Trudy posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Sooo glad and thankful to hear! Thank you for the report!
On July 30, 2014...
Terrie posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Ginger- Good talking with you tonight and I hope you have a good nights sleep! I am glad you took the time even though you were tired to chat a bit before the big day tomorrow.
I am pleased with your confidence in your medical decisions and team and feel you are in the best of hands.
I will be waiting to read Eliz.'s posts or Jims shortly letting us know how you're doing! So glad they are both by your side. Blessings to you and M for your surgeries and recovery. Many people are praying for you both tonight and for those recovering. Love you Heart Sisters. All of you out there:
Be Well and Have Faith!
On July 30, 2014...
Terry M posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Warmest thoughts and love to you, Ginger, and to Jim and Elizabeth, as you prepare for the surgery early in the morning. You have everything well planned, and good support there and in your large network of friends.
Praying for everything to go well tomorrow.
Special thanks to Liz for sending me texts with update information!
Love, from Terry
On July 30, 2014...
Jackie M posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Hi Ginger,
Our prayers are with you for a successful surgery and speedy recovery. Try to think positive, healing thoughts as you go through this life- saving procedure. You will be healthier soon. Take each day at a time as your body heals. Remember you are not alone. You have many people that are praying for you and God gave us such
talented doctors, that miraculous
procedures are performed everyday. Sleep well knowing that tomorrow is the beginning of a healthier life for you.
Love to you and your family as you have your procedure tomorrow.
Jackie :-)
(Mary's sister)
On July 30, 2014...
Mary posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Ginger, thinking of you and praying for the best!
On July 30, 2014...
James (Mike) & Tammy Jones posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Hi Ginger,
Hoping you receive this before tomorrow's surgery. My wife and I are praying for God's hand upon you and your surgeon as well as all your other care givers. You will come through this with blessings, peace and marvelous miraculous health!
God's angels will be surrounding you and will do battle for you if there is need. :)
Looking forward to a positive report!
God's rich blessings and never ending peace be with you!
On July 30, 2014...
Olga. posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Hi Ginger.
I will be thinking of you tomorrow. You are in my prayers. I know what you mean about this site it is Great having the support.
By the way I want to apologize I thought I posted earlier on your post.
Looking forward to hearing from you soon.
Take care.
On July 30, 2014...
Tony Parker posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Tony
On July 30, 2014...
Lynn Quast posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Hi Ginger! So happy about your heart cath!!! You're in all our thoughts and prayers for tomorrow , which I'm assuming is still your surgery date. May your heart be peaceful tonight and get some good rest for your journey tomorrow !! I will look forward to hearing more of your journey when you're rested enough!!
Big hugs and kisses, Lynn
On July 30, 2014...
Eleanor posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Hi, Ginger. I am very happy about the outcome of your heart cath. For me, that meant a minimal incision which supposedly means a shorter healing time. I am on day 16 post surgery and am doing fine, but still sleeping in the recliner, cocooned in soft sheets and able to electrically find the best position. I've tried my bed a couple of times, but it puts pressure on my chest, so back to the recliner I go. I have been released by the surgeon and will see the cardiologist in mid August, for cardiac rehab. I wish you the easiest possible time with your surgery and the speediest recovery.
On July 30, 2014...
Trudy posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Good morning Ginger! Praise The Lord for he is good and his steadfast love endures forever! Prayers continue!
Virginia (Ginger) French Trudy, No question God is listening to prayers and granting them. Elizabeth grits here today, which w ... Read more
Virginia (Ginger) French Trudy, No question God is listening to prayers and granting them. Elizabeth grits here today, which will be great!
Been out to see your new granddaughter yet?
Love you so much!
On July 29, 2014...
Bob Osmachenko posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Hey Virginia. I am following you and glad you have your hubby be a second set of ears.
My wife (Linda) has picked up many things that have zoomed over my head and i often wonder if "the lights are on but nobody is home".
Go figure.
Thinking of you and keep up the good work!
Virginia (Ginger) French Bob, Thank you for being there. You are right that Jim picks up a lot. Glad Linda does too! Support i ... Read more
Virginia (Ginger) French Bob, Thank you for being there. You are right that Jim picks up a lot. Glad Linda does too! Support is so essential, but so is accurate information!
We are taking a mini-recorder with us today when we meet with my valve surgeon. Then we can pick up anything we may have missed!
Thanks for the encouragement and you are also in my prayers and thought. May all go well for you.
On July 29, 2014...
Stacy Blew posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Praise God for ur clean coronary arteries! Prayers will continue to carry u the rest of the way! So excited for u to get to the other side of this and have a renewed life! We r w ya angel sis ! Hope you've gained some peace for a good rest tonite!
Luv u Ginge! Can't wait for ur return! "You've got this" as they say ; cuz we know he's carrying u!!! Xoxos Stacy n Max ;)))
Virginia (Ginger) French Stace, You are such a great encourager and cheerleader for me. After yesterday's cath my weight limit ... Read more
Virginia (Ginger) French Stace, You are such a great encourager and cheerleader for me. After yesterday's cath my weight limit is ten pounds! My purse weighs more than that! And I have even tried to thin it out.
Hope you are feeling great, too! This is Day 30 on the Count Up to 42. Feels great to be that far along and to look back and know those days were each making a difference in the grand scheme of things.
Feeling good, icing my Achilles' still, but that will eventually resolve. :o)
Hugs to you and Max, sweet angel!
On July 29, 2014...
Terrie posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Great post tonight and I hope you are in bed now! Have a sweet sleep and we continue to pray for you, Mia and all those pre or post op and out there recovering!
Love to you all.
Virginia (Ginger) French Bless you, my dear sister! Slept great but wanted to sleep longer. Jim's alarm going off every half h ... Read more
Virginia (Ginger) French Bless you, my dear sister! Slept great but wanted to sleep longer. Jim's alarm going off every half hour made it hard. C'est la vie!
Still waiting to see what Dr. S has to say and when surgery will be. Hope to have the time tonight!
