Jamie, I am so glad to hear you are doing so good, keep up the good work. I think you have done extremely well, for what you went through with. I had faith that everything would be alright, I knew it would take some time and patience, but you can see the light at the end of the tunnel, now. We will continue to keep you in our Prayers. God Bless you all!!
Love and Hugs,
Shirlene and Ray
On February 1, 2012...
Told ya!! Seriously, I am so happy to read how ell you are doing!! Continued prayers and good thoughts sent your way. Janis Kielbasa 5 weeks post op
On February 1, 2012...
So happy to hear about your improvement. Keep up the the spirit. We continue our prayers for you, knowing God will heal you completely. Also glad to hear Brooke was able to come home for the week end. She is such a sweet daughter. I know you are proud of her. Le t me know if you need anything. Love you , Dorothy
On January 31, 2012...
Jamie;
This is FANTASTIC NEWS!!!!! You are fantastic!! I'm so glad to hear how well you're doing. You have always, and always will be strong and determined. I knew you'd do great but it was wonderful to hear it from your own lips....I mean, keyboard, :-) Can't wait to see you at the next reunion!
Love you, and keep going!
Rick Parks
On January 31, 2012...
Janet. You can come visit any time. Love it thanks for for hugs. I feel them.
Getting close. Aggggg
Lov. Nancy.
On January 31, 2012...
Hi Jamie,
I thought when I come visit we can plan to take a walk so we can catch up while you exercice your new and improved heart! So now we just need to make sure I come on a beautiful sunny day! Looks like rain most of this week so lets hope the sun returns soon:)
I'll be watching the weather:)
I'll be in touch, so glad to hear your feeling so good!
Hugs,
Janet
Jamie Todor That would be great....sunshine sounds great...it was so nice last weekend!
On January 28, 2012...
Hi Jamie. Your post are always so great. Thx for that
And about patience - they tell me I have a lot of it. Ive never used any. Ha ha
However I do aim to be the best ever patient. I have a lot going on in my life & wanna be ready for it
You are a great inspiration ! Thank you again. Nancy Friedman. Mitch's pretend cousin.
Avr 2-9.
Jamie Todor You and your pretend cousin Mitch will be awesome patients.....take it a day at a time and soon you w ... Read more
Jamie Todor You and your pretend cousin Mitch will be awesome patients.....take it a day at a time and soon you will be walking the block.....first doing the on walk and then graduate to a jogging suit! Lots of hugs...
Thanks for the information, Jamie. It was my Family Doctor that thought I should be on Pradaxa or Coumadin. I guess you would call her my Family Doctor. My regular Family Doctor decided to do more Hospital work and he is just in his office one day every other week and he has this new Doctor in his office. I had to see her Monday. I was really disappointed when he did this, I'm not sure I like the new one. I called my Cardiologist today and they think the 325 MG. Aspirin is sufficient, they calculate it some way. I think I will take the Cardiologist's advice, they had already sent the Family Doctor a note telling them that.
Glad you are still doing good, I hope you can eventually just take the Aspirin. I have heard a lot of good about the Maze procedure.
Take care and keep getting better.
Love and Hugs,
Shirlene and Ray
Jamie Todor Glad to hear about the aspirin....I don't think prodaxa is a good choice for folks over 65. That is ... Read more
Jamie Todor Glad to hear about the aspirin....I don't think prodaxa is a good choice for folks over 65. That is the plan e eventually for me...a full aspirin...after MAZE healing. I sure hope it works....don't like the blood thinners if I don't have to. Thanks for update....that is good news on the aspirin. Yay....hugs. Jamie
On January 25, 2012...
Hey Jamie,
So happy to hear your recovery is going so well.
I would love to come see you... sounds as though your up for company. Let me know when might be a good time for you.
Keeping you in my prayers.
Hugs,
Janet C
Jamie Todor Most anytime except next Tuesday would work....just shoot me a couple of dates that work for you and ... Read more
Jamie Todor Most anytime except next Tuesday would work....just shoot me a couple of dates that work for you and we'll get a plan. Would love to see you Ms. Janet!!!
On January 25, 2012...
Jamie - I don't think I knew Dr. Byrd but I didn't spend much time on campus as I was working as well as going to school. My Dad and brother both retired from Dupont.
I do spend spend a lot of time with my grandkids - basically what led me to retirement - missed a lot of my 2 girls growing up working like I did so I want to spend more time with my girls and my grandkids now rather than wishing I had later. Having this heart surgery now, though I knew for years it was inevitable, was one of my main worries. I always said I didn't want to be one of those people other people said about "He just retired and then......" Hopefully, I will have many more years to spend with my family. I hope you and everybody on these sites have many wonderful years of happiness with your families as well. Thank God for these advances in medical technologies that can help us all through these opportunities with such remarkable successes!
How bout them 'eers!
