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3462 days ago

Rita Savelis posted a note for Dan that says:

Hi Dan D, I miss your posts. They always spoke to me. I could relate. I hope that you have some sort of "peace" these days. I know it took me a very long time ...Read more

Hi Dan D, I miss your posts. They always spoke to me. I could relate. I hope that you have some sort of "peace" these days. I know it took me a very long time to "accept" post-surgery and to ride out all those feelings of depression, irritability, l

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3462 days ago

Rita Savelis posted a note for Dan that says:

Hi Dan D, I miss your posts. They always spoke to me. I could relate. I hope that you have some sort of "peace" these days. I know it took me a very long time ...Read more

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3799 days ago

Jean Raber posted a note for Dan that says:

Hi, Dan, haven't heard an update and wondered how you were doing with the Tram-damn-adol issues.

Dan D. Hi Jean, Thanks for reaching out. I stopped taking Tramadol for 2 weeks, but continued with my interm ... Read more

Dan D. Hi Jean, Thanks for reaching out. I stopped taking Tramadol for 2 weeks, but continued with my intermittent problems of exhaustion & lack of motivation. I decided that it wasn't Tramadol withdrawal & have actually resumed taking it, in small doses, since it seems to help with my fibromyalgia. I guess I can't even blame surgery (according to my doctors) at all for my intermittent current tiredness/apathy & therefore stopped posting on this heart surgery site on this problem.

How are you doing?

Jean Raber The more I read on here, the more it looks like people continue to struggle with fatigue and apathy s ... Read more

Jean Raber The more I read on here, the more it looks like people continue to struggle with fatigue and apathy several months out of heart surgery. Hope you'll check in occasionally to let us know how you are.

I guess I'll find out how I'm doing the 15th and 22nd, when I see my cardiologist and hematologist. Right now I'm trying to get the gumption to ream clutter out of the bedroom, which is where we cram stuff when people come over unexpectedly. I dump stuff on the bed, and then sit in a chair to sort or toss. Then get up to get a cup of coffee. Rinse and repeat. It's gonna be a looonnng day ...

Rita Savelis Dan D - you can blame surgery for your tiredness and apathy! Of course you can. Don't believe those d ... Read more

Rita Savelis Dan D - you can blame surgery for your tiredness and apathy! Of course you can. Don't believe those doctors! I miss your posts.

Jeanette Davidson Good to hear from you Dan. I was thinking about you!💕

Dan D. Heart Sisters, thanks for checking in with me. I seem to wake up groggy & headachy almost every morni ... Read more

Dan D. Heart Sisters, thanks for checking in with me. I seem to wake up groggy & headachy almost every morning, even after consuming large quantities of coffee. Cardiologist said the physical stuff is going well & the mental stuff will improve over time. But after 4 months post-surgery, I'm bored and annoyed with myself. Anyway, stay in touch. It cheers me up to hear from you.

Rita Savelis I feel headachy all the time too and keep wondering if might be a side effect of betablockers or anti ... Read more

Rita Savelis I feel headachy all the time too and keep wondering if might be a side effect of betablockers or anticoagulants. Not to mention the beginnings of another depressive episode and my mind racing with too many thoughts. Not a very cheery post, I know, but saying it to Dan D makes me feel better. Time for more coffee. Take Care Dan D.

Jean Raber Dan and Rita, sometimes I reach a point of diminishing returns with coffee. I love it when it works, ... Read more

Jean Raber Dan and Rita, sometimes I reach a point of diminishing returns with coffee. I love it when it works, but some days it doesn't, and drinking more just brings on a big old headache and gives me acid reflux. So I try to keep to my six allotted cups of half-caf per day. Nap or walk outdoors sometimes helps, but some days that takes all (or more) of the mental/emotional energy I can muster. Wish I could offer more than that I'm in the same boat with both of you in some ways, though my surgery is still pending.

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3821 days ago

Janice Smith posted a note for Dan that says:

Hi Dan. I saw where you posted about double vision a couple of times, and wondered if you found any solution to that problem? I have been plagued with that, ...Read more

Hi Dan. I saw where you posted about double vision a couple of times, and wondered if you found any solution to that problem? I have been plagued with that, spots over the eye, auras, numbness around the mouth, tongue, index fingers and hand which only last several seconds, since 11/23/14. May AVR/Aneurysm surgery was 9/8/14. Heart seems fine. Need answers.