Bunches of hugs and love!
On July 29, 2014...
Lynn Quast posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Thinking warm and healing thoughts for you Ginger !!!!
Virginia (Ginger) French Lynn,
Bless you for your warm thoughts and good wishes. So far so good and I'm looking forward to th ... Read more
Virginia (Ginger) French Lynn,
Bless you for your warm thoughts and good wishes. So far so good and I'm looking forward to the days ahead, with positive expectations!
Love and hugs,
Ginger
On July 29, 2014...
Terrie posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Good morning Sis.
Thoughts and Prayers are with you today and I know this is one more step forward.
Praying for you to have an easy go of it today and that Mia is being "watched over as I write this". Bless all Hearts.
Love you-Terrie
Virginia (Ginger) French Terrie,
Could not have gone much better today. Only the delays here and there made Jim concerned as t ... Read more
Virginia (Ginger) French Terrie,
Could not have gone much better today. Only the delays here and there made Jim concerned as to whether I was all right.
Looking forward to time with both the appointments tomorrow and knowing "The Plan".
Love you dear sister! Thinking of and praying for so many, but really want to know when there is news on little Mia!
Till tomorrow...
On July 29, 2014...
Olga posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Hi Ginger.
My thoughts and prayer will be with you.
Virginia (Ginger) French Bless you, Olga! I cannot tell you how very much I appreciate your praying for me and your encouragem ... Read more
Virginia (Ginger) French Bless you, Olga! I cannot tell you how very much I appreciate your praying for me and your encouragement, So far all is well.
May you keep thinking positively and learn enough not to have concerns by the time your surgery date is set and comes.
Love and hugs,
Ginger
On July 29, 2014...
Stacy Blew posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Prayers today for ur "all clear" cath! Will be thinking of u all day. Have seen many of ur parishioners from ur church and I've asked them for prayers and they already were! Pretty popular angel friend! They say " how do U know her? I just smile n say "blessed w decades of luv"! Have asked every single other client and family member and my health coach and have candles lit for u in church ! Everyone's hearts are carrying yours! Luv u girl and have peace in our prayers. ! Xoxos Stacy n Max ;)))
On July 28, 2014...
Mia posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Ging,
I will be thinking of you and praying for you as I prepare for my surgery. Surgery is scheduled for 715 am. Bright and Early.
Good luck with the Cath, and surgery on Wednesday. You are in my heart and everytime I see a butterfly I think of you.
Love you,
Butterfly kisses
Eskimo hugs
On July 28, 2014...
Terrie posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Hello again Ginger! Thanks for the update and tell Jim and Eliz. if they don't stand in as your "adult" after your cath they get NO ICE CREAM!
You are funny but not a bad idea passing your twin off for the procedure!
Nice try Ginger. That brain of yours is always thinking!
I think we can sell tickets for the "Ice Cream Skype Extravaganza" in between your consult and surgery?!!!
Talk about great planning!
So I will keep checking for updates. Going to go online to see if Mia is still on for her surgery tomorrow?
Like ducks in a row. One right after another. I see this as a very good sign of great company for recovering!
Bless you all and those pre-op or post-op!
Thinking of you all! Love you Ginger!
Thanks to Jim and Eliz. for taking such good care of you!
On July 28, 2014...
Terrie posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Ginger:
Very happy that your test day has gone well. Now your Cath is tomorrow, yes?
Let me know if you get a minute so I can send out some prayers! I am sure all will go well and glad you are getting one more thing accomplished! The Cath will put your surgeon "on top" of what your heart is doing and it is a very good thing! Can't believe they are able to do these special procedures ahead of surgery! Blessings to you my Sister.
Love you to pieces back and glad that "Bee Well" will be keeping and eye on you. I will wait to hear from you sweetie. Love, Terrie
On July 28, 2014...
Terrie posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Sister Ginger!
Today is a brand new day and you are going to take your wonderful self through it step by step and by the end of the day be all those steps closer to a healthier BIG HEART! HEALTHIER HAPPY HEART! And somehow we have to organize a big "Skype" ice cream party with "M", Mia, Rebecca, Eleanor and anyone else who wants to join!
I will be with you in Spirit my new friend & Sister!
Much love to Jim and Elizabeth too and I am so happy they are with you!
Our Community is with you as well.
Love, Terrie
Virginia (Ginger) French Terrie,
It was a fine, easy going day - even with 11 tests, exams, and appointments to fit in! It re ... Read more
Virginia (Ginger) French Terrie,
It was a fine, easy going day - even with 11 tests, exams, and appointments to fit in! It really feels great to have today ending and we'll be able to relax a bit tonight!
Have BEE WELL sitting here where I can see her while I type and from my spot on the bed! Makes me think so much my newest Sister! :o)
Got to go! Calling for cath time!
Love you to pieces!
On July 28, 2014...
Stacy Blew posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Thinking and praying for u daily! Way to keep that sense of humor! Drum volume could carry that far in my opinion ! Farley hootspa ! Hang on to that cuz it will help get ya thru! Sending biggest XOXOS for ur day!!! Love Stacy n Max;)))
Virginia (Ginger) French Stace & Max,
Figure there's a reason God gave us humor. It certainly helps to lighten the heart (smal ... Read more
Virginia (Ginger) French Stace & Max,
Figure there's a reason God gave us humor. It certainly helps to lighten the heart (small pun) if we can only remember not to take ourselves to seriously, and that He is in charge and, as a result, the people caring for us are under His control.
What He wills will be, so best not to get too wrapped up by whatever the current trial may be!
Love you Angel and that red bearded man of the house! Take care of you and I am looking forward to seeing you again soon. ;o)
On July 26, 2014...
