surgery date is set for Thursday June 19th, at Stanford Hospital. I meet with some members of my surgery team on Wed. June 11. In this meeting ...Read more
Hi Everyone - My surgery date is set for Thursday June 19th, at Stanford Hospital. I meet with some members of my surgery team on Wed. June 11. In this meeting I will learn about all the details related to the surgery. I will also be asking many questions. I cut back on watching YouTube videos of Aortic Aneurysms and Bicuspid Aortic Valves. Many of the videos are informative and educational. However, there are some videos that don't have great endings. I understand that this is reality but I rather not watch those videos, where things go south. I want to keep everything POSITIVE!!! Don't get me wrong. I feel for these people. I just need to be as healthy as possible going into this surgery, both emotionally and physically.
My count down clock is ticking and I can't wait to be on the other side of this, with a new Aortic Valve. It kinda feels like I'm getting a new car.
Wishing you ALL THE BEST. Take good care.
Marie Myers I totally understand your anxiety, as i had your same surgery 8 years ago. I found that guided, calmi ... Read more
Marie Myers I totally understand your anxiety, as i had your same surgery 8 years ago. I found that guided, calming meditations helped me, as did yoga. I hope you have as smooth a “journey” as I had.
Susan Lynn Nasser - You've got it exactly right - stay positive! Let your surgeon and team worry about the deta ... Read more
Susan Lynn Nasser - You've got it exactly right - stay positive! Let your surgeon and team worry about the details. All you have to do is show up, they'll take care of everything. This will be in the rearview mirror before you know it! We did it - you can, too!
J Alexander Lassally Hello. Nasser - Yep, good to strike a balance and find what feels right for you. A lot of info overl ... Read more
J Alexander Lassally Hello. Nasser - Yep, good to strike a balance and find what feels right for you. A lot of info overload and some of it is not accurate. Do make sure you have a recliner that you can sleep in ready and on hand. I've noticed men especially have trouble sleeping in a bed post surgery. I certainly did !
Suzette Schear Luckily you found this website prior to surgery. Everyone’s journey is different. Agreeing definit ... Read more
Suzette Schear Luckily you found this website prior to surgery. Everyone’s journey is different. Agreeing definitely get a recliner you will only be able to sleep on your back. I remember when I was told what they were going to do and writing it all down and then it became overwhelming and I cried. I kept trying to be prepared by learning everything I can. it was my way of coping, but then all of the sudden I stopped. I knew what I needed to know and just wanted it over. It’s good to be informed but only you know when enough is enough. I saw things on my procedure , had expectations of my recovery and mine was different from most. It took me a year and 4 months to be somewhat normal. This website and the wonderful people who always respond helped so much. Wishing you the best sorry for the long post.
Rose Madura Nasser, your thoughts process is good. Remember that the odds are very good for a successful surgery ... Read more
Rose Madura Nasser, your thoughts process is good. Remember that the odds are very good for a successful surgery. I have the same surgery eight years ago and I remember the sAme feelings as you are having. Best wishes to you. Godspeed.
Robert Miller Are you getting surgery from Dr. Woo? His staff is quite nice and informative but I won't elaborate a ... Read more
Robert Miller Are you getting surgery from Dr. Woo? His staff is quite nice and informative but I won't elaborate about him because it wouldn't be nice. There are a lot better options like Dr. Castro.
Look at all the videos and all the information you can get. Be familiar with possible and unlikely consequences Having said that, I never felt safer than going into surgery. You have two surgeons during surgery and you have 24/7 monitoring after surgery. If something should happen, you have a nurse within footsteps and a doctor within 1 minute or so. You could not be at a safer place.
Nasser Abed To All, You're ALL GOLDEN!!!!!! Yes, less than 24 hrs. What will be will be. I know I will be fine. I ... Read more
Nasser Abed To All, You're ALL GOLDEN!!!!!! Yes, less than 24 hrs. What will be will be. I know I will be fine. I've got a large support system, daughters, girlfriend, brothers, sisters will all be at the hospital. I'm feeling pretty strong, so I'm ready. Best Health to all!!!!
Hi Everyone, I am new to this Community Patient Feed. I am scheduled for Open Heart Surgery at Stanford University Hospital on June 19th. My operation will ...Read more
Hi Everyone, I am new to this Community Patient Feed. I am scheduled for Open Heart Surgery at Stanford University Hospital on June 19th. My operation will entail replacing my bicuspid aortic valve with a bovine valve. I also have an aneurysm in my ascending aorta. The aneurysm is currently at 5.0cm. The Stanford cardiac guidelines, as well as, I believe, industry guidelines call out for intervention at 5.0cm. So it is time. The surgeon, Dr. Fischbein, will remove the portion of my ascending aorta that has the aneurysm and replace it. I must say that as the date draws closer I am starting to feel more anxiety. Everyone says it is normal to have anticipatory anxiety as they will be cutting me open, and stopping my heart (for a few hours.)