Dan D. Hi Janice, I've found no medical solution to my problem. One doctor said "Go to the emergency room if ... Read more

Dan D. Hi Janice, I've found no medical solution to my problem. One doctor said "Go to the emergency room if it recurs" but I didn't take that advice because the double vision (as well as occasional dizziness) seemed related to an overabundance of light, especially when watching TV &/or a consequence of the pain-reliever drugs I've been taking (tramadol). The double vision didn't occur at night. When it did happen, I reduced the light and kept refocusing my eyes. It went away by doing this. If this problems keeps occurring, consider going to an eye doctor. The floaters (spots, auras) are probably normal. But the double vision and numbness should be checked out.

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3821 days ago

Jeanette Davidson posted a note for Dan that says:

Recovery is not easy. Tried and anxiety are probably something most of us feel. My body has failed me multiple times , so different body symptoms make me anxious. ...Read more

Recovery is not easy. Tried and anxiety are probably something most of us feel. My body has failed me multiple times , so different body symptoms make me anxious. I attempt to make sure by day's end I do something good for myself, walk as much as I can, make a nice dinner for my husband and kiss and hug him a lot!😉 Recovery can feel like work somedays. At least you don't have pain ,.my sternum hurts , usually at night! We are here, we are well, we are alive! Smile often! It changes your brain chemicals! Stay strong heart brother I am here for you! 💕

Dan D. Good to hear from you, heart sister! I'm that your sternum still hurts, so I should count myself for ... Read more

Dan D. Good to hear from you, heart sister! I'm that your sternum still hurts, so I should count myself fortunate in that regard. On the other hand, I'm constantly aware of my repairs when I simply twist the steering wheel of a car or push open a stuck door with both hands. My wife has been patient & supportive throughout so that's a positive thing. Based on the fact that I look "normal," most others think I am normal and, after 3 months, fully recovered. Anyway, it's people like you - that know what's involved - that give me strength.

Jeanette Davidson I know exactly how you feel. After I had my stroke I looked really normal and used to get frustrated ... Read more

Jeanette Davidson I know exactly how you feel. After I had my stroke I looked really normal and used to get frustrated with people because they didn't understand how it was still hard for me to find my words sometimes, concentrate, or not be fatigued. Surround yourself with people that are gentle, loving and understanding. That's why support groups are so effective because I really believe unless you've gone through something it's very hard to understand . As a mental health counselor , I obviously believe in psychotherapy. So listen to your internal Gut, you'll know if you need to reach out and talk to a professional. It really helps. And I am here for you. Try not to be so hard on yourself. I personally think it's going to take me one year to get back to normal. By telling myself that I release all my expectations ! Take care heart brother❤️

Dan D. Thanks, Jeanette. I see that I had a missing word in my earlier note: "I'm SORRY that you're sternum ... Read more

Dan D. Thanks, Jeanette. I see that I had a missing word in my earlier note: "I'm SORRY that you're sternum still hurts." Anyway, my expectations of full recovery were certainly less than a year, but that seems more accurate now. Anyway, I talked to a therapist before surgery. I liked her and may go back just check in. Stay strong!

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3844 days ago

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Pat Bluemel posted a note for Dan that says:

Thinking of you and hoping you are in a good place. Just looked at my scar this morning and thought - huh, it's starting to be ok. Still don't like it, but ...Read more

Thinking of you and hoping you are in a good place. Just looked at my scar this morning and thought - huh, it's starting to be ok. Still don't like it, but I noticed I don't look at it with disdain (or not look at it at all). Every day and week gets better. Hope you are well.