Stacy n Max Blew posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Ur on my mind in in my heart today w Prayers for u and ur family for a safe and smooth commute to Cleveland today ! Prayers and peace for u a restful sleep tonite w the peace knowing God's got u and all r hearts n prayers r with u! We luv u Ginge! Xoxos
Virginia (Ginger) French Stace n Max,
Bless you dear ones. We are fine! Had a great dinner with friends who drove in 2 hours ... Read more
Virginia (Ginger) French Stace n Max,
Bless you dear ones. We are fine! Had a great dinner with friends who drove in 2 hours tonight. Have 11 appointments, treatments, and tests tomorrow starting at 6:45 AM. Could be a long day! But one more day up on the count! Feeling good, vertigo at bay, and praying it stays that way and the longer fast than my body usually tolerates does not become a problem.
Hugs to you both! Thought I heard Max drumming outside, then realized it was thunder! :D xoxoxox
On July 26, 2014...
Julia Hsu posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Ginger,
Good luck w/ your upcoming surgery. Take care.
Virginia (Ginger) French Julia,
I appreciate your thoughts and encouragement. Getting close and certainly is something my bod ... Read more
Virginia (Ginger) French Julia,
I appreciate your thoughts and encouragement. Getting close and certainly is something my body is in need of, so no questions there!
Hope you are continuing to recuperate at a pace you can tolerate.
Sending love and hugs,
Ginger
On July 26, 2014...
m in cornwall posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Hi Ginger - Terrie told me you are on your way to Cleveland with surgery same day as mine on 31st. forgetting that you are a day ahead of UK. We will get through this with flying colours I am sure and memory is a funny thing, once we are on the way to recovery it will seem like all this waiting was a long way off. I feel all of us on this site are a close knit family and we all quetly pray when we hear one of us is going into surgery. I will be thinking of you and passing on lots of positive thoughts across 'the pond' take care and now comes the really exciting part of this experience plus all that ice cream once its over LOL love m xxx
Virginia (Ginger) French M,
Yes, both on 31st - I take it as a good sign! I will be supporting you and vice versa. Had a great ... Read more
Virginia (Ginger) French M,
Yes, both on 31st - I take it as a good sign! I will be supporting you and vice versa. Had a great day today although need to sleep. Tomorrow have 11 appointments for tests, lab, x-ray, CT, etc. So just taking it one appointment at a time.
Send over the pond prayers and thoughts of peace, calm, strength, courage, love, and more! And they will be coming steadily in the coming days!
Please, take care of YOU!
On July 25, 2014...
Terrie posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Well Sis...Glad we got a chance to talk a bit today. I hope you ate well this evening and get a good nights sleep.
I know your Family is around you and that you are in the Best Of Hands. There was a prayer mentioned I heard today that I am going to leave you with tonight:(I also do not know who wrote this originally)
"Angels of God
From Heaven so bright
Watch over your children
And guide them alright.
Fold your wings 'round them
and guard them with Love
Sing to them softly
From Heaven above.........
I borrow this gentle prayer and send out to our heart community.
Love to you my Sister Ginger and know that you are being watched over as you continue on your heart journey.
Safe trip.
Virginia (Ginger) French My Sister Terrie,
Bless you, I love this, but not as much as I love you! Little Autumn was squealing ... Read more
Virginia (Ginger) French My Sister Terrie,
Bless you, I love this, but not as much as I love you! Little Autumn was squealing with all of her two teeth showing in a wide grin before she kissed Bee Well for her time in the hospital with me!
So I will respond with a prayer very close to the one we used to say before the Lord's Prayer as we sat on Mom's side of our parents' bed, starting with Mom and going down by age.
Jesus, tender Shepherd hear me;
Bless Thy little lamb tonight;
Through the darkness by Thou near me;
Watch my sleep till morning light.
All this day they hand has led me,
And I thank Thee for Thy care;
Thou hast clothed me, warmed and fed me,
Listen to my evening prayer.
Let my sins be all forgiven;
Bless the friends I love so well;
Take me. when I die, to Heaven,
Happy there with Thee to dwell.
Amen.
Then we would sing,
"It's a long, long traill awinding
Into the land of my dreams. ..."
I don't know if I ever told you, but our mother's mother, the grandmother we never knew but only saw in pictures and heard about from Mom, was a devout tiny Quaker woman who spoke in "Thee", "Thou", and "Thy". So the prayer is even more fitting in light of that heritage.
Thank you for your prayer and good wishes, and know that you are carried in prayer always, and our Heart Family as well...
Find Joy in every day, for miracles certainly do happen.
With the greatest of love I carry you with me, Terrie, in spirit so that when your time comes you will already made a practice run! Blessings!
On July 25, 2014...
Mia posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Ginger,
Yes I am tempting you with ice cream. Thank you for letting me know that you will be away from texting for awhile. I appreciate you thinking that I would worry.
You know me well. I tend to worry way to much. You have helped me so much to relax, have faith in God and enjoy the present. Sis am so thankful that b you bare in my life.
Have a safe trip. I will be praying for you as your journey continues to our count up day!
Looking forward to sharing that special moment with you!
I am so glad you are OK, with all the excitement of the fire department.
That butterfly garden sounds beautiful!
Sending you butterfly kisses, Eskimo hugs and may you think of me when you see butterflies! I will think of my sis Going when I see butterflies or even imagine them!
Big hugs from your count up heart sister!
Virginia (Ginger) French Bless you Mia! Please, if you want to do something for me don't spend your energy worrying. It is so ... Read more
Virginia (Ginger) French Bless you Mia! Please, if you want to do something for me don't spend your energy worrying. It is so destructive. Instead spend that energy getting yourself prepared in positive ways, I have even laid out what I will wear first when I come home!
And my blessed husband stopped by the green grocery here tonight to buy more of my favorite "Thing I can drink when I am too nauseated even for water." It's gotten me through these three days of vertigo. Now if I can just get to bed...
It's Reed's Raspberry Ginger Brew! Comes in a brown bottle that made my boss do a double take when I had one on my desk in my office years ago! It has 17 gm of ginger in it -- an actual therapeutic stomach-settling dose. May have one more tonight before closing everything down and nodding off!
You are in my thoughts and prayers. Take good care of YOU!
And if I haven't told you already, we have a sun-bleached small poster in the mirror in our bathroom that says, "Relax God's in Charge". Really, if we keep our eyes and our focus on Him what can go wrong? He has brought me through so much and I am joyful because despite all else He is in control. May you feel that too!
