On March 4, 2014...
Jeff Emberg posted a note for Meredith that says:
Love you Mere,
The boys all had you in their prayers tonight, and we do too.
On March 4, 2014...
Aunt Lynette posted a note for Meredith that says:
Only good thoughts and healing prayers coming you way my dear child. And of course my love!
On March 4, 2014...
Sandei posted a note for Meredith that says:
Praying for a swift recovery.
On March 4, 2014...
Clare posted a note for Meredith that says:
Saying a prayer for a successful surgery tomorrow. Good luck.
On March 4, 2014...
Jennifer Emberg posted a note for Meredith that says:
Your day is almost here! You've certainly prepared, done your research, and taken care of everything. Now it'll be our turn to take care of you! So glad I can help do that! See you soon! Love you lots!
On March 4, 2014...
Lynne posted a note for Meredith that says:
Prayers for you tomorrow and the doctors and care givers.
On March 4, 2014...
Doug Erickson posted a note for Meredith that says:
Wow Meredith...Prayers to you to David, the surgeons, your mom and dad...everyone! Hope you got the house clean! God Speed
On March 4, 2014...
Liz Bush posted a note for Meredith that says:
We have never met but that fact you are Jenn's sister is good enough. I will be sending prayers from cold Ohio to you for peace, patience, and a speedy recovery.
On March 4, 2014...
MB posted a note for Meredith that says:
Just wanted to send you positive thoughts and let you know you're on my heart and mind... Keeping you and all those close in prayer.
Peace -

On March 4, 2014...
Valerie Bush posted a note for Meredith that says:
Missed you at handbell practice! I played your part....very tough & you make it look easy! Just like your surgery....tough but you will sail through it!
Love & prayers from all your ding a lings!

On March 4, 2014...
Kay Ross posted a note for Meredith that says:
Meredith, I remember you as a tough cookie and I don't think you have changed. You will make it thru with flying colors, I am sure of that. Your Dad and Jan asked us to pray for you and I am doing that. It will be over soon and you will be home. Let everyone wait on you. Good luck sweetie. Be strong. Kay Ross (Sturdevant)
On March 4, 2014...
April and Ernie Croley posted a note for Meredith that says:
My whole family says jammies even my mom it just struck me funny to hear you say that. Anyway,ernie and I love you and David technology has come a mighty long way since 1964, I was a guinea pig, today it is a piece of cake You have a great cardiology group, the staff at the hospital is fabulous and the food is great. I had a private room also, you will love it. YOU WILL BE IN GREAT HANDS< especially when Dr, Stein comes to see you/ ha/ha/
On March 4, 2014...
Kim posted a note for Meredith that says:
Hey lady! We missed you at work today! Our family will keep you, your husband and your entire medical team in our prayers. Just remember this will be the start of your new life with new symptom free adventures! I hope you have an extremely speedy recovery so then you can turn the rest of your time off into a vacation! Take care of yourself and don't over-do it!
On March 4, 2014...
Ruth posted a note for Meredith that says:
My prayers are with you Meredith. I thought of you just now and decided to write. May God's peace be multiplied to you now and in the coming days of recovery.
On March 4, 2014...
Renee Fain posted a note for Meredith that says:
Good luck tomorrow. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers as I head to the hospital in the morning for my surgery.
On March 4, 2014...
Barbara posted a note for Meredith that says:
Hee Haw (synonym for bray, right?),

You tricked us good by not showing up today!! I had a “See you in May noogie.” for you today, so I’ll give it to you as a “Glad to see you back at work noogie.” I won’t noogify you while you’re in ICU…that’s just not fair...maybe.

On a more serious note…I’ll be thinking about you and sending my fantastically potent vibs to you and your medical team so that you start feeling better fast.