I kind of wish that this surgery was already over and behind me. It's not and I must face it.
Any feedback would be appreciated.
Thank you all,
Nasser Abed
Dan Fouratt Nassar, you are in the hardest part of the journey - waiting. In this period I spent time getting re ... Read more
Dan Fouratt Nassar, you are in the hardest part of the journey - waiting. In this period I spent time getting ready for surgery and recovery. I spoke with a dietician who provided advice on my pre and post surgery diets. My surgeon said I should exercise (not strenuous) as much as I could, I did. I prepared meals for post surgery in line with he dietician recommendations, even though my wife could cooked them. I completly stopped drinking alcohol. I went shopping for recovery clothes (sweat pants and a front button shirt) as I was not planning on wearing the gown. I bought dietician approve snacks for the hospital recovery and home (good thing as the food was awful at Duke). I did everything I could to distract me from thinking about the upcoming event and give me some sense of control. Good luck on your journey you are in a great hospital system so you will do well. PS recovery is the fun part as you actually do have control on what is done.
John Cook I found out that I would likely be having SAVR in February and in April was schedule for a Ross Procedure in 27 days.
The more I’ve found out about the surgery and the statistics, the less worried I am about the actual surgery. We have a better than 99% chance of our surgeries going well and having normal or close to normal longevity prospects as people who don’t have valve problems. Reading lots of information and watching videos helped me get over the anxiety of the surgery.
What worries me is the recovery process. I have difficulty not working for two weeks when I take a vacation. The prospect of having to take 4 - 12 weeks off for recovery is daunting. ... Read more
John Cook I found out that I would likely be having SAVR in February and in April was schedule for a Ross Procedure in 27 days.
The more I’ve found out about the surgery and the statistics, the less worried I am about the actual surgery. We have a better than 99% chance of our surgeries going well and having normal or close to normal longevity prospects as people who don’t have valve problems. Reading lots of information and watching videos helped me get over the anxiety of the surgery.
What worries me is the recovery process. I have difficulty not working for two weeks when I take a vacation. The prospect of having to take 4 - 12 weeks off for recovery is daunting.
Then there are the other questions: When am I going to be able to return to full duties? When will I be able to run again? How much medication will they have to put me on to keep my BP below 110?
I’m having dreams about both the surgery and the recovery and I know it’s just me working through my anxiety.
I’ll see the other side of my surgery and you will see the other side of yours.
Good luck.
Daniel Bellezzo Dear Nassar, I had a valve sparring aortic root repair Aug 4th 2023, the anxiety and wait was horribl ... Read more
Daniel Bellezzo Dear Nassar, I had a valve sparring aortic root repair Aug 4th 2023, the anxiety and wait was horrible, you can’t help but think about it, the wait was one of the worst parts, the surgery, well the surgery was no big deal. It’s the waking up and recovering that’s challenging. But you’ll do better than you think. I was at 5.1 cm , so what choice do you have. Live with this time bomb or take care of it . The time bomb and every year watching it grow will be in the past soon. And that my friend will be a huge huge burden off your shoulders
Glenn Tremper Certainly understanding the challenges posed by the ramp up to surgery. Walking the path together. . ... Read more
Glenn Tremper Certainly understanding the challenges posed by the ramp up to surgery. Walking the path together. . . .
Marie Myers I was a very anxious patient during the waiting time. After all was done, I felt that the whole proc ... Read more
Marie Myers I was a very anxious patient during the waiting time. After all was done, I felt that the whole process was way less painful/difficult/ awful than my worrying mind would have me believe. But we are human, and it is very difficult to remain worry-free in the waiting time. I did ask my doc for some anxiety medication, and that helped me get some better sleep. Godspeed!
Grace Mason Ditto what Marie said 😊! Your surgical team will take care of you Nasser. Another day "in the offi ... Read more
Grace Mason Ditto what Marie said 😊! Your surgical team will take care of you Nasser. Another day "in the office" for them, doing what they do best. You will wake with a new lease on life.
Rose Madura I had a very similar surgery as you. It is difficult to wait but I stayed positive and focused on ho ... Read more
Rose Madura I had a very similar surgery as you. It is difficult to wait but I stayed positive and focused on how much better I'll feel once it is over. While I did have some complications, the doctors knew what to do and almost eight years later, I'm doing better than ever! Godspeed.