Butterfly kisses and Eskimo hugs, and when I see butterflies I have always thought of my Mom - now you are a part of that!
Bless you and I'm with you, Counting up, in spirit!
On July 25, 2014...
Trudy posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Hey ging!
Woke up thinking about you and checking this all out! Look forward to seeing you when you return home on the mend! Prayers to the Father through Jesus and prayed with groans by the Spirit according to the Father's good and gracious will!
On July 23, 2014...
Mia posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Ging,
Just wanted to say good night. Have a great restful sleep. I am going to think of all the beautiful butterflies as I nod off tonight. Day 23 almost 24 of our count-up.
Night!
Love from Mia
Virginia (Ginger) French "Mia,
You are in my thoughts and prayers. Remember that if you do not hear from me for a few days. We ... Read more
Virginia (Ginger) French "Mia,
You are in my thoughts and prayers. Remember that if you do not hear from me for a few days. We have to travel for surgery. With the heart valve and a brain injury to contend with, my cardiologist was very selective in what was required for me to safely survive this surgery and come out on top at the end.
So keep your chin up, that smile on your face, and know that I am with you in spirit.
It could be an interesting trip since my injured Achilles' have flared up on both sides.
Then there was the unrequested visit from the Fire Department and EMS yesterday. I am FINE! But somebody thought they had to follow a protocol. So I have learned that not only my son-in-law the WFD Firefighter knows where I live, but others do, too. They were a nice bunch, I was just sorry their time was wasted. (I could have been napping, but nooooo!) We laughed about it last night, and I know which station house they are from because I drop off donuts there once in a while.
Still too much to do and too little time. My young adult daughter told me tonight on the phone that I am always having more to do than time, what makes this different. I said, "A ride, a flight, then a bunch of tests, a big procedure, and surgery." She agreed maybe that did make it different!
I had hoped to be far enough ahead to be able to go and put my little granddaughter, Autumn Grace, in for her last bottle of the night and then into bed on her 10 month birthday, but this was my second day of vertigo making it too unsafe to drive. (I still am hoping maybe tomorrow???)
I saw a beautiful garden bowl with fantastic butterflies for water for birds yesterday and thought of you. It was gorgeous, but I am currently trying to dig out, so adding is not an option!
Enjoy each moment and get your rest and I must say I am impressed that we are closing out on the 24th day out for our Count Up to 42! Not bad, not bad at all! Many hugs and butterfly kisses until I can get back on line!
With love,
Ginger
On July 23, 2014...
Terrie posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Morning Ginger- Sounds like you had a productive day and got much accomplished. Good for you and great that you had the help to do it! Sounds like you can really count on your friends !
Have a great day today and enjoy yourself! You earned it!
My friend Vicki(the lady who taught me how to "carve" when I was in my 20's and who is my oldest friend, is coming over tomorrow to see me so if you try to get in touch and we miss each other I will get back to you.
Have a great day SIs..Love, Terrie
Good morning still, at least in CA! Almost 1 here. Have had my hair trimmed, which feels good. I cut 7 inches off before my first surgery, which was in the end of August three years ago. I had been warned ahead of time to expect excrutating pain for 10 to 14 days and did not want hair in my face or sticking to my neck. Fortunately, Jim liked it. And so glad I did it because I had problems with dissolving sutures that were taking their ever loving time to dissolve and in the meantime puzzled the docs and kept the pain in high gear for over 5 weeks! But, that was a different kind of pain then is likely to occur with heart valve replacement. Just very glad the hair is trimmed.
Yes, yesterday was very productive, happily for me. I wish I could say all is completed, but I will be resting on Sunday if not before. (But before would be nice!) I still have two beds to clear off before leaving so I have them and two recliners to settle into them. ......Phone call from church - now leaving for last appointment (I hope!) More later.
Bunches of love and hugs to my precious sister, Ginger
On July 23, 2014...
m in cornwall posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Hi ginger - just came across your journal when you were counting up 42 - of course 42 is the meaning of life LOL - i have days when i try and pretend i am fine and i dont have impending surgery but other days i get on here and read new journals and feel inspired. i love the way we are all complete strangers from around the world and yet we feel like family. i was a military wife for many years and its a bit like that all dealing with the same issues and fears which makes you part of one big family. its been a very depressing week with the malaysian plane being shot down i dont know if our upcoming surgery makes us more susceptible to anxiety but i had a day of crying nonstop and couldnt look at the news. but all is good for Rebecca and Eleanor we know are in good hands and will soon be back home and on the mend. my surgery was postponed until 31 july however i know the person that took my slot in my surgeons timetable needed surgery far more urgently than i did and they too are probably husband wife father mother son or daughter. life is tenuous and i love that you are very focussed on living each day and the things that you do and people you talk about in your life. love to you ginger take care
Virginia (Ginger) French M,
You are so precious to me! And I know the delay of your surgery must have upset much of your menta ... Read more
Virginia (Ginger) French M,
You are so precious to me! And I know the delay of your surgery must have upset much of your mental preparation. But WE ARE NOW SCHEDULED FOR THE VERY SAME DAY! That totally excites me, because I have many people praying for me and have been asking them to pray for others, too. But foro July 31, M, you are going to be absolutely Flooded! with prayers. I am calling my church (of 2000) immediately to notify them that I want your name with mine on the prayer list! And I will do the same with the place where my friends, neighbors, former co-workers and others are getting their information. A double blessing for each of us! I have a huge smile on my face because of you, M!
I want you to know that YOU ARE GOING TO BE FINE! You will take it all in stride and come out on top! And frankly. I think a good cry is cathartic! Gets a lot of those pented negative feelings vented.
I like the way Max Lucado put it - That tears are tiny messengers, and just as the tears shed by Jesus on the cross were each filled with meaning, so too are yours. Each tear releases something inside you and allows you to relax and be more comfortable.
