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Hi Bill! I'd like to leave you my email so we can share stories about our experiences. Dr. Glower originally said I'd be going home on Sunday but they've told me I can probably go home today! Just waiting to confirm that- anyway my email is kathy.s.sansone@gmail.com and I look forward to chatting with you

Hi Bill! Just checking in 🙂 I met with a local surgeon today but I also have an appointment with Dr Glower on 8/9! I see you set your surgery date. That's not too far out... I guess he wasn't super booked up, that's good. I really want to get it over with. Good luck to you! Kathy

Hi Bill, I am following your story because I live in SC as well and I also need mitral valve repair done. How long did you have to wait for your appointment at Duke? My cardiologist is supposed to be referring me there because I don't want to have surgery at the hospital he is affiliated with. I am still waiting for someone here to call me to set this up, and hoping I won't have to wait long for an appointment. I too would like to request Dr Glower. Thanks Kathy

Hi Bill, With regard to your question about the ride home, you may want to think about a few things. For one, you'll probably be on a diuretic, so prepare for possible frequent pit stops for bathroom breaks. Bring extra pillows to sit on and for your back if vibrations from the ride are painful or bothersome. I was sent home with a "pain ball" thing that was filled with a liquid numbing agent. The pain ball distributed anesthetic to the incision site and was motion activated. Once the liquid is gone from the ball, you are told to pull out the small plastic tube (planted just under the skin) and discard the ball. I think the liquid ran out later that evening, so maybe about 5 or so hours after I was discharged from the hospital. Shortly after you remove it, the pain is much more noticeable at the incision site, so hopefully the thing lasts until after you arrive home. You haven't met with the Duke surgeon yet, correct? Definitely ask him about the ride home, what to expect, what to bring with you, should you get prescriptions filled in NC or wait until you get home, etc. Fortunately, I only had about a 20 minute drive home, hopefully some on this site who have traveled both by car and plane for their surgeries can comment on their trip home and what that was like. I think some may stay in a hotel and go home the next day? The first night is tough, so you may want to be home (I think I would). Also, I had to both weigh myself (twice a day, am and pm) and take my temperature once a day and record all numbers, so if you don't already have them, get a decent digital scale and digital thermometer. Spikes in these numbers aren't good, I was told that weight gain of 5 lbs or more and spikes in temperature mean a call to the surgeon's office (I didn't have either situation, which was good). You will most likely have a lot of water weight post surgery that you will lose in the following week or so. I think I dropped about 15 lbs in a week - week 1/2 period immediately after surgery. Also, one thing I did that was really stupid was I forgot about the shower instruction of lukewarm showers only at first and took a hot shower that first night at home. Had a bad bout of hypothermia immediately following the hot shower I took that night and put on about 5 layers of clothes to warm up and was shaking violently. Not fun! So remember....lukewarm temperature showers at first. But I had anemia when I came out of surgery and they had a challenge getting my body temps back up to normal, so that may have contributed. They will likely give you written instructions in the information packet they give you when you are discharged, which has a lot of good info, list and instructions about prescriptions, physical activity, etc..

Hi Bill, Great news about the cath results. Here are a few pointers moving forward. No matter how they go in (full sternum or minimal side portal), this is all open heart surgery, one is open chest the other closed chest. Remember that this is a massive and invasive surgery that will take a long time to recover from fully. If you have an experienced surgeon, team and institution then the surgery itself isn't the hardest part (although it's no fun at all, but not the biggest obstacle). No sugar coating, this can be a life saving and life changing surgery simultaneously. You won't be prepared for the exhaustion post surgery that can continue for a LONG time after, but much depends on age, situation and specific heart (and other medical and life) issues. Something called "pump head" is real. It is the inevitable effect of this type of surgery on the brain. When you get home post surgery, your brain and memory will be fuzzy. Prior to surgery, write down all email, social media, billing, bank, etc. user names and passwords and put them somewhere safe that you will find when you get home and are back on the computer. At some point post surgery, request your post-operative report from the surgeon's office. This will have all details of the procedure that you will want a record of, and your cardiologist and primary care doc will also probably ask to see. You want to have your own copy as well. They will send you home with a spirometer (sp), a thing that you breathe into to help your lungs re expand. This is very important to initial recovery, use the thing as much as possible/tolerable. Also, have multiple pillows or a "wedge" pillow, laying flat may be a problem (major coughing) for a few nights. Be prepared for the fact that the only people who can truly empathize with your recovery will be those who have been through it or perhaps have been close to someone who has. Those are the people to listen to, all others are pretty superfluous. Go with those who are non judgmental and supportive, not those acting in their own interest (a tough pill to swallow, but there it is). Most important, this is a highly individuated experience. It's different for each of us, not right/wrong, just different.

Hi Bill, To keep it short, two weeks out from a true minimally invasive, four procedure surgery performed by Dr Joseph Lamelas, Baylor College of Medicine, St Lukes Hospital, Houston Medical Center. Repaired mitral, tricuspid valves, closed off LAA, AFib cryo MAZE procedure. I believe Dr Lamelas is the most innovative, forward thinking surgeon on the scene today. He has performed many thousands of these specialized surgeries. I read every book, watched every YouTube conference, every interview and teaching video available, interviewed four surgeons between Cleveland, OH to Hartford CT over a two year period to make this decision. Surgery on morn of June 26, walking the floor unassisted same day in ICU. Released four days later. Flew back home following Tuesday, driving Wednesday, no pain management since release, crescent shaped incision under my right pec. Worse pain was the drainage tube. Healing quickly, full muscle mobility. At 71 I expect to me windsurfing in Brazil in OCT/NOV. Bill, you deserve the same. Best of luck!