Hi Melissa,
I am five weeks post op and I am amazed at you talking about going back to work. You talk as though you are in the medical profession. I know my ...Read more
Hi Melissa,
I am five weeks post op and I am amazed at you talking about going back to work. You talk as though you are in the medical profession. I know my heart is doing well but the muscular/skeletal pain takes over if I push the boundaries. You sound just as I feel. I\'m in total awe of the surgeons and the new life they have given me.
I am impatient to get well - there is so much to do with a healthy ticking heart. Best wishes young one.
Rosemary Sutherland
Melissa Murphy Rosemary,
Thank you so much for your kind words and encouragement. I do work in the medical field. I ... Read more
Melissa Murphy Rosemary,
Thank you so much for your kind words and encouragement. I do work in the medical field. I work in a pediatric sick clinic. I see beautiful little ones come in with their hair falling out do to cancer and realize how fortunate we are to have the successfully treated illness we have. Those little ones are a whole lot tougher than me.
I too have had a lot of pain, especially when I push it. I pushed it too much today trying to get my house in order for the upcoming week. But I do have to say that wk 6 was my turning point. Pain is much less, energy level has majorly rebounded this week, and all the irregularities have pretty much subsided. I think your break out week is coming :-) Good luck, Rosemary. If you ha a
Melissa Murphy As I was saying, if you have a journal on here, I will follow you and your progress. Next year we sho ... Read more
Melissa Murphy As I was saying, if you have a journal on here, I will follow you and your progress. Next year we should all get together and run a 5k for heart disease awareness! Good luck, Rosemary. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Way to go, Melissa! Recovery can be hard work, but so worth it.
I continue to wish you the best. One day, you will have only a faint memory of these last ...Read more
Way to go, Melissa! Recovery can be hard work, but so worth it.
I continue to wish you the best. One day, you will have only a faint memory of these last few months.
Sheila Garrison
Melissa Murphy Sheila,
You've been one of my biggest cheerleaders and supporter. I cherish your encouragement. It he ... Read more
Melissa Murphy Sheila,
You've been one of my biggest cheerleaders and supporter. I cherish your encouragement. It helped me through some really tough spots. We all share a connection on here that we can't share with anyone else. Thats pretty special.
Back in the saddle tomorrow and on with life.
Melissa --
I am so glad everything went well for you and you are home !!! I also had surgery at the Cleveland Clinic on Sept 2nd --- One thing that I have ...Read more
Melissa --
I am so glad everything went well for you and you are home !!! I also had surgery at the Cleveland Clinic on Sept 2nd --- One thing that I have used for my scar is a silicon strip and it has made a huge difference in the healing process -- I used a product called scar away and I ordered it via the internet --- I started it on week four ..... good luck to you and your continued healing :)
Darlene
Melissa,
I\'m glad you\'re finally able to have your surgery.
Wishing you a very uneventful surgery and recovery. U hope you\'ll be feeling better soon. ...Read more
Melissa,
I\'m glad you\'re finally able to have your surgery.
Wishing you a very uneventful surgery and recovery. U hope you\'ll be feeling better soon.
Ricki Shine
Dear Melissa,
Your roller coaster ride is about to come to the straight part. I\'ll play Pink Floyd\'s Dark Side of The Moon for you on Friday. That\'s what ...Read more
Dear Melissa,
Your roller coaster ride is about to come to the straight part. I\'ll play Pink Floyd\'s Dark Side of The Moon for you on Friday. That\'s what being in surgery was like for me. I was wheeled in and next thing I knew, I was in CCU. A very strange experience for me.
I wish the best for you and will include you in my prayers. You deserve a smooth ride now!
Today is my 3 month post op date and I am back at my 100%. Haven\'t felt this great in years.
Sheila Garrison
Melissa,
Know that there\'s a day coming soon when you\'ll look back on all of this, and it will have been worth it. Godspeed to you and your family.
Wade ...Read more
Melissa,
Know that there\'s a day coming soon when you\'ll look back on all of this, and it will have been worth it. Godspeed to you and your family.