We’ll hold down the GSI fort until you get back, but it just won't be the same.
On March 3, 2014...
Jeanmarie posted a note for Meredith that says:
Your big day is almost here! Take a deep breath, prayers are all with you and all who are caring for you! I am so here for you! It will be an experience, I am sure! It's sounds like you have a great support system to help you and David. That is amazing! You are so blessed! I am sure nerves are getting a bit crazy, but hang in there! You are doing great and will progress with flying colors! Show them all what you are made of woman!!! lol You are strong, you are funny, you are true woman to look up too! I look forward to hearing/reading updates. Prayers and all my love,
Jeanmarie
Meredith Bray  Nerves? HA! I laugh in the face of nerves! (Soooo easy to say sitting behind a computer keyboard.) ... Read more
On March 3, 2014...
Uncle Skip posted a note for Meredith that says:
I'll be praying for you and I've ask the congregation to do so also.
Love you.
Meredith Bray  Love you too, R.A.
On March 3, 2014...
Tamilyn J. posted a note for Meredith that says:
Meredeth and David

As part of the Transportation Family You are always in our hearts and prayers. With these special circumstances, I believe however, all of our prayers will be a bit lengthier. Keep up the good spirits. God is gracious and kind. Stay strong, You both are very important to us.
Meredith Bray  Thank you Tami! We're doing all we can, and realizing the Big Guy is in charge. It's almost over, a ... Read more
On February 28, 2014...
Wanda Kittell posted a note for Meredith that says:
Hey Meredith, I will be sending you prayers and good thoughts along with David and the surgeons! Thanks for letting me know your having surgery. Jeremiah 29:11 is one of my (many) favorite versus. Just know you will be in my prayers.
Meredith Bray  That's a pretty popular verse among heart patients. Thanks for sharing!
On February 28, 2014...
Renee DePierre posted a note for Meredith that says:
Thank you for giving me the opportunity to read your journal. You are one strong woman and I will be sending prayers your way to a speedy recovery. Truly amazing Meredith.
Meredith Bray  Thanks Renee! I'll take all the strength i can get right now! :)
On February 28, 2014...
Barbara posted a note for Meredith that says:
Surprise!! I've gotten permission to scrub-in on your surgery. I'll be shaving your chest after you're asleep so you can't stop me. (I'll have pictures too.) I won't tell anyone if it's REAL hairy.
Make a plan to come to the luncheon in June to show me your scar.
You're in my thoughts and prayers.
Meredith Bray  Finally! A sense of humor! (I swear, if I open my eyes and you're there...I'll pop open each one of ... Read more
On February 27, 2014...
Barbara Colvin posted a note for Meredith that says:
Hi Meredith -

Since November I have spent more time in prayer and Bible study. The Bible is full of assurances of my Father’s love and care. Deuteronomy 33:27 --“The eternal God is your refuge and underneath are the everlasting arms.”-- is one of my favorites. I picture myself being carried in my Father’s arms like a small child.

The 23rd psalm is another favorite. I picture myself lying down in “green pastures” and drinking from the “still waters” and walking unafraid through the “valley of the shadow of death” knowing that my Father is taking care of me and that whatever happens in this life I will dwell in the house of my Father FOREVER.

I hope that these visuals are as helpful to you as they were, and are, to me.

You will be in my prayers as you count down the days.
On February 27, 2014...
Ruth posted a note for Meredith that says:
Hi Meredith,

Me again. Will be lifting you up in prayer to include David, surgeons, and family.

Meredith Bray  You're awesome. Thank you!
On February 27, 2014...
Kathy / Greg Sprissler posted a note for Meredith that says:
Prayers on wings...
Meredith Bray  Thanks! (Isn't that a song????)
On February 27, 2014...
Yo momma posted a note for Meredith that says:
Do we have a time for next Wednesday? I'll be there Tuesday before dark. Let me know what else you need. Bringing sausage biscuits but haven't done anything with the chicken yet - figure that's between visits.
Meredith Bray  Early. Very early!
On February 26, 2014...
Cami posted a note for Meredith that says:
My list is big too, but on Sunday night, I just won't care!

You told your recliner story and I have one now, too! Looked on Craig's list for days and today found a nearly-new black leather electric recliner for $200!!! Sometimes God gives us teeny, tiny miracles, just to keep us going. That makes me happy.

