Not ready to submit journal, but wanted to say that I don't think enough hospitals use a committee approach to decide whether to do aortic valve surgery. My ...Read more
Not ready to submit journal, but wanted to say that I don't think enough hospitals use a committee approach to decide whether to do aortic valve surgery. My husband never
would have had aortic valve replacement if this had been done. He was NOT a good
candidate for it, and the result was 2 1/2 petty miserable years for him and me, his
caregiver. I wrote to you as "concerned housewife in late 2103, I think that was the year.
You wrote back and said you were referring my Question to a specialist in that area.
He wrote back with a comment on my question as to whethr seriously increased
dementia could have resulted from the aortic valve surgery. He said yes and offered
his sympathy about my husband's problem. I also heard from a number of your
readers. The response I got from you and the specialist and readers of your blog
was not good news but at least it was honest! I was happy to be part of your
community of readers, heart patients and their caregives. I will be working on my
Journal again when I find the time. Martha
Rita Savelis Thank you for sharing Martha. I am sorry about your husband and especially for the difficult years ... Read more
Rita Savelis Thank you for sharing Martha. I am sorry about your husband and especially for the difficult years you had to experience after his valve replacement. I don't know anything about his situation, but I don't think surgery is for everyone either. You as a caregiver were left with such a difficult situation. I hope you can find peace, and can keep writing in your journal to express what you went through and process it all.
Catie B Martha, I'm so sorry about your husband's decline and for your loss. Such a hard thing, so disappoint ... Read more
Catie B Martha, I'm so sorry about your husband's decline and for your loss. Such a hard thing, so disappointing. My heart goes out to you. Wishing you may have much peace and comfort.