Wade Clark
I have been following your journal because it is the most closely related to my condition. You have not posted for numerous weeks so I hope you are doing well. ...Read more
I have been following your journal because it is the most closely related to my condition. You have not posted for numerous weeks so I hope you are doing well. Just to let you know that there are a lot of people you have never met that really do care about you.
Melissa, I spent 12 total days in the hospital this past summer. :( Try to get your husband to get you a great book, take up some crochet (or however you ...Read more
Melissa, I spent 12 total days in the hospital this past summer. :( Try to get your husband to get you a great book, take up some crochet (or however you spell it). Try to find away to get your brain out of the room! :) That helped me a lot!
Sheila is right, once you have the surgery, girl, you are home free. I believe you are going thru the worst part right now. (The mental part!)
Christy
Melissa Murphy I just saw this post, Christy. Not sure how I missed it. It definitely was a long 3.5 wks. So only 1 ... Read more
Melissa Murphy I just saw this post, Christy. Not sure how I missed it. It definitely was a long 3.5 wks. So only 1 more wk to go inhouse and then I'm home free!
Hi Mellisa,
Keep hanging in there. It has to be tough to stay in the hospital. Once you have the surgery, everyhting gets easier (my opinion).
You have a ...Read more
Hi Mellisa,
Keep hanging in there. It has to be tough to stay in the hospital. Once you have the surgery, everyhting gets easier (my opinion).
You have a good looking family. Prayers going out to you and your family.
Sheila Garrison
Melissa, it\'s great that your doc is being careful!!!!
From my experience (2 valves replaced) it wasn\'t so bad. I was actually mad at myself for waiting ...Read more
Melissa, it\'s great that your doc is being careful!!!!
From my experience (2 valves replaced) it wasn\'t so bad. I was actually mad at myself for waiting to have it done. I wasn\'t with it when they took the ventilator tube out and several of the major lines. Technology and medication these days are amazing!!!!
You will feel so much better!!!! I\'m going to follow your story!!!!
Christy
Melissa Murphy Thank you soooo much for your post. You have eased my mind more than any nurse or doctor has. It look ... Read more
Melissa Murphy Thank you soooo much for your post. You have eased my mind more than any nurse or doctor has. It looks like my surgery is going to be postponed for a couple of weeks because my blood count was lower than they would like. I will know for sure tomorrow morning. But I will take your comments with me whether it be in 2 days or 2 weeks. Thanks again, Christy!
Hi Melissa,
I just found your journal and it particularly caught my attention because I am having AVR surgery on 9/8. I am so nervous so it helps me to read ...Read more
Hi Melissa,
I just found your journal and it particularly caught my attention because I am having AVR surgery on 9/8. I am so nervous so it helps me to read the journals on this site. I still have to make a decision on what type of valve I want. Either mechanical or tissue. I was wondering what are you getting. I am struggling with this decision and any input you can give me will certainly help.
I wish you the best and a speedy recovery with your surgery.
God Bless.
Julie
(SC)
Melissa Murphy I am getting mechanical. I am done having children and so do not really have the need for a tissue va ... Read more
Melissa Murphy I am getting mechanical. I am done having children and so do not really have the need for a tissue valve. And I don't think this is something I want to got through every 10-15 yrs. So I am opting for the 20-25 yr plan :-) It looks like my surgery has been postponed for a couple of weeks due to low blood count. I will know for sure tomorrow morning. But my thoughts will be with you on Thursday. I will watching for your journal entries.
Hey Melissa,
Hope this finds you doing better than your last post... Think that one day post-surgery, these challenges will be a distant memory and you\'ll ...Read more
Hey Melissa,
Hope this finds you doing better than your last post... Think that one day post-surgery, these challenges will be a distant memory and you\'ll be feeling better than you\'ve felt in a long time. Have faith!
Wade
Melissa Murphy So crazy that you wrote these encouraging words to me, as I lay in a hospital bed waiting for my hear ... Read more
Melissa Murphy So crazy that you wrote these encouraging words to me, as I lay in a hospital bed waiting for my heart cath to be preformed tomorrow. Looks like this chapter may be closing very soon. Thanks for all your support, Wade
Melissa,
You are taking all the right steps. Slowly but surely, you will see the light at the end of the tunnel. Just keep doing what you\'re doing.