It is so nice, I want to sit in it all night tonight. Alas, that activity is not on my to do list! :-)
Meredith Bray  I haven't met a miracle yet that was teeny tiny! I strongly suggest sitting in it for a while to det ... Read more
On February 26, 2014...
Susan Smith posted a note for Meredith that says:
Seems to me that you have got it all together, but I know the "list" can grow in a minute. Just stay focused and God will carry you through this onto the side of a smooth recovery. I along with many others will be praying for you.
Meredith Bray  Thanks Susan, that means more than i can ever express thanks for!
On February 26, 2014...
Valerie posted a note for Meredith that says:
Meredith,
Prayers abound from New Port Richey to Bedford Texas, Orlando to Orland California! Your name is on the tongues of Christians across America....Prayer warriors praying for Jesus's hands on the surgeons hands, and easy recovery for you, and for peace for your husband David. Your "ringer" friends will be there for you...whatever you need- and we WILL ask what you need!! We love you and look forward to making music with you the Fall!!
Meredith Bray  I love my dingaling family!
On February 26, 2014...
Cousin Chas posted a note for Meredith that says:
Lots of love and prayers going out to you and David.

I am confident things will go well. Your attitude is the most important thing at this stage, which means you're well-prepared. Keep being the funny, smart, engaging, beautiful woman you are. Flash that smile whenever you can. Ring the bells. Share a joke, but keep a couple reserved for special occasions.

I'm happy for you. Hugs from Illinois.
Meredith Bray  We gotta get together soon. It's been way too long.
On February 26, 2014...
Clare posted a note for Meredith that says:
You will do great. Even with all my planning I forgot things and learned that my husband does know how to turn on the washer, dryer and dishwasher....although at seven weeks post op I think he forgot again. I also learned that my kids can survive without me for a few days. My 7 year old even managed with 90% of his lunch correct (his words)....I guess even grandma can't replace mom. I am on warfarin and it is well regulated. I got to drive at 4 weeks and started rehab at about the same time. You can email if you have questions. autenclare@gmail.com
Meredith Bray  Thanks Clare! I worry about my husband not having enough clean clothes or food to eat. I worry abou ... Read more
On February 26, 2014...
MB posted a note for Meredith that says:
Will continue to keep you, your family, and everyone involved in prayers... I'll have my kids praying on Wednesday as well (yes - we can do that in Catholic school!! ) All will be well.
Peace -
Meredith Bray  Thanks, MB! Kids' prayers are like express mail - there's so little interference I think they go str ... Read more
On February 26, 2014...
carrie posted a note for Meredith that says:
What are you expecting for post op? How,many days in the hospital? When do you start cardio rehab? What do you need to avoid? Any interesting diet requirements? What is your hope for life style improvement after the procedure is done?
Meredith Bray  Post op? Like right after? 3 drainage tubes with a bucket-o-blood, 1 catheter with a bag-o-you know ... Read more
On February 26, 2014...
Pete posted a note for Meredith that says:
Intercession ramped up a notch. Will be in high gear in 6 days.

xoxo - P
On February 24, 2014...
Aida posted a note for Meredith that says:
Hi Meredith,

We will keep you in our prayers for a successful surgery. My husband Steve chose a mechanical valve as well last year for a MVR. He was not a candidate for repair or tissue valve and so mechanical it was. As his caregiver, I have been through a lot this past year and created a blog to help bring more awareness to everything the patient and caregiver experiences. I just posted a new article in light of the patient's emotional state in preparing for OHS. Hope I can be of help.

http://www.heartcarematters.com/blog/open-heart-surgery-patient-preparation-guide-emotional-and-psychological-effects-on-recovery/
On February 23, 2014...
Jeanmarie posted a note for Meredith that says:
Keep on hanging on! You are doing a great job! Healthcare is a maze of confusion sometimes. Getting the right tests done, the right doctor, the wonderful nurses, the great techs. And then there are the not so greats! Don't be afraid or hesitant to speak up. That is one of my faults. I just got out of the hospital Wed. after being there for 5 days. It is an experience! I learn something new every time! All my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time!
Meredith Bray  Jeanie, you gotta tell me about this stuff so we can trade prayers! Love you!
On February 23, 2014...
Heather Slentz posted a note for Meredith that says:
I'm thinking of you my friend! Hang in there and stay strong! Can't wait to hear your rollercoaster stories!
Meredith Bray  Thanks Heather! I miss riding coasters, and kayaking as well. Thanks for the note!
On February 23, 2014...
Yvette posted a note for Meredith that says:
I didn't know we couldn't ride roller coasters...I just rode some last May...yep that's me, the rebel!!

My cardio doc told me they replace the stem in almost all aortic replacement people. Wonder why nobody told you up front.