You are certainly correct that the global news is very disturbing. And I am usually very attentive to what is going on - one of my favorite podcasts is the BBC Global News. They cover everything and do not have the slant that is put on my the media here.
But I highly recommend that you divert your focus from the news right now so you can do what is most important - getting your mind, body, and soul ready for what lies ahead, for which surgery is only the BEGINNING! You are going to be feeling so much better as your recovery start, then picks up, then becomes "What surgery? Oh, Yeah!"
If you have not, take a look at my photos. For on there I have put not only pics of things that are family and the like but other things that remind me of the journey and where my focus should be - on - on taking care of myself and praying to and drawing strength from God and His creation. Let me know what you think! I hope to add more to it if I can fit it in!
I love you so very much, M, and we are in good hands - our medical teams hands and God's hands.
Have a great day, find the small miracles in each one, and if you think of anything negative replace it with I am fine and I am going to be even better! It is true!
Bless you my dear sister of the heart,
Ginger.
On July 22, 2014...
Mary (Mia) posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Hello my heart sister!
Well we are on count up day 22. Wow time is going fast. Just think before you know it we both will be home recovering and feeling much better.
You will be happy to know that this week I have decreased my work schedule to about 20 hours a
week. Basically working half days and have scheduled Friday off. Hope to do something extra special with my husband.
I have not even started to pack. Guess I better begin.
Hope you are resting and enjoying each day. I am sure you will. I again am so thankful for our heart family. It is amazing how people from all over the world can connect and form a family! I am so happy that I found our family.
I will continue to remember you and all our heart brothers and sisters and their families in my prayers.
Sleep well tonight, get to bed at a decent time. I know you won't. Sending butterfly kisses and big hugs your way!
Love your heart sister Mia
Virginia (Ginger) French Mia,
You are getting to know me pretty well when you tell me to get to bed at a decent time, then say ... Read more
Virginia (Ginger) French Mia,
You are getting to know me pretty well when you tell me to get to bed at a decent time, then say you know I won't!
I have started some packing and have set out what I want to get into when I get back home. A very welcome thought that is!
Many of my friends are getting just a bit freaked. Most thought there would be one more week for some reason, although I thought all were fairly well informed! One teared up at the door when she was leaving. I said, Hey, I'm fine. I want you to be too! I got a smile and another hug.
So there was a steady trail of people today and I have put them to work. And as I am alongside them they tell me to sit down or don't get down there, I'll get it, that sort of thing.
But I sleep just fine once I get there, and things are clearing out so there will be more room for me to maneuver when I get home.
I am definitely on the prayer warrior circuit, and will continue to pray for our big Heart Family and those they love.
New quote for you:
Live each day against the backdrop of eternity. Don't know who said it but it is probably in one of my quote books.
Butterfly kisses and major hugs headed back at you!
Love and hugs, dear one,
Ginger
On July 21, 2014...
Molly and Tim O'Holleran posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Dear Ginger,
May God bless you as you approach another health challenge. Your dignity and courage are inspiring. Many times human beings get caught up in the trivia of day-to-day life. Little problems seem like boulders in the journey. Your sharing your thoughts and prayers about a life-changing operation puts our mortality in perspective. If we deal with pebbles with fortitude and faith, we are more likely to handle the boulders with the same grace. You rock!
Love always,
Molly and Tim
Virginia (Ginger) French Molly and Tim,
I cannot tell you how extremely delighted I am to hear from you! You two, but one, are ... Read more
Virginia (Ginger) French Molly and Tim,
I cannot tell you how extremely delighted I am to hear from you! You two, but one, are such an incredible couple with a beautiful family. I am sure you have raised them all to have Faith.
I miss you both and Annie and Mike, too! I think of your dad, Jack, Molly and that there is still a Jack here on earth named in his honor.
Bless you all and thank you for your prayers. We are fine. We know Who is in charge, and that is everything. And I am so grateful that you are keeping me in prayer. It has been amazing to me how faithfully God answers the prayers of those who serve Him. And even with many different boulders, you might say, I have yet to go into surgery without feeling His presence and being completely at peace. What a gift!
I used to say that the greatest thing one person can do for another is to tell them they will pray for the other and DO IT! Now I know that there is no question in my mind. I have experienced His presence too many times to believe otherwise.
Thank you for your encouragement, support, and prayers! (And Molly, what is the story on the election? If you do not win the voters have to be blind, deaf, and dumb!)
I love you both so very much, and Jim is a great support, even Elizabeth is taking time away from her wee Autumn Grace, 10 months old in two days, to be with us the evening before surgery and several days after - something I could never have asked or even expected her to do.
Bless you and your family - sending hugs and love, Ginger
On July 21, 2014...
Lynn quast posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Thinking of you Ginger!!!! Don't tire yourself out before your surgery!!! Life will go on without everything done and your surgery will be easier for you if you're well rested! Take it slow . Lynn
Virginia (Ginger) French Lynn, That really is what I planned. I just did not realizing how big of a bite I was taking. But I ... Read more
Virginia (Ginger) French Lynn, That really is what I planned. I just did not realizing how big of a bite I was taking. But I know you are correct and I rested a good part of the day today and sleep like a rock!
Thank you for being there! You are a tremendous Heart Sister to have through these times, and I appreciate it that you care enough to give me wise advise.
Hugs and prayers,
Ginger
On July 19, 2014...
Olga. posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Hi Ginger. It is amazing how you get close to people on here. I think of you Mary and Elenor. I wonder how you are all doing. You are all in my prayers.
Thank you for the updates.
Virginia (Ginger) French Olga,
I'm not sure what happened, but I responded to you once already and came back and it was gone. ... Read more
Virginia (Ginger) French Olga,
I'm not sure what happened, but I responded to you once already and came back and it was gone. So once again---
I totally agree with you that this is a stellar example of what happens when people with a common goal come together and support one another, and in the process become friends.
You continue to be in my prayers, and I am delighted that you are getting to know some of the people better.
May all go well with you, and have a great day tomorrow!
Hugs,
Ginger
On July 19, 2014...