My ...Read more
Melissa,
You are taking all the right steps. Slowly but surely, you will see the light at the end of the tunnel. Just keep doing what you\'re doing.
My thoughts are with you!
Keep on tickin!
Adam Pick
Melissa Murphy The words of encouragement are greatly appreciated and much needed. You made my day. Thanks so much f ... Read more
Melissa Murphy The words of encouragement are greatly appreciated and much needed. You made my day. Thanks so much for the support you provide us with, Adam. This would be a scarier process without you, your book, and your site.
Melissa
Thanks for writing. For all my years with the bicuspid valve, up to, and including the detection of the ascending aortic aneurysm, I had very few ...Read more
Melissa
Thanks for writing. For all my years with the bicuspid valve, up to, and including the detection of the ascending aortic aneurysm, I had very few symptoms. Only shortness of breath beginning in Spring 2011. The aneurysm is measured at 4.5 cm, just on the border of concern. Since they will be replacing the valve they are thinking of doing the aorta at the same time. Be well. Tim l
Oh, Melissa! My heart goes out to you now. But, you need to find out why you have that cough. I\'ll continue you hold you in my thoughts and send up some ...Read more
Oh, Melissa! My heart goes out to you now. But, you need to find out why you have that cough. I\'ll continue you hold you in my thoughts and send up some prayers for you. You\'ve gone through so much....
Sheila Garrison
Melissa Murphy My heart went out to my poor pcp who just kinda looked at me like 'what do I do now?' I think he was ... Read more
Melissa Murphy My heart went out to my poor pcp who just kinda looked at me like 'what do I do now?' I think he was relieved to pass it on to another dr. But I'd rather him do that than play a pointless guessing game. Me and this cough just gotta accept each other for a while. One day this will be a distant memory...a memory I think about while finishing out my daily 5 mile run on the Gulley Park trail...
Your always so encouraging to me, Sheila. And your prayers much appreciated. Many thanks!
Hey Melissa. I had a very, very bad cough too!!!! I fought bronchitis off and on for the past 2 years. It got really bad in April and May!!! I was on every ...Read more
Hey Melissa. I had a very, very bad cough too!!!! I fought bronchitis off and on for the past 2 years. It got really bad in April and May!!! I was on every kind of medication known to man!!!! The cough I had for 2 years, especially got bad when I would lay down flat!!!! I sounded like a 100 year old smoker that had severe asthma. I was put on 80 mg of lasix a day to help with the extra fluid my body was producing due to mitral and aortic valves. The heart had to work harder, producing the extra fluid.
I had both valves replaced this past June and the cough is GONE!!!!!!!!!!!!! I wish I had this done 2 years ago!!!!
I wish you luck on your journey. I had a great surgical experience!!!!!
Christy Naughton
Melissa Murphy I remember you telling me that. In fact your words have echoed through my head since you told me that ... Read more
Melissa Murphy I remember you telling me that. In fact your words have echoed through my head since you told me that. This is the first bout of bronchitis I've ever had. I've had asthma since I was 5 yrs and am still actively on a rescue inhaler. But this was different. I knew this wasn't my asthma. I'm feeling better today. Still coughing but the burning and pain is gone. This just came out of nowhere. One day I'm totally fine, the next day there is something settling into my lungs. That was in the middle of July and its just progressively gotten worse. I'm anxious to see if this becomes a pattern.
I appreciate your supportive attitude. I showed my husband your surgery pics this morning. Trying to ease him into what this whole thing is going to entail. He thought it was cool that I have this website and amazing support group. Appreciate you lots! Keep kicking butt!
Hi Melissa,
Sorry to hear that you didn\'t received call backs for your important questions. I hear that the Cleveland Clinic is the best also.
As for me, ...Read more
Hi Melissa,
Sorry to hear that you didn\'t received call backs for your important questions. I hear that the Cleveland Clinic is the best also.
As for me, my surgeon worked there for 10 yrs before moving to California and now is the #1 heary surgeon in Calif and at St. Bernardine\'s.
I think I\'ve called his office 4 or 5 times with questions (since I\'m an HMO pt. and I\'m still waiting to get approval to see my regular cardiologist) and have talked with his PA or nurse each time.