Dick Miller
Jamie Todor I hear grandkids are the best!! I Just have one son married so far and they aren't planning to begin ... Read more
Jamie Todor I hear grandkids are the best!! I Just have one son married so far and they aren't planning to begin a family for a bit. Good for you retiring when you are able to enjoy your kids and grandkids. These heart jobs are going to give us all a new lease on life. I was the same way...not if my valve had to be fixed....but when. So happy to be on the other side of that....much better being on the healing side...don't you think??!! Yes indeed, Praise God for the modern technology that all keeps us tickin'...as Adam says. LOL. Those 'eers are Great!! They had a good year....although I missed the game for the surgery. But lots of my friends kept posting the scores!!! LOL....Have a wonderful day and so nice to visit with you this morning. Keep walking and strong. Jamie Todor
On January 25, 2012...
Sounds like a great day Jamie. You sound great too. Keep up all the good recovery work. All the best. - Mitch Friedman
Jamie Todor I feel good....it all depends on the amount of activity....on my "doc" day it was a bit too much so i ... Read more
Jamie Todor I feel good....it all depends on the amount of activity....on my "doc" day it was a bit too much so it was a little rough yesterday but feel oh so much better today. I just get tuckered out easier so have to keep that in mind. When you have always been a "ball of fire" one needs to learn moderation!! I read on one of these HVJ...that the key is patience, patience and more patience. That is my quest during this recovery time....to be more grace-filled with patience!! Have a great day.....You are getting closer my friend!! Jamie Todor
On January 25, 2012...
Hi Jamie, glad to get the update and so glad to know you are doing so good. I can imagine how tired you were after all that, it was a long day, but you got it all over with at one time. Will you still have to take the coumadin? I thought after you had the maze procedure done, you wouldn't have to take it. I was to my Dr. Monday and they are talking about putting me back on coumadin or pradaxa. I have just been on 325 mg. aspirin for awhile. I was on coumadin and I was bruising so bad they took me off of it. With the pradaxa, you don't have to get the blood work done and they say it will prevent strokes 35 times more than coumidin. A person don't know what to do, they told me I could think about it.
Take care and God Bless.
Hugs,
Shirlene and Ray
Jamie Todor I will be on the coumadin for awhile til my atria heals from the Maze. They say it takes up to 6 mon ... Read more
Jamie Todor I will be on the coumadin for awhile til my atria heals from the Maze. They say it takes up to 6 months to see if the Maze works. I have been on Prodaxa for about a year and now coumadin. Didn't have any issues with the Prodaxa....only problem is that it is not reverseable. Meaning it has to run its course...maybe 3 days....to thicken up. Where the Coumadin they can give you a Vitamin K shot if necessary and it is basically gone.
I bruised on the Prodaxa and same with coumadin....Heck I bruise with NOTHING. LOL. We decided to change to the coumidin since my atria had been scarred so much with the MAZE. At first my cardiologist said he didn't care which med I was on and then he said that HE would feel better with me on the coumadin for a few weeks then we could switch back to the Prodaxa. Guess he wanted some protection in case a surgical situation presented itself...so we are on the big C. I seem to be doing OK so we will just see how it goes. This is supposed to be short term and then we will see if the MAZE worked. If not, I will be on blood thinner and that is OK since I was on it before so we had nothing to lose by going for the MAZE. It is a hard decision for sure....my doc is hoping that I can do the plain old aspirin too but time will tell. I was on Prodaxa for a year without problem. BUT I understand, it CAN be a problem for people over 65....so look into it closely. With that concern....read the drug protocol on the internet....I don't know if I would do it at your age.....it says there are more bleeding risks for older people. Check it out. That is what I learned!~! Thanks for checking in....have a good weekend. Brooke is coming home for the weekend and I am sooooo happy:):). Hugs. Jamie
On January 25, 2012...
Jamie - so glad to hear about your doctor's appointments going so well and that you are coming along. What a wonderful day, to get all good news about your recovery. It must be awesome to feel yourself getting stronger everyday. Prayers still with you.......love, kathie
Jamie Todor It is really good to feel and see the progress....last Friday seemed to be a turning point....less me ... Read more
Jamie Todor It is really good to feel and see the progress....last Friday seemed to be a turning point....less meds....less pain...better sleep....just better all the way around. Still not allot of stamina but it is coming and better day by day. Praise god. I can't wait to tell you something that happened right before I went to surgery....I want to tell you when I get to see you. Think about you allot and would love to see how You are doing....and the kids. Let me know when you might be free and we will figure something out!
On January 25, 2012...
Hi Jamie --
I'm new to HVJ but have found great inspiration from reading your journal. You have a rich spirit, a vital faith, and a wonderfully positive attitude.
I, too, have severe mitral regurgitation and face OHS for anterior leaflet repair or, if necessary, replacement in the very near future, new surgery date yet to be determined. Many other factors in my complex medical history have made the last couple months very trying physically and emotionally, with many perverse complications and delays. If I hadn't intensely felt God's presence throughout the ordeal, I don't think I could have made it this far on sheer willpower even if I am a stubborn old coot. But everytime I start to panic, I remember the verse that came to me out of nowhere (not a literal voice from heaven, but a definite calming whisper to my spirit) as I lay in the hospital in great pain and anxiety and addled by morphine: "Be still and know that I am God." I wasn't lucid enough to be lying there saying to myself "OK, what Bible verses can I repeat to myself to reassure me?" The voice just came unbidden.