Julia Hsu posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Ginger,
My sternum & incision are not painful after the first few days. The areas around the incision & breasts are numb. Uncomfortable is a better description. I stopped hydrocodone w/in the 1st week of being home. (Probably should have taken it a week longer.) But I am still taking ibuprofen some nights. My body is less tolerant of the "activities" my chest does at night. You will do fine.
Virginia (Ginger) French Julia,
Bless you for your kindness in continuing to update me about what is going on with you and how ... Read more
Virginia (Ginger) French Julia,
Bless you for your kindness in continuing to update me about what is going on with you and how you are feeling. Numbness is probably from nerves cut during the surgery, and in all likelihood you will slowly regain feeling. That was my experience after my breast cancer surgery. I appreciate your many tips like how long to consider staying on the pain meds.
Most of all, Julia, I am grateful for your encouragement! Thank you for being there for those of us awaiting surgery and working at remaining positive.
Love and hugs, Ginger
On July 19, 2014...
Mia posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Hello my countup sister! Sorry I did not write this week. My assistant director was on vacation this week. I worked from 700 to 600 pm all week. I was wore out!! Wanted to get her vacation in before I begin mine(lol). Last night I slept like a baby. Did not get out of bed until almost 1000 a.m. I have been gettingnup every day around 545 am for the past week.
I feel much more comfortable about my procedure on the 29th. I called my surgeons office and got all my questions answered. Its my understanding that on the 28th I will have a chest xray, physical, EKG, bloodwork, meet with anesthesiologists, doctors, etc. Then go home and return early
on the 29th. As of right now my time of surgery is 800a.m.
You are having a heart catherization Also the same day (correct)?
Its so hard to believe we are both on the countup day 19.
Before you know it we both will be back at our homes enjoying ice cream, relaxation and of course connecting with our heart family!
Once we have this all behind us it would be awesome to have a heart family get together! Somewhere warm, relaxing!
Thank you Ginger for reminding me to have faith in Our Heavenly Father. You really helped me to get back on track.Also thank you for making sure I was not missing in action. Your friendship means so much to me, my heart sister.
I actually made sure to have my will in place. I am so blessed (one of my clients at my preschool is an attorney.) She approached me one day and asked me if everything is in order? I thought she meant at the center. She meant my will and wishes concerning medical. She is taking care of everything free of charge. What a blessing. Of course I do not plan on needing it for a long time.
Its a beautiful day here in the Great Lake State. Setting on your deck writing to you and hearing the birds chirp. The temperature is 75!
I am planning on working on some picture collages for my childcare/center when I come home with my heart repair or new tissue mitral valve.
Looking forward to connecting with you daily now that we approach the big week!
Butterfly kisses, Eskimo hugs and loads of love to you my sister!
Virginia (Ginger) French Mia, My Count Up Heart Sister!
What a delight to hear from you! I am glad all is well and that you ha ... Read more
Virginia (Ginger) French Mia, My Count Up Heart Sister!
What a delight to hear from you! I am glad all is well and that you have that bunch of long days over so you can store up the energy you will need for surgery and healing! Wow!
You are totally correct that my heart cath will be the day of your surgery. That will give me lots of time to keep prayers shooting up for you. And for longer prayers, too. I call my little prayers that shoot up arrow prayers. And my quiver will be full and my bow at ready!
I have a quote for you today:
Wherever there is a human being, there is an opportunity for kindness. -- Seneca
My sisters and I collect quotes and sometimes pass them back and forth. Were it a contest, my younger sister would win. I know she has books and books full of them. In my photos is one of my favorite picture with a quote. It is called Judgement. Take a look if you have a chance. It means a lot to me because everything that I have injured or have had major surgery on is not visible. It's not a matter of wanting people to feel sorry for me, but once in a while I could use a break,
What a saint your lawyer friend is to take care of your will and medical directives for you pro bono. That is a tremendous complement telling you how much she likes you and appreciates the work you are doing. Bravo!
I am still working at clearing things out at my home so I can get around easier after surgery and my granddaughter will be safer around here. We have gates and outlet plugs and all of that sort of thing, but it is the little things that are around after living in a home for 35 years that need attention.
Glad you have had such a beautiful day! I was out only a little for some of the early night air, cool and fresh, on the front porch swing.
Then had to come in to eat before it got too late and wanted to see if you were back and how M's surgery went and see if anyone has heard back from Eleanor after her surgery on the 14th.
By the way, my dad always thought of my mom as such a free spirit that one of the things he called her was his butterfly. In fact the last thing he bought for her that she never took off was a necklace with a butterfly on it. So I have some butterfly things around my house! :o)
Hope you sleep well and am sending back butterfly kisses and Eskimo hugs and plenty of prayers and love! Bless you my heart sister!
On July 17, 2014...
Terrie posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Hello Ginger
Haven't seen any Posts lately so I am
checking up on you Sister!
Going to dentist for last visit today and will be thinking of you as it is one more step forward to surgery.
Hope you are doing well and things are moving along! Take care.
Love Heart Sister Terrie
Virginia (Ginger) French Bless you, Terrie,
Just overwhelmed with more people here and more activity and some unexpected less ... Read more
Virginia (Ginger) French Bless you, Terrie,
Just overwhelmed with more people here and more activity and some unexpected less than delightful occurrences.
I am exhausted, but still counting up and hoping to get some rest these next few days.
Hugs, prayers, thanks for the help, and more, Your Sis
On July 16, 2014...
Susan Smith posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Ginger I am 2 1/2 month out from valve replacement surgery. I had a full sternum procedure and the pain if any was more of sore to touch the Incision. Some arm and chest muscles soreness. It should not be an issue . You will do fine .
Virginia (Ginger) French Susan, thank you for your encouragement. It is really unsettling when someone I have trusted and hav ... Read more
Virginia (Ginger) French Susan, thank you for your encouragement. It is really unsettling when someone I have trusted and have had a strong relationship with comes out with remarks that are not just unnecessary, but are not true.
I have no idea now what she thought she was doing and saying or why, but you have put that behind me and I am very grateful to hear the reality from someone who has actually been through what is ahead for me.
