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Diagnosis: Mitral Regurgitation

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Ben Siegel posted an update
10 years ago (February 3, 2016)
Hi all, recovery for Kim is going well after a few hiccups that proved to be non-issues. Certain moments, she looks like her old self and you wouldn't know she had open heart surgery. Other times, she is super fatigued and in pain. The toughest part for me has been... Read more.
So glad Kim's recovery is going well. Good for you for being honest w your emotions. This impacts families and friends, not just patients so it's healthy to express them and realize they are normal. Hopefully, you can find time to do something to refuel your tank.
It's great that you are there for Kim, thank you updating us on her recovery. As the person who supports the person going through heart surgery, I assume it is really a challenge. I'm pretty sure you have many who agree with you as you go through this. Best to... Read more.
I can imagine what that's like for a spouse and I've been thinking a lot about how my husband is going to handle this when I have surgery. It is true what you say - it's hard to hold onto the "life is precious" feeling. I had my first surgery... Read more.
Anonymous, heart valve patient
Anonymous
Thanks for your honesty. I am sure my husband can relate to your feelings as well. Total whirlwind of emotions for all.
Ben Siegel posted an update
10 years ago (January 14, 2016)
It's 4:30am and I am waiting for Kim to wake up in the hospital. I woke up at 3:30 and knew that was it so I just drove to the hospital instead of waiting in bed till 5am. Surgery is at 7am and we feel good about everything. Kim has... Read more.
Ben remember to breathe. Sending prayers for a great surgery and recovery for Kim.
Sending thoughts and prayers your way to you both! Please let us know how she does!
Best wishes to Kim for a successful surgery and smooth recovery. May God see her through this.
Sending pryers to you and your wife. Sounds like she has a great support system in you. I'll be waiting for updates from the recovery side. Good luck
Anonymous, heart valve patient
Anonymous
Best wishes for a smooth surgery and a restful recovery.
Thanks everyone, the surgery went well and she is in ICU recovery. I hope to see her alert tomorrow!
Anonymous, heart valve patient
Anonymous
Great to hear! Congrats!!
I'm glad to hear that her surgery went well! Best wishes for a complete recovery!
God bless her and may the Lord be with her to watch over her during surgery and recovery.
Ben Siegel posted an update
10 years ago (January 10, 2016)
Kim looks good today and is in good spirits. We had great visits with our children and her friends. She will be getting a TEE and angiogram tomorrow to better see the vegetation on her mitral valve. Surgery is penciled in for Friday so we are just hoping there is... Read more.
Will pray for a good outcome. Best of luck.
Good luck Ben! I will be praying for your wife and family!
Best wishes for the surgery and a smooth recovery. My mitral valve was calcified (surgeon surprised for my age) and they managed to clean it up and do a repair. I hope they can do the same for Kim.
Anonymous, heart valve patient
Anonymous
Best wishes! No matter what they end up doing, I hope it is the best option given the circumstances and has the best outcome! She is lucky to have you has a support/advocate!
Big hug to the both of you. Praying for a great outcome and smooth recovery for your wife.

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