I'm not normally a still person by inclination -- my mind is always racing, always have a million thoughts and projects going on, and now this constant health anxiety on top of it -- nor am I one who easily surrenders the crazy delusion that I am in control of things, even though my whole life has been a reminder that I'm not. That voice in the hospital reminds me to calm myself and seek God's perfect peace which passes understanding, and to remember that I am in the palm of Master of the Universe, not just sputtering along the highway under my own erratic and very finite 'control.'
All my best wishes for your continued recovery. May the Lord keep you in perfect peace!
Judy Sylte (near Seattle)
Jamie Todor Hi Judy....so nice to hear from you and I am glad that my journal was inspiring. It has been a journ ... Read more
Jamie Todor Hi Judy....so nice to hear from you and I am glad that my journal was inspiring. It has been a journey but one that God has gone before me and prepared the way. Sounds like you have had quite a time with your regurgitation and other issues. Bless your heart. Thank you for sharing your story of how the Lord talked with you and calmed your spirit. I love it when He does things like that....You really do hear HIM loud and clear....even in a whisper. I love it and it is soooo true....Be still my child and KNOW that I am God. Wow...that's breathtaking and soooo powerful. A force to cling to in times of fear and uncertainity....that HE is indeed in charge. Bless you for sharing your story. Through the years of BIble Study I have had the opportunity to write down meaningful verses on index cards and there are quite a few that speak to my heart. SO when I do get to a place of jumbled thinking...I pull out that stack of cards in my bedside table and they are like taking a relaxing medication. I just read them and the anxiety melts. He is in control and when we finally realize that it is huge! Believe me, I struggle with the reigns all of the time but know who really IS in charge. LOL. I pray for your continued peace from the Lord....I pray that the surgeons and doctors are under the care of the Mighty Physician in all of their decisions. Please keep us all posted as to when you are scheduled for surgery. I am soooo happy that you posted....please post or I will share my number with you if you would like...so we can talk anytime,. God bless you new HVJ friend. May the Lord bless you and keep you. Hugs. Jamie Todor
On January 25, 2012...
Hi Jamie. That's great news all around. Isn't it cool to see the ring in there? That little puppy is your badge of courage! -- DVB
Jamie Todor I like that idea.....I always wanted a badge....love it. Thanks for the boost! Can't wait to show D ... Read more
Jamie Todor I like that idea.....I always wanted a badge....love it. Thanks for the boost! Can't wait to show Drats to the kids and tell them that....my youngest is 20!
On January 25, 2012...
Jamie,
With God being our Great Physician and giving the Doctors the knowledge is Awesome!!! So happy to hear everything is moving along nicely. So many of our friends, classmates, long time friends etc are experiencing health issues recently. It wonderful to have faith in God to hold on to us and walk with us every step of the way. You are in my prayers always... and I am so exvited of your progress.... God Bless & Love Susan
Jamie Todor Amen Susan...thanks for praying and for encouraging me. Friends are the greatest gift God gives us. ... Read more
Jamie Todor Amen Susan...thanks for praying and for encouraging me. Friends are the greatest gift God gives us. Hope all is going well for you sweet girl....
On January 25, 2012...
Okay....so Jamie and Dick are WV Mountaineers, hmmmmm....Linda is a Clemson Tiger....so ouch!!! That hurt!!! I'm blaming that game for part of my hurt heart! Seriously, isn't it a small world? I've met people who live in SC here on this site. Just amazing to me how many of us there are, I never would have guessed so many otherwise healthy people had bad valves.
Jamie, it is no problem for me at all to get my blood checked, I actually work in a hospital lab. I am officially retired, but I still work PRN, so that will not be a problem. And actually I was on coumadin for a number of years for a small PFO that I also have. I don't know if they will address that issue or not, it has sort of been shoved aside since the stenosis became critical. I mostly did fine, only thing that ever was remotely problematic was if I had to come off for a period of time, like when I had a colonoscopy, then it took a little while to get the INR back up, but all in all, not a problem. They just let me come off last year and go to a full strength aspirin each day.
I am personally leaning toward a mechanical valve, don't want to have to go through this again, but I believe my surgeon, Dr. Gillinov favors the tissue valve. The bad part of going up to Cleveland Clinic from SC is that I don't actually meet with him until the day before surgery and so I can't really decide until then. I am also thinking that it would just be my luck, if I go with tissue, that I will develope Afib and have to be on the coumadin anyway. Oh well, I'm trying not to dwell on it, just wish that was something I could go ahead and check off of my "to do list".
Hope you continue to do well and thanks for your helpful tips and encouragement.