You have encouraged me and I feel like I am back on track after an unnecessary detour! But now feeling positive again and moving ahead.
Bless you, Susan, for being here for some of us still in the pre-op as opposed to post-op stages!
On July 16, 2014...
Ted Johnson posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Hi Ginger, 2 weeks post op very little pain! I have not taken a prescription med for the pain for 24 hours.
Like other readers have noted must of my pain was in my back but that is a but a faint memory now.
Best of luck
Virginia (Ginger) French Ted, You are like a breath of fresh air! I got pounded (not just lightly brushed) with some untruths ... Read more
Virginia (Ginger) French Ted, You are like a breath of fresh air! I got pounded (not just lightly brushed) with some untruths, and you are a huge inspiration.
Normally I would know better than to listen to someone who has not been through what we are facing or have faced. But this person has the credentials and has been accurate in the past.
I am very grateful you took the time to blow those bits of bad info away, and to instead encourage and inspire with your own experience!
On July 14, 2014...
Olga posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Hi Ginger.
So sorry to hear about your sister house. I am glad to hear that her and her family are ok.
I have been thinking and praying for Elenor.
It is great to find people on here that gone or going through the same thing. It's a great support.
Have a great day.
Virginia (Ginger) French Olga,
Thanks for the great hello! My sister and her husband were spared by having a concrete room wit ... Read more
Virginia (Ginger) French Olga,
Thanks for the great hello! My sister and her husband were spared by having a concrete room with a steel door poured into the lower walkout level of their home when they built it. She was here this weekend and very helpful just clearing out and freshening some of the things I have been unable to do. Now the place feels more open and relaxing, which is what I will need when I come home.
I have been praying for Eleanor, too, and now M. I have not explored enough to know if there is any word about either, but wish them both God's blessing.
I am glad you have joined this big Heart Family, Olga. We are all hear for each other. Hope your weekend is a fine one!
On July 12, 2014...
Colette posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Hi Ginger,
I am seven weeks post op from having open heart surgery to repair my mitral valve and a hole in the atrium wall. I think it was great all the small stuff you managed to collect that people forget about but it sure adds up to alot when you think about it.
I saw your question regarding the sternum healing. I really had hardly any pain when breathing in and out after surgery. Though the sternum did ache somewhat and it was more my back that was sore. Mind you I think being large chested makes it a little more difficult. Very strong brassier is the key even when sleeping.
I did notice that if I over extended my arms (which they tell you to avoid) that some clicking /rubbing of the breast bone began. I clued in pretty quick to stop doing whatever made that rubbing sensation and laid low for a little while. That means you need to ask for help from your family to reach for things, unload the dishwasher and even make dinner. The good news is that the rubbing has really slowed down and is almost gone even though I am beginning to use my arms a little more.
I wish you lots of luck on your surgery. :)
Virginia (Ginger) French Colette,
Sorry I am so late responding to you, because your post was just what I needed to toss out s ... Read more
Virginia (Ginger) French Colette,
Sorry I am so late responding to you, because your post was just what I needed to toss out some false information and remind me of what to do post-op to prevent problems with the sternum in addition to what the surgery has done.
I am very grateful, particularly because the person who gave me the information who is a close friend who is usually right on target. So I was a bit stunned since I had not seen reports of problems, but believed her.
We have been praying for you some time and it does not seem like it could be seven weeks post-op! Drop a note and let us know how you are doing.
Sending gentle hugs and healing prayers along with my gratitude,
Ginger
On July 12, 2014...
Mia posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Hello Ginger,
I love your idea about the masks, gloves, and hand washing with the kids. I may just give this a try. Thank you for thinking of protecting me from germs. Those little munchkins are like rats they carry so many germs.
We always sing songs when washing our hands, the birthday song is one of my favorites, alphabet song and twinkle twinkle little star. It seems like we are washing hands all the time.
Well my heart sister we are on day 12 of our countup.
I have been trying to relax and not dwell to much on the surgery. Of course you know its hard not too. I had a long talk on the phone with my son today. He lives about five hours away. He made me feel much better. Brad, my son is a physical therapist and he was so understanding and concerned.
Hope you are having a great Saturday.
You will laugh I gave my almost grandson,eskimo kisses and he laughed and laughed.
So I am sending a big bunch of butterfly kisses to you in the land of oz.
May you have a great night sleep and pleasant dreams my friend.
Virginia (Ginger) French Dear Mia,
I had been talking with Terrie that as we got close to surgery time, it's probably a good i ... Read more
Virginia (Ginger) French Dear Mia,
I had been talking with Terrie that as we got close to surgery time, it's probably a good idea to avoid malls and movies and some of the places where there may be a lot of people - exposing a person to unnecessary risks that might throw surgery dates off.
Then I got to thinking about you and the mass of germs I know abound in preschools. But making a lesson and game out of it might help keep your surgery Count Up from becoming Count Stall!
I've had a very unusual but good day. Will post some of it.
Love those butterflies and sending you some back your way!
Hugs and prayers!
On July 12, 2014...
Eleanor posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Thank you Ginger, your kind words and prayers. the culture came back negative, but they want me to continue the Cirpo, since it was only 6 pills. They had me stop the heart rhythm pill (Amiodorone) while taking the Cipro, so today I finish the one and restart the other. They also prescribe a nasal ointment (Bacrtrine or something like that), to use after the respective showers with the special soap the night before and morning of). One has to take notes, especially when stopping one thing, starting another, cutting the statin in half while on the Amio. Wow, how do people keep up with this. So, surgery is still a go, with a later start time, check in a 9 instead of 5, better for my family for sure.
Like Tony, I had the plug, two hours flat but no other precaution or anything, plug supposedly self dissolves. That night, I removed the band aid in the shower, and honestly I could hardly see the incision, and not at all by the next morning, even though I followed the instructions of going up and down stairs more carefully. I just remember it was quick and painless. Hoping all the best for you, too.
