June's Posts

Today marks 6 weeks since my surgery and, while I'm not ready to run a marathon, I am at a point where there is no pain, my fatigue level is much improved (just one short nap in the afternoon, some days no nap!) and I'm beginning to see a slow return to normal activities. Six weeks means the no lifting-no twisting-no reaching-no pushing-no pulling-no driving restrictions have been lifted -- a kind of freedom. A sudden arrhythmia a week ago reminded us that we have a way to go to complete recovery. A change in meds has this under control and the cardiologists have given us the OK to take a trip to our home in Michigan. What a wonderful change of scenery that will be! There's nothing more soothing than watching the waves and hearing the lapping of the water. Can hardly wait! These weeks at home have provided time for reflection on how incredibly blessed I am. I have a loving husband who is a wonderful caregiver. We will celebrate our 45th anniversary next week -- something else to look forward to. Jim and I have been richly blessed with a caring supportive family who are always there ready to give a helping hand. I feel fortunate to have been led to very capable, talented physicians. The skill and care shown by the surgeon was amazing. We always looked forward to having him stop in my room to check on me and to chat. He handed me over to a very competent cardiologist -- I love his low key style and the thoughtful care he gives. We have benefited from the support of many friends -- many old friends and new friends, some of whom we have yet to meet. The prayers, positive thoughts, cards and calls have been comforting and uplifting and sustained us thru the more difficult days. Jim and I send our heartfelt thanks to all of you for taking part in this journal. It has been a comfort to re-read your comments. May God bless each one of you and keep you in his care. June

We had the post operative appointment with Dr. Sullivan's office during this week. Actually, he was tied up on a case and unavailable, but I was seen by his PA who had only positive things to say. My incision is closed and the steri strips removed. Most pleasant of all in the hot summer weather ... no more Ted Hose. Also, and a surprise to me, we were told that absent some kind of unexpected problem there'll be no need for additional office visits with him. Truth is, I was looking forward to seeing him and giving him a big hug ... the man who held my heart in his hands.

I've been home for 6 days now. My first real venture out was to see my cardiologist. (One of the first times in my life I've looked forward to seeing a doctor!). The good news is he's pleased with my progress so far and I won't need to see him again for 3 weeks. A little tweaking of medications and we're all set for now. The past few days have been up and down - the first 2 or 3 days I was very weak and fatigued. The last few days have brought positive changes in amount of sleep needed and in spite of the heat and humidity I've been able to add short walks to each day indoors on a treadmill that no longer serves as a coat rack! Looking forward to cooler weather so we can walk outdoors. What has kept me going has been the love and support of family and friends. Keep me in your thoughts as I continue what I know will be a long healing process. June