Still waiting...Linda the tiger....Linda Dixon
Jamie Todor That is kind of what we decided for me...I am 54 years old and a tissue valve would last for 10 years ... Read more
Jamie Todor That is kind of what we decided for me...I am 54 years old and a tissue valve would last for 10 years....since I am young the surgeon didn't tell me what to do but he said at my age....I should consider the mechanical because as you have re-dos you are older and there are more opportunites for other health issues to surface...to nail this down once and for all. So we decided to go mechanical if my valve could not be fixed. I was already on Prodaxa and heavy duty heart meds so what was there to lose was basically our thought process. It will be interesting to see what Cleveland says....you should talk about these issues with dr. G and maybe he will shed some more light on this for you. Hard decision to make but you are going to a great surgeon. I will pray that you can make your decision. This medical stuff is hard....you are wise not to dwell on it...but is it soooo hard. This stuff is all consuming because these are major, major decisions. Bless you sweet Linda...the tiger!!~ I pray you will discern God's will and the surgeon's will for your surgery. Blessings and hugs. Jamie
On January 24, 2012...
Jamie - I grew up in Charleston (DuPont) area, worked my way through WV State. Moved to Cincinnati - transferred - 20 years ago. Retired from Kroger Co. 6 months ago. Still bleed blue and gold - can't take the country out of the boy! Hopefully now that this valve repair is out of the way, I can enjoy retirement with kids and grandkids!
I'll be keeping tabs on your recovery and keeping you in my prayers!
Dick
Jamie Todor Let's gooooo Mountaineers!! My dad had a small mom and pop grocery specializing in Meat and Vegetabl ... Read more
Jamie Todor Let's gooooo Mountaineers!! My dad had a small mom and pop grocery specializing in Meat and Vegetables in Moundsville. Great memories. I have some friends who worked out of Charleston for Dupont years ago. We always go through Cincinnati on our way home. My husband is an Ohio boy from Sandusky....we met on a blind date when I worked at Cedar Point when I was in college. Moundsville is also on the Ohio River. Small world....We West Virginians are special aren't we!!!?? I pray you have many rough and tumble years with those grandkids...we haven't started that yet....one soon married and two other kids finishing up college this year and next. Have a blessed day my new blue and gold friend!! LOL...
Jamie Todor PS,, Did you know a Dr, Charles Byrd at WV State,,,He was one of my mom;s friends from work in the le ... Read more
Jamie Todor PS,, Did you know a Dr, Charles Byrd at WV State,,,He was one of my mom;s friends from work in the legislature...a great guy. They were on the black diamond GS council together for the state. DId you ever get over to Logan? To McCormick's department store. He was a legislator too....his daughter is my big sister from sorority and lives right here in Houston. Small world....
On January 24, 2012...
Hey mamma!
I just want to say I Love You! :)
Jamie Todor I love you too Brookie.....I. miss your smiling face...glad you had a good day. Can't wait to see you ... Read more
Jamie Todor I love you too Brookie.....I. miss your smiling face...glad you had a good day. Can't wait to see you.... Love, mom
On January 24, 2012...
Jamie - hang in there and keep plugging along - it will only get better from here. You are in my prayers as I have some ideas of what you are going through post surgery. I also saw in your journal where you are from WV - as I am - so we definitely have some kindred spirits looking out for each other too!! I know you have that fighting spirit in you and with the Lord on your side, this will be behind you in no time!
Dick Miller
Jamie Todor That is ever so cool that you are from WV...love it. I grew up in Moundsville, WV....northern pan ha ... Read more
Jamie Todor That is ever so cool that you are from WV...love it. I grew up in Moundsville, WV....northern pan handle. I am a WVU grad too....where in WV are you from? Yep, sure is great being on the healing side for sure....every day gets a little better....yay....hope you are feeling better too.....
On January 24, 2012...
Hi Jamie, thanks for the info on the recliner. I figure I will try mine and if it is not enough then I can see about renting another. They do have handles and go back very easily. And they will lay completely back. I have actually slept in them quite a bit before my husband passed away. I know that my valve will be replaced. I just don't know with what. I got the impression from his nurse that Dr. Gillinov leaned toward the tissue valve even though they don't last a lifetime and I may live long enought that the new one will need replacing eventually. He believes they will have the transcatheter method pefected by that time. I also don't know if he will repair the dilated aorta, that apparently is also "on the fence" measuring 4.0 cm. So I have a lot of questions for him when I go to Cleveland. Sometimes I feel like I will take the coumadin and not have to worry about a second surgery, other times I think I would rather have the tissue valve and not have the worry of the coumadin or stroke. And I have mixed feelings about the dilated aorta, I don't like the idea of them "going in" and not fixing that, when in a short while it may be enlarged to the point that it is dangerous. So....all I can do is pray about it and trust that God is sending me to Cleveland because He wants me to do whatever Dr. Gillinov recommends. (or not, lol). What do you do?????
When you pray, please pray for clarity for me and peace of mind that whatever decision we make will be God's will.
Still waiting...Linda
Jamie Todor Sounds like your recliner will work just great. sounds like it is just what you need and you WILL us ... Read more
Jamie Todor Sounds like your recliner will work just great. sounds like it is just what you need and you WILL use it. It is about the best seat that I have in the house! I had to make a decision on that tissue valve vs mechanical too....at 54 years old I thought I was tooo young to do a 10 year fix so we had decided on the mechanical since I was already on the blood thinners already. Praise God my valve was repaired so that wasn't an issue. I was already taking a pretty heavy duty pacing drug already to pace my heart plus a blood thinner so we were weren't out allot. doc ended up feeling better with the comoudon because of the maze procedure. Seriously consider all of the responses....and go with the one that most works for you...If if is easy to have blood tested eveery 3 weeks. Another plus is that Comoudin can be reversed if an emergency pops up. Hard decisions to make when you have so many other things to think about,,,,I willl pray for discerment in your decision. Hang in there....hard decisions to make...I will be praying....Jamie
On January 24, 2012...