Virginia (Ginger) French Dear Eleanor,
So glad the culture came back negative and you can move on as your mental preparations ... Read more
Virginia (Ginger) French Dear Eleanor,
So glad the culture came back negative and you can move on as your mental preparations don't need a detour at this point!
That plug fascinates me. I will look into learning more about it. It sounds like it is great for the patient!
Relax as much as possible and don't expend your energy. You will need it later for healingQ
Lots of prayers headed your ways in these days to come!
On July 11, 2014...
Meredith Bray posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
I've had 2 experiences with heart caths in the past 18 months. The first one was horrible - nobody ever told me I had to flush the dye out of my system so I "held it" for 8 hours because I've never used a bedpan before. When they told me I could get up and go home, I was ok until I came out of the bathroom, then BOOM nearly hit the floor, and my BP went to 50/30. My husband said they brought the crash cart in! I didn't go all the way out, but it scared the crap out of me.
My second one was much better - I told the nurses upfront what happened the first time, and that I (1) had never used a bedpan and (2) am very shy about bathroom activities in front of other people. They took that into account, and gave me very thorough instructions, as well as plenty of privacy. It was a much better experience.
The first one I was awake for. The second one I think I was out - I don't remember. I know I woke up when they put the dye in, because I started talking and was promptly "SHUSHED!"
The moral of the story is, make sure you get a lot of fluids in your body, and make sure you get rid of the fluids in your body!
The first one I had a lot of soreness and bruising. The second one was a smaller but darker bruise. Both were in the groin area.
I took my tablet, but mostly I just fell asleep with the TV on.
Virginia (Ginger) French Dear Meredith,
Wow - horror story for the first time but great that for the second you were assertive ... Read more
Virginia (Ginger) French Dear Meredith,
Wow - horror story for the first time but great that for the second you were assertive in making your needs known and had a much better experience.
This is good for many of us to hear. It really is important to make one's needs known and to ask questions if one if not sure what is going one.
I really appreciate your sharing the information! It is really appreciated!
On July 11, 2014...
jeffo posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Yes, I was expecting them to keep me for a few hours buy I got lucky. Bandage was large band aid size.
Virginia (Ginger) French Jeffo you are a wealth of information. I appreciate your response, because I want to be as prepared ... Read more
Virginia (Ginger) French Jeffo you are a wealth of information. I appreciate your response, because I want to be as prepared as possible by taking what I need and not worrying about it later.
So appreciate your willingness to share your experiences!
On July 11, 2014...
jeffo posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Ginger,
My cath took about 40 minutes during which time a conversed with the doctors, except when they indicated they needed to concentrate on their work and watched what they were doing. After my cath they only kept me a little over an hour. It was a painless and interesting procedure.
Virginia (Ginger) French I'm Impressed. Your body may have done a great job of stopping the bleeding! My instructions say to ... Read more
Virginia (Ginger) French I'm Impressed. Your body may have done a great job of stopping the bleeding! My instructions say to shower the nest day, take off the dressing and apply a small bandage. Since I will not be in my own town and would like to bring whatever I need, Can you estimate how large a "small bandage" is? Are we talking large Band-aid, extra large Band-aid, or tape and a couple of gauze pads. I realize everyone is different, but would like to have an idea.
And thanks for the post, because being released that soon is new to me, but promising.
On July 11, 2014...
Tony Parker posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Ginger
That is true about laying still. Can't even lift your head but it all depends on what they use to close up the site.
4 hours traditional and 2 hours if they use a vascular closure device which is what they used on me. I have to carry a card in my walet for 90 days stating where and when the Angio Seal was inserted.
Enjoy that experience. I did bring my noise cancellation headset and listened to some meditation and then relaxing music.
Virginia (Ginger) French Tony,
Thanks a bunch. I was thinking earbuds, but noise cancellation headphones are a tremendous ide ... Read more
Virginia (Ginger) French Tony,
Thanks a bunch. I was thinking earbuds, but noise cancellation headphones are a tremendous idea!
And I had never heard of an Angio Seal - but it sounds super! Thanks for educating many of us!
On July 11, 2014...
Mia posted a note for Virginia (Ginger) that says:
Good morning my heart sister Ginger,
That is such a great suggestion for all of our heart family.
Sounds like you have been really busy. The book you mentioned I am ordering on amazon. I cannot wait to read it.
I am having trouble with my journal on the heart journal site. (I am going to try to fix it) I will let you know when its working right. That is why you have not seen any general journals from me.
Sending butterfly kisses your way with
big hugs!!!!
Virginia (Ginger) French Mia,
Thinking of you. I worry about you with all those preschoolers. Coming into contact with new bu ... Read more
Virginia (Ginger) French Mia,
Thinking of you. I worry about you with all those preschoolers. Coming into contact with new bugs would be tough to do in a preschool setting, I would think. At least for your last two weeks before surgery, is there something you can do to minimize exposure.
This is the first Idea that popped into my head: Go to a local medical supply place and get a box of surgical masks, and make it a game. Two weeks of pretending we have to be extra clean because there is a hospital play area??? You could mark a n area by hanging some red crosses, or let the kids wear construction paper red crosses held on with a safety pin.
Then everybody gets a mask - you could even put their names on them. And you wear a mask and they wear their masks except for snacks and lunch time. The masks that lie flat and are tied on are usually less expensive than the formed ones most of the time and fit any size of face. Maybe the hospital where you will have your surgery will donate a box for you??
And you could do a session on good hand washing. One of the rules I have heard is that you should wash as long as it takes to sing the "Happy Birthday to You" song - Not fast!. (Surgery washing, of course, is longer.) You could even get yourself a box of disposable gloves that only the teachers wear (because they don't make a preschool size?) and you would have even more protection.
Eleanor, who is scheduled for surgery on Monday, said yesterday she is concerned because a urinary intection detected. Usually the urine is sterile 24 hours after starting the antibiotics, but they still have to be taken until gone to finish off the germs for good.)
You may not want to do this, but I am trying to find a way to help you stay away from contagious germs in the couple of weeks just prior to surgery!'