Wish you the best, Melissa
Sheila Garrison
Apple Valley, CA
Melissa Murphy Thanks Sheila. I thought it only natural to expect a return call. Not asking alot. I'm wondering if i ... Read more
Melissa Murphy Thanks Sheila. I thought it only natural to expect a return call. Not asking alot. I'm wondering if its just the way ALL the drs handle it there or just this one? Wondering if a different dr there might not be a benefcial thing in mutliple ways.
Hope your doing well. I have been following your journal closely. Glad to know that even though your not moving along at the pace YOU would like, that at least its steady and progressive.
Hi Melissa,
Do you mean the cardiologist at CC or your local doctor? I never had a problem with CC after they made initial contact. If this is the problem ...Read more
Hi Melissa,
Do you mean the cardiologist at CC or your local doctor? I never had a problem with CC after they made initial contact. If this is the problem I would make my dissatisfaction known to whoever is in charge of cardiac surgery (Dr. Lytle???) the name should be on the website.
My local cardiologist and his staff were a different story. They were NOT excited about me going to Cleveland. I had a very difficult time getting the records from CC transferred to my local guy. I am pretty sure it was not the fault of CC (when you have been there, you will know that they are professional in every way.) Finally, one of the PTs at Cardio-Rehab suggested that I just have CC send the records to me and that solved everything. I don\'t know why I didn\'t think of that.
I found the local cardiologist dragged his feet at first but now he is TOTALLY on board because me recovery was amazing. You would almost think he had recommended that I go to CC! He told me that the surgeons he works with are in touch with CC to learn the procedure that I had done.
If it\'s your local doctor who isn\'t responding, I would change doctors!
Anne
Melissa Murphy I have given up on my local cardiologists. I know that I need to reestablish locally if for no other ... Read more
Melissa Murphy I have given up on my local cardiologists. I know that I need to reestablish locally if for no other reason than my future recovery process. But the non-msg-returning fool I'm referring to IS the cardiologist in Cleveland. Like I said, I'm not one to leave a msg every few days for minute things. These are strong meds that they were wanting to put me on. And although my local internal med dr said it was ok, I wanted to double check with my CC dr to make sure it would have a neg affect on my valve or function. So do you think its the dr? Wondering if my follow-up in Nov should be rescheduled with a different cardio dr there?If nothing else, an alternate set of eyes, ears, and thoughts are never bad when dealing with something as serious as the heart.
Hi Melissa!
My surgeon was Joseph Sabik who is the chair of Cardiac Surgery at CCF. He was wonderful. Like Anne, I can\'t remember the name of my cardiologist ...Read more
Hi Melissa!
My surgeon was Joseph Sabik who is the chair of Cardiac Surgery at CCF. He was wonderful. Like Anne, I can\'t remember the name of my cardiologist but I did like him a lot.
As for follow-up appointments in Cleveland, most of us don\'t have them. Once I was discharged from the hospital (6 days after surgery) I was under the care of my doctors at home (South Carolina). It has worked very well for me. I don\'t anticipate going back to Cleveland until such time as I need another valve replacement (I have a bovine valve which averages 15 years, although I\'m determined mine will last far longer!)
Like Anne, I encourage you to do cardiac rehab. Some cardiologists don\'t encourage their patients to do it but I found it very helpful in my very easy recovery.
Take care!!
Ricki
Melissa Murphy Ricki,
Had a question for you and will also repost this to Anne. Did you ever have any problem with y ... Read more
Melissa Murphy Ricki,
Had a question for you and will also repost this to Anne. Did you ever have any problem with your cardiologist not returning calls or having his rn return calls about concerns you may have left msgs for? They have consistently not returned calls and I'm beginning to wonder about this particular dr. Any thoughts on that?
Thanks, M
Hi again Melissa,
I picked Dr. Mihajevic for my surgeon. I just liked his story but, that said, I made a really intelligent decision.
As for my cardiologist, ...Read more
Hi again Melissa,
I picked Dr. Mihajevic for my surgeon. I just liked his story but, that said, I made a really intelligent decision.