Yes Jamie, I have thought about renting the lift chair. I actually have two regular recliners that are fairly comfortable, do you think the lift will be better? I wonder if I can go try one somewhere just to see how different they are. Thanks for reminding me. I have so many things I feel like I need to do before I go, not to be morbid or anything, I know God has me in his hands, but I also know that if that happens to be His time to take me home, well...He will take me home.
Glad you got a good nap and are having a great recovery.
Still waiting..Linda
Jamie Todor Yes, I do think they will work if you can easily operate them. The kind that you have to push back w ... Read more
Jamie Todor Yes, I do think they will work if you can easily operate them. The kind that you have to push back with your tummy will hurt too much...if they have a handle it would probably be better or automatic. Also see how far they lay down so you can sleep if you need to. Bob went to the store and tried them out...I am sure you can. We didn't have anything that we could use like that and that is why we rented one.
I said the same thing about God's timing...my husband didn't like me saying that but it was the truth. You just face your motality with heart surgery and most of the time all goes perfect. I tried to remember that but had to work on that a bit. You will do great...and feel sooooo much better. Do they know yet whether it will be a repair or replacement?? Don't forget, my minister had a replacement at 78 and got thru it fine....he told them that it would last for 20 years and he would see them when he was 95 and he is doing GREAT! Keep the faith....Love, Jamie
On January 23, 2012...
What a pleasure to "know" you Jamie. Continue to recover, listen to your body and keep us posted on how your "walk down the mountain" goes. The climb up is a pain (literally) but once you crossed over the top, there was no stopping you on the way down!!
God bless!
Still waiting...Linda Dixon
Jamie Todor Yes for sure your body lets you know.....today I was tired and crawled up in my chair... took a nap f ... Read more
Jamie Todor Yes for sure your body lets you know.....today I was tired and crawled up in my chair... took a nap for the first timir....ahhhh....good. Have you thought about renting a "lift" chair like Adam's book says? I did and the chair has been a lifesaver. Good place to sleep and be oh so comfy. I am in it most of the time and then get in bed at night for 6-7 hours. I can't tell you how invaluable it has been. You should investigate one....it has been awesome.
On January 22, 2012...
Well it's been a week and you are doing so well. Yahoo! I We hope today is another great day, especially since you are having your Father or is it Minister come over today. We are doing fine, yesterday we went over to Clovis for Patrick's Basketball game. Oh, what a great time Glen and I had. They are all Kindergarten age, Oh, my they where like little fish chasing food. What a Hoot! Then we went to a Horse Show for Ivalinn with 4-H, we really had a Great time since it wasn't with real horses. Bryer Horses where used as the models. Everyone had a great time and Ivalinn even won some ribbons . I hope you enjoyed this little news flash.. will be calling after Dr. appointment have a great afternoon, rest, and you and Bob are always in our prayers.. Adams Family
Jamie Todor Looking forward to ur call after doc. Appt. Sounds like u had a full fun day with g-kids. They will ... Read more
Jamie Todor Looking forward to ur call after doc. Appt. Sounds like u had a full fun day with g-kids. They will keep u and Glen young! Feeling good is definitely a big yahoo! I am resting and minding the heart valve surgery rules...lol....it is working! Talk to you soon dear friend.
Jamie Todor AND....aren't you doing so well with your computer posts. You are the bomb girl...I guess this was w ... Read more
Jamie Todor AND....aren't you doing so well with your computer posts. You are the bomb girl...I guess this was what you were to get out of this whole adventure....confidence in your still level.LOL....I am proud of you for getting after it....YAY....now texting comes next!! LOL and Hugs
On January 22, 2012...
Your progress is inspiring to those of us still waiting for surgery. Keep up the good work and thanks for keeping us posted. May it continue to be smooth sailing. All the best. -Mitch Friedman
Jamie Todor Thanks Mitch....I have had UPS and downs with this....fortunately my two setbacks were when I was in ... Read more
Jamie Todor Thanks Mitch....I have had UPS and downs with this....fortunately my two setbacks were when I was in the hospital. It is tough but you are more tough. May God's peace fill you and calm your heart and those that you love. I am happy to be at this juncture. Soon you will be at the same place and it is a great place to be.....it is behind me and let the healing begin!
On January 22, 2012...
Jamie, I know the song well! I am on the Worship team at church and we sing it all the time! I have to go to work now and will be singing it in my "head" and heart all day! Hope you have a great one!
Still waiting...Linda
Jamie Todor I will be singing that song today too....it is soooo uplifting. Our minister is bringing me communio ... Read more
Jamie Todor I will be singing that song today too....it is soooo uplifting. Our minister is bringing me communion after church and I am soooo excited to see him. Wish I could go myself this morning but I get way to tuckered out for such a big outing. Have to keep my strength for the Tuesday doctor day! Blessings on your day Linda! Jamie
On January 21, 2012...