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3885 days ago

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Ericka Carlson posted a note for Dan that says:

Hey Buddy, if you need an ear to bend I am here. Send me an email at erickalcarlson @ gmail com

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3886 days ago

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John Jones posted a note for Dan that says:

Hello Dan, I am new here. I am 56 years old. Aortic stenosis. Replacement surgery is July 6 at Baptist hospital in Winston Salem NC. I think I am prepared but ...Read more

Hello Dan, I am new here. I am 56 years old. Aortic stenosis. Replacement surgery is July 6 at Baptist hospital in Winston Salem NC. I think I am prepared but not really sure. As calm as I am now, it is possible as crunch time nears I'll get really scared with irrational fears. This website has already helped me considerably just hearing some of the stories that have been shared. I would not dare to assume I understand what you are going through. However, as I read your recent post a question came to me. I wondered what you may be looking forward to ? I find that as I talk about my upcoming surgery, i am looking forward to after recovery. There is much I want to do. Nothing monumental, Mainly serving God more and enjoying my family and hopefully grandchildren in the future. I wanted to share this and I truly hope I do not come across as a know it all. I will probably feel very different after surgery. I hope you continue to improve. thanks for listening. JPJ

Bob M JPJ, I pray for comfort and peace for the upcoming days before your surgery. Dan, one day at a time h ... Read more

Bob M JPJ, I pray for comfort and peace for the upcoming days before your surgery. Dan, one day at a time heart brother. Although we all believe we can control our health, what we can really definitely 100% control is our attitude. I pray that your journeys will be simply amazing. God bless and rise up!

Dan D. Thanks for taking the time to respond to me. I share your feelings about this Website and the people ... Read more

Dan D. Thanks for taking the time to respond to me. I share your feelings about this Website and the people on it. It's a comfort to vent and hear understanding and non-judgemental responses. John, good luck with your surgery. I'm so glad that your attitude remains calm. Bob, thanks for your feedback. Yes, sometimes controlling one's attitude is easier said than done, but it's the key to recovery. You & others helped get off the panic-train & back on track.

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3886 days ago

Mary Myers posted a note for Dan that says:

Dan, I understand how you feel. I think the anesthesia and meds, really mess up the system. It takes a while for the system to adjust. I assure you that ...Read more

Dan, I understand how you feel. I think the anesthesia and meds, really mess up the system. It takes a while for the system to adjust. I assure you that things will get better. I still have days where I get depressed and have to push myself. I am ten months out. Cardiac rehab helped me tremendously to have the confidence that I can do everything I used to and more! Once you start driving and getting out more you should feel better. Please continue to vent to your heart brothers and sisters. We understand better than others that have not actually gone through the surgery. Take care Dan! Think positive! Surgery is behind you. Your heart sister in Michigan P.S. I will continue to keep updates voming on.Duanes progress.

Dan D. HI Heart sister, Mary, thanks for your note. I did force myself to make an appointment to meet with t ... Read more

Dan D. HI Heart sister, Mary, thanks for your note. I did force myself to make an appointment to meet with the cardiac rehab nurse. With the help of you & others on the site, I feel like I'm off the panic-train for now.

Mary Myers THANK you Dan for getting off the panic train. It is so nice to have you as a heart brother. Talk to ... Read more

Mary Myers THANK you Dan for getting off the panic train. It is so nice to have you as a heart brother. Talk to you later. Gonna see what updates I can find out That makes me calmer knowing that. Gonna see what I can find out about Duane. Once he is up to visitors I will be seeing him and report back to our heart family!
God Bless and give you strength throughout each day.

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3911 days ago

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Linda Whitney posted a note for Dan that says:

I trust your day went well, surgery was as expected, and you are resting comfortably in ICU. The absolute WONDERFUL thing is you are now on the healing side ...Read more

I trust your day went well, surgery was as expected, and you are resting comfortably in ICU. The absolute WONDERFUL thing is you are now on the healing side of all this, and in no time you will be discharged and you will begin to feel better and better as each day goes by. Allow yourself some patience, Dan, you've been through a lot.

Dan D. Thanks, Linda

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3911 days ago

Terrie S. posted a note for Dan that says:

Hello Dan. I had every intention of getting a post to you before you headed in for surgery today but with my "gift of gab" and the tendency to write a story ...Read more

Hello Dan. I had every intention of getting a post to you before you headed in for surgery today but with my "gift of gab" and the tendency to write a story sometimes instead of getting to the point (like right now!) by the time I finished you would have had your surgery, been through the recovery part of your journey and I'd still be sitting here at the computer working the keyboard! So I will get to it by saying that I hope that when you wake up soon, your eyes pop open and you say to yourself: "All Done!" and thank God that this is behind you like the majority of us did! Then, I hope you find a night of rest and feel good about getting set for your journey of recovery about to begin. I also hope you have someone who will update us how you are doing fella. Prayers to you tonight. Bless all of the hospital staff who are going to take great care of you too!

