Roger's Guestbook

Hi Roger, It's good to meet you and read your story. It's interesting how quickly you will feel bonded to the people who post here regularly - it is becoming a very beneficial support group. We will all be thinking of you tomorrow. Know that you are in good hands, and that all will go well. You'll be amazed at how soon you can return to your usual activities. If you haven't read Adam's book, I would recommend that you pick up a copy to read during your recovery. It will be very helpful for you as well as for your caregivers. We all wish you a successful surgery and a speedy recovery. Joel Bryan, Iowa

Roger, Congrats on getting in shape and good luck tomorrow. By the time you read this it will be all over. My husband had the same thing two weeks ago. At 37 he was completely asymptomatic and two and half months after being diagnosed he had the repair Nov. 4th. The worst part for him was in the hospital,just getting all the tubes and lines out and reaching the milestones so you can go home. He has been really suprised at how well he has felt. He only takes pain meds before bed at night so he can be comfortable and get good rest but then during the day he is able to manage with Motrin or Tylenol if needed. He has not dealt with near the fatigue that some other valve patient's speak of, so hopefully your good shape should do you good. Be careful not to get frustrated with not being able to do all you are used to. Look at it this way...your job for the six plus weeks after surgery is to let your sternum heal so that you can pick up being as vigorous or more as you were before the surgery. It is deceptive how well my husband feels but if he tries to do something he thinks would be no big deal he is reminded quickly that it might be too soon! Routines are very helpful, Ken makes sure to shower and dress in regular clothes every day by a certain time in the morning with walks scheduled between meals and light chores (folding laundry, unloading dishwasher etc..)with naps tucked in if needed! This has all helped to keep him busy and so far kept depression at bay. Well I hope this helps! Can't wait to hear you are doing well! Tara

Thank you Adam! I appreciate your email. I wish I could have had the time to read your boook, but perhaps it can still help me afterwards. We are just getting ready to leave, as we are staying in a hotel near the hospital in Santa Clara, CA. It feels like a dream. I will update when I am able.

Hi Roger, Great to meet you and thanks for sharing your story with all of us. My thoughts are with you as you prepare for surgery tomorrow. Looking forward to hearing your updates. Keep on tickin! Adam P.S. Great job getting in such incredible shape over the past year!