Hi Jamie,
Praise God for the success of your surgery and recovery. I just want to say that your story and your experience has really helped me to prepare for my upcoming surgery on Feb 2nd. I am so glad to hear you are doing well. :-)
Carmen Pettiford
Jamie Todor If I can be of any further assistance....let me know and you can call me and we can talk...it is a sc ... Read more
Jamie Todor If I can be of any further assistance....let me know and you can call me and we can talk...it is a scary time as so much is unknown. Glad my journal has helped you...blessings. Jamie
On January 21, 2012...
Good for you Jamie! So happy to hear you are feeling so well. God is good, all the time! You are a trooper, keep it up and keep us posted.
Still waiting...Linda Dixon
Jamie Todor Yes, it feels great. Just got back from another PJ walk around the neighborhood and it felt good too ... Read more
Jamie Todor Yes, it feels great. Just got back from another PJ walk around the neighborhood and it felt good too. Makes me want to sing that great song about "God is good, all of the time..." What a happy song! Thanks for your note....praying for a good surgery and peace for you and yours. hugs..Jamie
On January 21, 2012...
hi Jamie I"m Nancy ; a few weeks after you go in 2-9 but love your posts.. you're right. G.d is good and we are so blessed. My biggest fear is the ups and downs & possbile depression I will fight that one tooth and nail and hope I win it.
working up til "the day" so keepiong busy
looking forward to your posts. with thanks..and best wishes, Nancy Friedman, ST Louis
Jamie Todor Won't be long...the days are clipping along for you. I think I am doing OK depression wise so far be ... Read more
Jamie Todor Won't be long...the days are clipping along for you. I think I am doing OK depression wise so far because when I first got A Fib...I was a wreck emotionally. So upset about the whole thing and my anxiety level was over the top. I went to my internist and ask for a mild antidepressant to keep my emotions more stable and I am still on it a year later. I really believe that to be a God send....I have a tendency to struggle in the winter months without much sunshine....I am hoping that small dose of Lexapro that I am on will keep me stable and less anxious. Don't know if that is an option for you....or something you would consider...but I was such an anxiety mess that I needed a little extra. Just thought I would share that....it takes 14-21 days for meds to get to a theraputic level but so far so good for me. Blessings...Jamie
On January 21, 2012...
Hi Jamie, sure glad to hear you are feeling better and getting life back to normal. That is wonderful you found someone to come in and help you out. Good help is hard to find, but sounds like you got a good one. Ray's birth mom's name was Lela, but she died when Ray was just two years old, and then later his Dad married Lela's sister, so he had a good step-mom, too. Glad your husband is back to work and getting life back to normal for him, too. That is too bad your father-in-law has so many problems, sounds like he is getting good care, though.
Hope your Dr. appointments turn out real good, Tuesday.
Take care and God Bless,
Love,
Shirlene and Ray
Jamie Todor Feel good today but drats....not as good as yesterday. I can tell this is going be up and down as yo ... Read more
Jamie Todor Feel good today but drats....not as good as yesterday. I can tell this is going be up and down as you said!! This gal is a certified medical helper and she is just terrific. I don't have to worry about Nick and that is a huge relief to know that he is being cared for. My girlfriend's mom from church has 24 hour care and there are a team of 4 gals who help them and that is how I got our angel Lela to help us!! Yay, God!! I have already been back to Docs twice due to unplanned issues so I am not anticipating problems. Hoping the get the chest x-ray and blood work done and a "looks good" from the Surgeon. Will do a blood test from Cardiologist to check blood thinner. Thanks for the prayers....beautiful weather in Houston today...70! Hugs...Jamie
On January 19, 2012...
Jamie, that's usually the way it is with health issues, 2 steps forward and 1 step back. But that's better than 1 step forward and 2 back. You're doing great and you're strong so it's a matter of time and you'll be back to you "old" self :-)
Prayers and positive thoughts are continuing from this part of the Mountain State.
Rick Parks
Jamie Todor You are sooooo right....I am way ahead of where I was even with the backsteps!! Thanks for cheering ... Read more
Jamie Todor You are sooooo right....I am way ahead of where I was even with the backsteps!! Thanks for cheering me on Rick....I DO feel great today...Yay God. Lots of good rest last night....Hope to have another restful, walking and chilled out day today:):). Safe travels this weekend....Hugs. Jamie
On January 19, 2012...
Well Jamie, it MAY be the Vicodin brain, but in a way you are being tested, lol. Just keep trodding along and sure enough soon you will be singing "I Feel Good". By the way, I met James Brown once, he was in prison on the same campus that I worked. He wasn't singing I feel good then. (That was mean wasn't it).