Dan D. I got home yesterday & am now moving forward towards recovery. I'm beset by almost constant hiccups a ... Read more

Dan D. I got home yesterday & am now moving forward towards recovery. I'm beset by almost constant hiccups as my most problematic surgical outcome. It's slightly painful but very very irritating. My team is working to find a solution.

Terrie Syvertsen Dan- I am very glad to read that you are home and on with your recovery. I hope you have support now ... Read more

Terrie Syvertsen Dan- I am very glad to read that you are home and on with your recovery. I hope you have support now that you are home and I really feel for you with the "hiccups" as that has to be a miserable addition in your life! I have heard of several people having them too right after surgery and I am sure you can't get a heart pillow fast enough to block any movements! Hope they get to the bottom of this for you so you can move forward without the irritation! Isn't it nice to go to sleep at night knowing that the awful waiting period is over, you are thru to the healing side of recovery!? Take
your time and be patient with these next few weeks of adjustments. Sleep when you need to and enjoy any walking you are able to do. Happy for you Dan and look forward to hearing how you progress! Take care!

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3911 days ago

Jessi kennedy posted a note for Dan that says:

Hi Dan, all. Y thoughts and prayers are with you today! We are a week past Patrick's surgery, and he is doing great, as I know you will as well! All our best ...Read more

Hi Dan, all. Y thoughts and prayers are with you today! We are a week past Patrick's surgery, and he is doing great, as I know you will as well! All our best from Richmond, Virginia!

Deborah Flaherty Thoughts and prayers with you today Dan!

Debbie Poole Praying for you today!

Dan D. Thanks everybody! Made to the other side to join OHS/AVR veterans.

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3912 days ago

Kelly Weisgarber posted a note for Dan that says:

Good luck tomorrow Dan. My thoughts and prayers will be with you. I'll be anxious to hear news of your recovery.

Mary K Sending prayer for you this morning. May the surgeon's hands be guided, the caregivers inspired to th ... Read more

Mary K Sending prayer for you this morning. May the surgeon's hands be guided, the caregivers inspired to their best work, your friends and family be strengthened and you relax in the assurance of God's comforting safe, healing embrace. Amen

Dan D. Thanks, Kelly

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3912 days ago

Praying for a smooth surgery and a steady recovery.

Dan D. Thanks, Pamla

:-)

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3912 days ago

Mary Myers posted a note for Dan that says:

Dan, this is one of your heart sisters from Michigan. Try to rest as much tonight as possible. My surgeon didn't talk to me the morning of surgery. It bothered ...Read more

Dan, this is one of your heart sisters from Michigan. Try to rest as much tonight as possible. My surgeon didn't talk to me the morning of surgery. It bothered me some, he is the chief of cardiac surgery and a busy guy. So I let it go. My thoughts and prayers are with you tomorrow. If you get a chance you may want to read some of my suggestions for recovering (on my heart journal.) You will do well. Take care and will be looking for news that all went well. Sending healthe healing hugs from my heart to yours! :-)

Dan D. Thanks, Mary. I'm now OHS/AVR veteran, working to recover!

Mary Myers Congrats Dan! Welcome to the heart valve club. Each day you will get stronger and stronger. Keep in t ... Read more

Mary Myers Congrats Dan! Welcome to the heart valve club. Each day you will get stronger and stronger. Keep in touch.
Glad your home and now you can focus on healing!

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3912 days ago

Susan Craven posted a note for Dan that says:

Hi Dan my thoughts and prayers are with you for your surgery tomorrow. Just think soon this surgery will be behind you and you will be on the road to recovery! ...Read more

Hi Dan my thoughts and prayers are with you for your surgery tomorrow. Just think soon this surgery will be behind you and you will be on the road to recovery!