Nasser Abed Dan Fouratt - Thanks very much for you taking the time to respond. Much appreciated. Nasser
Nasser Abed To All - Thanks to ALL of YOU for taking the time to read my entry and respond. You're ALL GOLDEN. I... Read more
Nasser Abed To All - Thanks to ALL of YOU for taking the time to read my entry and respond. You're ALL GOLDEN. I will keep you updated.
Pamela Gregory Hi Nassar, I completely understand how you feel!!! You are in really good company on this site. I w... Read more
Pamela Gregory Hi Nassar, I completely understand how you feel!!! You are in really good company on this site. I was so freaked out for such a long time I thought I might have a hear attack before the surgery ever came. I could not walk into the operating room like I was supposed to because they had to sadate me long before that(haha). I was begging them too because I couldn't deal with it anymore. Now, I am a drama queen and it ended up not being near as bad as my brain had me believe. You will do great and I think spending time with your loved ones and doing things you love to do helps a lot as you wait. It is truly the hardest part
Nasser Abed To Dan, John, Daniel, Glenn, Marie, Grace & Rose, If I didn't respond to your post I deeply apolo ... Read more
Nasser Abed To Dan, John, Daniel, Glenn, Marie, Grace & Rose, If I didn't respond to your post I deeply apologize. You are all wonderful people!!!! Yes, this is it, less than 24hrs. I feel good but I have absolutely no hunger and not sleeping well. But I'm strong and have a strong support system. Thank you all for your advise and kind, kind words. You guys don't know me and yet you reach out to help reassure me. God Bless all of you and your families. Best Always. Nasser
Nasser Abed Pam, thanks so much your thoughts and kind words. I'm sure it was OK to be worried and freaked out. I ... Read more
Nasser Abed Pam, thanks so much your thoughts and kind words. I'm sure it was OK to be worried and freaked out. If I told you the kind of dreams I'm having now you would tell me that I should check myself in. One dream was the surgeon left the operating room and never returned right in the middle of the operation. I was wide awake screaming at him to come back!! So, you're not alone. Anyway, I know I will be fine. I fight negative thoughts and think about my daughters. Thanks again. Be well.
Dan Fouratt You are now on the best part of the journey. I am forever happy that you did well. Enjoy the recover ... Read more
Dan Fouratt You are now on the best part of the journey. I am forever happy that you did well. Enjoy the recovery. Dan
I then spent the next eight days in the Cardiac ICU at Stanford. This is where everything went sideways. My blood pressure was very low and remained that way for a few days. When they would try to sit me up in bed, my pressure would drop significantly (60/40). I would pass out and an entire emergency team would come in to revive me. This apparently happened twice, as I was passed out and didn't know what was actually going on.
In addition my White Blood Cell Count was very high. Getting my White Blood Cell count down to the normal range took all of the 24 days I was hospitalized.
In addition, on my second day in the ICU I was given an antibiotic that it turns out I am allergic to. It took days for my skin to clear up, from the potential infections all over my body.
When I checked in to Stanford Hospital for the surgery on Thursday June 19 my weight was 210 lbs. By Saturday June 21st I was 250 lbs. All this additional weight was caused by all the liquids they needed to give me during the surgery. My entire body was swollen. Every part of me. Both my feet had potato size blisters on them from the excess liquid.
When I was finally stabilized in the ICU, they moved me to a Step-Down Room, where I spent the next 15 days, trying to get rid of the excess liquid in my body, lower my white blood cell count and keep my blood pressure within a normal range.
I finally was able to achieve normal levels of everything.
Everyone's body is different and how each person reacts to a huge operation like mine is different. My surgeon and his team weren't completely surprised by the various stages that I went through during post-op.
I have been home for almost three weeks and am feeling more like myself every day.
I would still recommend my cardiac surgeon and the entire Stanford cardiac team for their excellent support. They did everything they could do to finally send me home to my family. I will never forget the kindness of the nurses, administrators, doctors and the cardiac surgeons. They saved my life. It took a little while to finally stabilize me but they did.
I am alive and thankful for everything I have in my life. Cardiac surgery does knock you down a few notches, which I think is good because it gives you a real opportunity to assess your life and what is really important in it.
I apologize for not writing sooner. I hope everyone in this group, who goes through cardiac surgery, is in the process of recovering or already completely recovered.
Bless you all. ITS GOOD TO BE BACK.
So what procedure type did your surgeon do?? That was a long procedure. Was it a sternotomy (front) or thoracotomy (side)... Some Stanford docs push the thoracotomy method, and they have their own.
Hope each day smooths out !!!
I had the sternotomy procedure. Hope all is well with you. Thanks Nasser
Thanks for your best wishes. I'm feeling g stronger. It will take some time, as long as I con ... Read more
Thanks for your best wishes. I'm feeling g stronger. It will take some time, as long as I continue to make progress everyday. Thank you all for responding. Be well. Nasser