Still waiting....Linda Dixon
Jamie Todor Yep...keep on truckin....everyday is still better than the beginning:):) Everything seems to be heal ... Read more
Jamie Todor Yep...keep on truckin....everyday is still better than the beginning:):) Everything seems to be healing well....angry central site looking better after antibiotics....still some pain in left lower lung but I am going to town on my spirometer. You should get them to give you one and get the routine down before surgery....it would probably strengthen the lungs too! Me and my little spirometer....I threatened today to keep it and put a ribbon on it for my Christmas Tree next year!! YOU will get very attached to that little...but huge....piece of equipment. LOL at James not singing the" I feel Good song!! " How are YOU doing holding off for this long?? It would be hard. I found out about November 21 and that was long enough. You are wise to be reading all of these journals so you know what all goes on. Adam's book was a lifesaver to me....still use it daily! Once I get stronger, we should talk on the phone...maybe I can answer any questions you have about my experience with all of this. Writing is sometimes hard! Blessings on your day...Jamie
On January 19, 2012...
Sorry about the little set backs, Jamie, but hope you are feeling better today. It does take time, and you have come a long way. We'll keep Praying for your healing. Keep your faith, God is good, all the time.
Love and Prayers
Shirlene and Ray
Jamie Todor Things are a bit better today....had some left lung pain last night and that was scary but I used my ... Read more
Jamie Todor Things are a bit better today....had some left lung pain last night and that was scary but I used my trusty spriometer all day long...10 times an hour...so I don't feel the pain that much...just tight. Had a few friends visit today and that was soooo nice....it felt normal!! Kids are back at school...Bob is working and I have the most wonderful nurses aid helping around here. Bob's 85 year old diabetic and blind dad lives with us so we had to get some help in. She is doing great with Nick and me. What a gift from God she has been...Bob is back at work...Kids back at college and things very normal around the house. We are blessed. Thanks soooo much for your kind, kind attention to me and all of the prayers. The family of God is an awesome presence and support....we are all one body. PTL. Blessings on your day and thanks sooooo much for your kind note!! Jamie
On January 19, 2012...
Spirometer is oh so important. Pneumonia can set in faster than you can blink - it happened to Dave (but then, what didn't happen to Dave - haha)! Can't wait to see you tomorrow!
Love,
Kathy
Jamie Todor I have been doing the "spirometer" dance all day...10 times an hour. Pain not like it was last night ... Read more
Jamie Todor I have been doing the "spirometer" dance all day...10 times an hour. Pain not like it was last night in left lung...just a bit tight. I was scared when I felt that last night as I know how fast pneumonia can come. You are sooooo right....poor Dave...what a time he had. He is doing the "I feel good" song these days for sure and your bathroom looks AWESOME. See you tomorrow sweet girl....you are so kind to come visit and bring us dinner. Love you. Jamie
On January 19, 2012...
Jamie, one day at a time. Keep trucking along and they should get easier before you know it. Now, I have not had surgery yet so I have no clue what I am talking about. But I have spent way too much time reading other HVJs, so I feel like an old pro. LOL! All the best, - Mitch Friedman
Jamie Todor You are very wise to read all of these journals and know what can happen and how they can take care o ... Read more
Jamie Todor You are very wise to read all of these journals and know what can happen and how they can take care of everything it seems!! This site and Adam's book has really been a wonderful source for preparing me for all of this. As much as one can really be prepared. Bless you for your encouraging note....Jamie Todor
On January 19, 2012...
Hi Jamie, sorry you had such a draining (no pun intended) day yesterday. Yes...I'm glad you went to the doctor to get your "infection" checked out. This summer I spent 3 months with my best friend in the hospital with an infection that went untreated for several days and ended up becoming what is known as necrotizing fasciitis, ended up having multiple surgeries to debrid and finally skin grafts. So...surely better safe than sorry.
I'm not one to give advice, cause I haven't climbed my mountain yet, but I am trying to remind myself daily that we are the lucky ones. We are able to get fixed, some people are not so fortunate.
So, hang in there my friend, if you feel something isn't right, listen to your body and go to the body mechanic! You know it better than anyone else.
You have climbed the mountain, now...slowly, patiently, slide down the other side!!!
Hugs (gentle)
Still waiting....Linda Dixon
Jamie Todor Thanks for the encouragement....it so helps.Really tired today but just taking things easy and trying ... Read more
Jamie Todor Thanks for the encouragement....it so helps.Really tired today but just taking things easy and trying to catch up on rest. I know that will make a huge difference when I am tested....thanks for your kind note....pretty soon I will be singing.....I feel good!
Jamie Todor Should say......not so tired.....where did the word tested come from? Must be the vicodan brain! Lo ... Read more
Jamie Todor Should say......not so tired.....where did the word tested come from? Must be the vicodan brain! Lol.
On January 19, 2012...
Hang in there! Our pastor's wife had a replacement last year and had some really rough times. Her's were pain control and stamina. Once she got those issues resolved she improved quickly. Rome wasn't built in a day! We're praying for ya!
Chuck and MJ
Jamie Todor Thanks for that information....then you know you aren't the Lone Ranger...lol. Thanks for the prayer ... Read more
Jamie Todor Thanks for that information....then you know you aren't the Lone Ranger...lol. Thanks for the prayers...Chuck has probably has never seen me soooooo quiet.Lol. Love you guys..jamie
On January 19, 2012...