Eleanor R Tomorrow is your day, and I wish you the smoothest surgery, and a steady recovery. I know you, and y ... Read more

Eleanor R Tomorrow is your day, and I wish you the smoothest surgery, and a steady recovery. I know you, and your family, will be so relieved when its over. Then the hard work begins of regaining strength and energy, more each week. Best wishes to you! Eleanor

Dan D. Thanks Susan and Eleanor. I'm encouraged by you and the other fine people on this site. I really appr ... Read more

Dan D. Thanks Susan and Eleanor. I'm encouraged by you and the other fine people on this site. I really appreciate hearing your words of support.

Sandy Davis Dan-- good luck with your surgery tomorrow. I know this has been a long wait for you. Just know you ... Read more

Sandy Davis Dan-- good luck with your surgery tomorrow. I know this has been a long wait for you. Just know you are in great hands. Everything will soon be over and in a few days you will wonder why you worried so much! My husband is 3 weeks out. He started rehab after one week. He is your age and had very little pain. We will be praying for you.

Dan D. Thanks so much for your encouragement and support, Sandy. I'm glad your husband had a great outcome. ... Read more

Dan D. Thanks so much for your encouragement and support, Sandy. I'm glad your husband had a great outcome. Best to him and you.

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3913 days ago

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Jason Lathrop posted a note for Dan that says:

You're going to sail through this, Dan. Looking forward to reading about it next week. The hard part will soon be over.

Dan D. Thanks for the encouragement, Jason. I am definitely looking forward to next week and after.

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3914 days ago

Wiliam Height posted a note for Dan that says:

Dan you are so well prepared for this and you are going to do fine! You have a ton of confidence going into this and know every thing you need to. Your experience ...Read more

Dan you are so well prepared for this and you are going to do fine! You have a ton of confidence going into this and know every thing you need to. Your experience and insights will be valuable to others once you are on the other side. Keep calm and get this done!

Dan D. Thanks, William. I'll be back in touch.

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3914 days ago

Tammy Pilcher posted a note for Dan that says:

Dan, I'll be praying for you Monday! You've done your part and now your medical team will do theirs. You're going to take a nice nap and wake up with your ...Read more

Dan, I'll be praying for you Monday! You've done your part and now your medical team will do theirs. You're going to take a nice nap and wake up with your heart fixed! God bless you! Isaiah 41:13

Dan D. Thanks, Tammy. I appreciate the encouragement and prayers.

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3914 days ago

Tim Goff posted a note for Dan that says:

Dan, Relax this weekend and enjoy your loved ones and the simple things that make you smile. All will go well on monday and soon this will all be in the ...Read more

Dan, Relax this weekend and enjoy your loved ones and the simple things that make you smile. All will go well on monday and soon this will all be in the rear view mirror. Tim

Dan D. Thanks for the supportive thoughts and encouragement, Tim. I really appreciate it.

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3918 days ago

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Kevin S. posted a note for Dan that says:

Dan, I had my Ross Procedure almost 19 years ago and I can remember the night before like it was yesterday. I didn't sleep much at all that night. The short ...Read more

Dan, I had my Ross Procedure almost 19 years ago and I can remember the night before like it was yesterday. I didn't sleep much at all that night. The short version is that at some point I realized that it was literally "out of my hands". That night was a defining moment in my life. I came to the realization that there was no point in worrying about something that was outside of my control. You asked about what to do on the days leading up to the surgery.... Well about two days out, I went golfing with a group of friends. I had a great time. I also moved back to my parent's house since I was still in college...I needed a place to recover. We spent some time getting the guest bedroom setup for my recovery. It didn't require much, but we had to move furniture, setup the cable TV etc. I think the bottom line is to stay busy and try not to think too much about it. I know that is hard to do, but definitely spend as much time with friends and family and don't talk about the surgery. Just enjoy life.

Dan D. Thanks, I enjoyed hearing how you spent that time and glad to hear you're 19 years out and counting.