We need to be facebook friends, but I cant find you. See if you can find me.

Yvette Anderson Neas

10 days and counting
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On February 22, 2014...
carrie posted a note for Meredith that says:
Holding your hand in my heart.
Meredith Bray  I totally read that opposite...."Why are you holding my heart in your hands? Are you a doctor now??? ... Read more
On February 22, 2014...
Barbara Colvin posted a note for Meredith that says:
Hello Meredith -

I have been following your story. As you count down the days, stay focused on how much better you are going to feel with a repaired, more efficient heart and that your heavenly Father is in control. Just keep leaning on those everlasting arms. That was what I was humming to myself as I was wheeled into the operating room on February 7.

Blessings
On February 22, 2014...
Kathy/Greg Sprissler posted a note for Meredith that says:
So very glad the process is back to running smoothly...Greg & I are with you every step of the way...thoughts & prayers...
On February 21, 2014...
Clarei posted a note for Meredith that says:
Glad things are moving along. I have a mechanical valve and dacron graft on my aorta. You will do great! 6 weeks out and going strong here.
Prayers for you.
On February 21, 2014...
Auntie C posted a note for Meredith that says:
Will be so glad when this is over for you and you are back home with David. Just follow all the rules and you will be fine. Glad Mom was there this weekend to stock the larder.

2 years today since I found out about Carla! Miss her.

Love and prayers,
Meredith Bray  She misses you, too. Love you lots!
On February 21, 2014...
Yo momma posted a note for Meredith that says:
It is an honor to be your mother! We will get through this with flying colors - all of us together for you. Now what am I going to do with that 10 lbs of chicken I brought home from your freezer. That's a heck of a lot of chicly a la king. Can't wait to dance around our living room in our PJs, see the color return to your face and see David just shake his face in amazement at our silliness. Food fight!!!!!!
Meredith Bray  Soup and biscuits last night was perfect. I'm so grateful for pre-prepared meals now, when I'm exhau ... Read more
On February 20, 2014...
Ruth Valenzuela posted a note for Meredith that says:
Thank you Meredith for sharing your story. I'll be praying and believing the Lord keep his loving hands on you now and during your upcoming surgery. I also have been diagnosed with aortic valve stenosis and have to see my cardiologist every 6 months. I'm at moderate stage but it went quickly from mild to moderate. When I initially saw my doctor, he told me I would need the surgery when I'm 80. Felt great for a year and went to see him for my annual checkup and it all changed. He said I quickly went to moderate which he didn't expect and told me now I had to see him every 6 months. I'm hoping I can wait some more years but one never knows. Please stay upbeat and your eyes focused on the Lord. He will see you through.. I'll be keeping tabs on you.
Sincerely, Ruth
Meredith Bray  Ruth, thank you for your prayers. They work, I'm proof! My hindsight advice is to keep active on a ... Read more
On February 19, 2014...
Lynne posted a note for Meredith that says:
Meredith---the good LORD takes good care of you. I guess you have to have one day or questions so that you can feel the love and support that is there all the other days. Keep smiling---God is holding your hand and he has your heart too!
On February 19, 2014...
Pete Epes posted a note for Meredith that says:
Cousin!
Very encouraged & glad to hear that today's appointment went so well. Kathy D has been keeping me posted as she's been emailing w/ you.
Hugs, chuckles, big prayers, and love!
On February 19, 2014...
Yvette posted a note for Meredith that says:
And that my friend is why they call it Practicing Medicine...nothing is perfected!! I would however turn them in for incompetence. It's all going to be okay eventually, it's just a rough road right now.
On February 19, 2014...
Kathy Sprissler :-)) posted a note for Meredith that says:
Get names/dates/difficulties...keep one more gripe journal...after all is done & you are on the mend...send to local & state medical boards...with gentle cover letter...you will be amazed...all will be well...
On February 18, 2014...
teri posted a note for Meredith that says:
I know how very serious this surgery is but I can't help but smile when I read some of your entries. on the bad days look back at some of the ones you've already written... the ones like how David found the recliner! it probably won't help with the frustration and stuff but it will help to see the proof that god is with you every step if the way. your in my thoughts and prayers every second of the day!! sending you lots of hugs and prayers!!! hang in there chick! love you!!!
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