Yes there are certainly Ups & Dwons was like that w my mom..... However you are the warrior.......and you are doing all you can to heal.... God will take care of the rest..... Love to You.... Keep up the Great Work..... God Bless <3 Susan
Jamie Todor Thanks for the encouraging words...you are an awesome cheerleader...I think I will keep ya! Lol....
On January 19, 2012...
Your CBS family misses you! Thinking of you today! Let me know when you are up for a phone call. Blessings, Suzan
Jamie Todor I miss them too...it has been follow long! I need my CBS fix! You can call anytime...hugs
Jamie, each day at a time my friend. Keep up the walking. I used to walk my culdesac in my pjs also. So glad everything went well. My best to all the family. Donna
Jamie Todor :):)...walk 2,3,4....trying to be a good patient!
On January 17, 2012...
It is so wonderful to read about your progress and your road to a full recovery. Keep moving forward, but remember not too fast. Take it slow! God is good! Take care - Bobbi
Good to hear from you Jamie, I know you will have some bad days, Ray said it felt like a brick on his chest for a while. We know there will be better days ahead. You should see some improvement every day. Your daughter was great in keeping us updated, I almost feel like I know her. You have a wonderful family. God Bless!! Hugs to you all.
Shirlene and Ray
Jamie Todor I think that "brick" statement is a very accurate one..LOL. Yep, my Brooke is a keeper....I love tha ... Read more
Jamie Todor I think that "brick" statement is a very accurate one..LOL. Yep, my Brooke is a keeper....I love that girl. I am blessed....miss her so much already.
On January 15, 2012...
Hi Jamie,
Praise God for the success of your surgery and that you are now at home. Thanks for sharing your experience. I wish you and your family the best! :-)
Carmen Pettiford
Jamie Todor Praise God indeed....thank you for your kind note....and good wishes. Life is good and God is great! ... Read more
Jamie Todor Praise God indeed....thank you for your kind note....and good wishes. Life is good and God is great!
On January 15, 2012...
Jamie.... you are so awesome...... Doing so wonderful... Power of prayer ...there is nothing better....You were & are the strong one.... you have encouraged me to take better care of myself..... Not that I haven't been trying....:) But we all can do better.... My prayers are continual....and your're always in my thougths... What a journey .....to this point... Just imagine what lies ahead.... Love n Prayers.....Susan
Welcome Home Jamie, So happy to see you are home, posting and on your way to recovery. I am 17 days post op and each day/week gets easier. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers for continued health and recovery. Janis Kielbasa
Jamie Todor Thanks for the encouragement.....today I woke up and thought a Mack truck ran over me. Surgeon told ... Read more
Jamie Todor Thanks for the encouragement.....today I woke up and thought a Mack truck ran over me. Surgeon told me that's how it goes but oh the pain and looped feeling. In to doc on Tuesday for comoudin check...hope I get revived again. Good first day...so so today. I am glad to know you are feeling better....that migraine you had was soooo scary. Praying for you my new heart friend too. Hugs but gentle hugs cause they can hurt. Lol. Jamie Todor
Jamie
I'm so glad you are home and that you are now on your way to recovery....good luck!!
Jamie McGuire
Jamie Todor Thanks Jamie from Houston....yes. praise God for the road to recovery....can't wait til I am where yo ... Read more
Jamie Todor Thanks Jamie from Houston....yes. praise God for the road to recovery....can't wait til I am where you are...lol..always want something else! Lol....blessings on your day. Jamie T
On January 14, 2012...
Jamie, I'm so glad you're home and doing well. You have such a support "group" but you also did a lot of it on your own strength and determination. I'm proud of you and thank God for your continued improvement. Love you, Rick Parks
Jamie Todor :):)...Praying for your mom and dad...sounds like things have been tough. Hugs to you all dear frien ... Read more
Jamie Todor :):)...Praying for your mom and dad...sounds like things have been tough. Hugs to you all dear friend..
On January 14, 2012...
Welcome home Jamie...I'm sooo jealous! You've climbed over the top of your mountain and now you can slowly but surely slide down the other side!
I'm still waiting on March 13th, can't get here quick enough. I am ready to get this over with.
Glad you are healing and keep us updated on your progress which I know is going to be all good.
Linda Dixon
Jamie Todor You are soooo right...tremendous relief being on the healing side....I will pray that God fills you w ... Read more
Jamie Todor You are soooo right...tremendous relief being on the healing side....I will pray that God fills you with His peace during this scary and unknown journey. Keep reading the journals...it helps so much. Thank you Adam for this site. Hugs..Jamie Todor
On January 14, 2012...
Welcome Home Jamie! The best is yet to come, each day one step closer to feeling fantastic!
Let me know when you are up for visitors!
Blessings to You and your family.
Janet C
Jamie Todor Thanks Janet....so great to hear from you during this crazy ride. I really feel good and amazed to b ... Read more
Jamie Todor Thanks Janet....so great to hear from you during this crazy ride. I really feel good and amazed to be already coming up on 3 weeks on Wednesday. I am pleased with the progress....and feel pretty darn good considering the magnitude of the surgery. I am blessed!
Love and Hugs,
Shirlene and Ray