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3923 days ago

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Lora Lee Peterson posted a note for Dan that says:

Believe me, Dan, my good way of thinking did not happen over night, and I'm not that way every day. This website really helps. Shortly after my diagnosis, ...Read more

Believe me, Dan, my good way of thinking did not happen over night, and I'm not that way every day. This website really helps. Shortly after my diagnosis, I was a mess! It wasn't pretty. Since I have about 5 more months to wait, I would normally drive myself crazy with thought I shouldn't be thinking. Instead of trying to keep myself from thinking about this valve replacement, which is unlikely to happen, I've decided to make it a way of relating to others on all levels. If that makes any sense. That way I quit making it all about me. :)

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3923 days ago

Lora Lee Peterson posted a note for Dan that says:

Hi Dan, What I've discovered with sharing my experience, is that some people have family members that have had this done years ago, and it helps to know that ...Read more

Hi Dan, What I've discovered with sharing my experience, is that some people have family members that have had this done years ago, and it helps to know that they went on to live many healthy vibrant years. Sometimes I feel like it prompts others to take a look at their health, or the health of their loved ones, which is never a bad thing. Sometimes I tell people about it, and I get a response that doesn't really seem appropriate, but that's okay too, because they don't know what it's like, just like I don't know what it's like to love through other unpleasant life experiences, and I sometimes have no words for people who are scared and suffering, so I convey the wrong message without meaning to. Sometimes people don't want to talk about it if they are scared for you, and I have to tell myself to understand where they are coming from as well. Best wishes to you!

Dan D. Hi Lora Lee, Thanks for sharing your thoughts. It sounds like you have a very good way of thinking ab ... Read more

Dan D. Hi Lora Lee, Thanks for sharing your thoughts. It sounds like you have a very good way of thinking about all of this. It certainly helps to get feedback from other people that dealing with all this right now.

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3936 days ago

Lora Lee posted a note for Dan that says:

Thank you Dan! I'm going to ask my surgeon about the bovine valve. I did see that it lasted longer than the porcine.

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3939 days ago

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Andy posted a note for Dan that says:

Hi, Dan ~ I'm on a similar schedule, and just last night I was telling my brother how disappointed and surprised I was at the non-, even callous response of ...Read more

Hi, Dan ~ I'm on a similar schedule, and just last night I was telling my brother how disappointed and surprised I was at the non-, even callous response of extended family members. I agree with Erica that we can set ourselves up for disappointment or hurt, but I also think that people can be disappointing and hurtful. One thing I did was reduce my email list to the few who are responsive and focused. And I had to realize that other people have their own ways of coping with mortality, pain, and vulnerability--namely, to distance themselves. I really do think fear operates here, so to speak.

Dan D. Honestly, I even got tired of communicating with people via email. My brother responds electronically ... Read more

Dan D. Honestly, I even got tired of communicating with people via email. My brother responds electronically to my announcement of surgery with "Thanks for the update, keep me posted." That seemed annoying, especially coming from a former psychologist. I started judging friends/relatives by whether they could get up the energy and time to call me. That was my "caring test." It's ridiculous, I know. But given my vulnerable position, I feel like I'm entitled to be ridiculous or petty if it helps me cope.

Bill Cherry Dan D., please listen to Pat Bluemel. Aside from the control issue, and I'm sure you don't want to be ... Read more

Bill Cherry Dan D., please listen to Pat Bluemel. Aside from the control issue, and I'm sure you don't want to be controlling. Anger leads to stress and stress within the body leads to a whole bunch of chemicals, hormones and other things that are damaging to guess what, your heart. Instead of anger, let it go, don't say anything but good things, be brave, stand tall, even if you have to stand alone, appreciate and be thankful for anything that comes your way, be strong and kick heart disease in the 'butt'. Just my thoughts.

Here is a video of lecture on stress and how it affects body and damages the heart.
https://youtu.be/6gFVQGD-aB8

Rhonda Rawles It was very surprising to me those that touched base and visited during my hospital stay and recovery ... Read more

Rhonda Rawles It was very surprising to me those that touched base and visited during my hospital stay and recovery and those that didn't. Often times it was backwards of what I would have expected. Bottom line is hang on to those that encourage you and want to be by your side, it's a good time to filter out relationships that are not uplifting and re-focus on those that nourish you.

Dan D. So right, Rhonda. Thanks.