As for my cardiologist, I couldn\'t tell you without digging out my records. I had the surgery on Friday afternoon and on Monday morning a young cardiologist made the rounds and we talked for awhile about my new iPad. Then he said \"We really can\'t think of a reason to keep you here.\" I was released and while I took a shower, washed my hair and got dressed BY MYSELF, my husband went down to see the concierge and changed our plane reservations so we could fly back to Denver on Tuesday. I stayed home on Wednesday by myself and I LOVED it. The sun was shining, the birds were at the feeders and I couldn\'t have been happier. Several friends had volunteered to come up and \"sit\" but I really preferred to be alone and ponder my new valve. Which, by the way, was a bovine valve. At CC, I believe they prefer to use biologic valves - or so I understand from their website.
I must be wired differently because once I had the surgery appointment in Cleveland, I relaxed totally. I had the best surgeon in the best clinic in the world and that was all I needed to know about it. Once I got home, I never spent a day in bed or took a nap. I started driving locally in about a week and a half because we live in the middle of the country.
Dr. Mihaljevic can usually do aortic valve replacement through a 3 inch incision which means no pain to speak of and quicker recovery.
I strongly recommend cardio-rehab after surgery. Please write if you have any questions.
My story has been incredibly easy and positive - so much so that I am almost embarrassed by it. A couple of people have even questioned if I am SURE that Dr. Mihaljevic actually did anything. Haha - yes, I\'m sure! Hope you have the same positive results...
Between Ricki Shine, Barry from NM and myself, we can pretty much tell you everything you need to know about Cleveland Clinic!
Anne
Melissa Murphy Anne,
Had a question for you and will also repost this to Ricki. Did you ever have any problem with y ... Read more
Melissa Murphy Anne,
Had a question for you and will also repost this to Ricki. Did you ever have any problem with your cardiologist not returning calls or having his rn return calls about concerns you may have left msgs for? They have consistently not returned calls and I'm beginning to wonder about this particular dr. Any thoughts on that?
Thanks, M
Hi Melissa,
I had my aortic valve replaced 7/16/2010 at Cleveland Clinic. I did not have the symptoms that you do but realized when bike riding that \"it is ...Read more
Hi Melissa,
I had my aortic valve replaced 7/16/2010 at Cleveland Clinic. I did not have the symptoms that you do but realized when bike riding that \"it is TIME!\". We had been monitoring my valve for about 10 years but it became obvious when surgery was necessary.
As long as you have been to Cleveland, you are in the best of hands. I hope they have scheduled your surgery and I will keep you in my thoughts. I was described as the ideal surgery patient because I had no other factors involved. But, I was also 69 and sort of out of shape! Nonetheless, I recovered in record time with never the slightest hitch.
I can pretty much assure you that any surgeon you get at CC is one of the best in the country so I wouldn\'t worry unduly about the switch to someone else!
Life has changed in the past year! By all means, consider cardio-rehab! It has shown me just what I need to do to take advantage of this second chance at life.
Check my journal - I have to do a new post when I have time!
Anne Shannon
Melissa Murphy Anne,
Thanks for your suggestions and encouragement. C.C. hasn't scheduled me for surgery yet. I'm on ... Read more
Melissa Murphy Anne,
Thanks for your suggestions and encouragement. C.C. hasn't scheduled me for surgery yet. I'm on a 6 mo recheck right now. The only saving grace to my last echo was the valve pressure and my heart function. I think that is why they haven't scheduled me for anything more at this time. Who was your cardiologist and surgeon at C.C? What kind of valve did you get? Answer at your leisure. I REALLY appreciate your response and will begin following your journal. Look forward to hearing from you again.
Thank you so much for your kind words and encouragement. I do work in the medical field. I ... Read more
Thank you so much for your kind words and encouragement. I do work in the medical field. I work in a pediatric sick clinic. I see beautiful little ones come in with their hair falling out do to cancer and realize how fortunate we are to have the successfully treated illness we have. Those little ones are a whole lot tougher than me.
I too have had a lot of pain, especially when I push it. I pushed it too much today trying to get my house in order for the upcoming week. But I do have to say that wk 6 was my turning point. Pain is much less, energy level has majorly rebounded this week, and all the irregularities have pretty much subsided. I think your break out week is coming :-) Good luck, Rosemary. If you ha a