On September 20, 2012...
Wow, I'm impressed!
You truly morphed you're surgery into a positive experience.
You should be very proud of yourself!

Nancy B
Mitch Friedman  Thanks Nancy. At times I am way too self critical. Thanks for the reminder to stop and revel in my ... Read more
On September 20, 2012...
You Da Man!! You continue to be my inspiration!! Way to blaze the trail!!

Jimmy Johnson
Mitch Friedman  Thanks Jimmy! Can't believe how time has flown and how well we are all doing. All the best to you!
On September 20, 2012...
Dude, Half-marathon...so psyched for you and proud. Report back your thoughts, when completed; the finish time is irrelevant - just want to hear you cheer (if you post the link to Rocky running up the Philly museum steps,...i will pummel you, though!). - Poly
Mitch Friedman  Cue music...get the kids....now up the steps!
On September 19, 2012...
Hey, I hear you're doing a half marathon in a few weeks.

Monstrous! -- DVB
Mitch Friedman  Yessir! My first half on October 7. My little 10K running group really worked out well. So, we hav ... Read more
On September 19, 2012...
Sorry yes that was me. Forgot to add my name.

Brian Walsh
Easton, PA
Mitch Friedman  No worries. Let me know if I can be helpful to you in anyway. Good luck Brian.
On September 13, 2012...
Just wanted to say thanks. I just read through a good portion of your entries and your most recent one. Being a runner myself I've had to throttle back my running a bit (at the request of my wife mainly) as I prepare for the surgery. Anyway, thank you and glad to see you have now hit your longest distance. I've run a half, was planning for a marathon before this diagnosis, but hope to be able to complete a full sometime after my surgery. Any insight is greatly appreciated!
Mitch Friedman  I am guessing Brian posted this? Either way, thanks for the post. Glad my HVJ helped you a bit. Goo ... Read more
On August 9, 2012...
I loved our post. You are sooo right to share so that everyone knows that even if there are some bumps in the road we can get through them together and recover.

Jennifer
Mitch Friedman  Thanks for your post. Not sure where you are in the process, but I wish you the best.
On August 9, 2012...
Loved your post. I still click on the site and read the updates. I'm amazed how well we have all done and all those that came after us too. It's good to be well. Continued love, health and happiness to you, my friend! Janis Kielbasa
Mitch Friedman  You are so right! It is good to be well. I really am feeling great, better than I thought I would a ... Read more
On August 6, 2012...
Hey Mitch -- Great to hear from you. I *finally* got that pastrami sandwich I was craving. Can't believe it's been 6 months. As I was getting used to the idea of surgery, you, Jeff, and Nancy were coming on down to the wire. You were my trail-blazers! Keep healing.
Selma
Mitch Friedman  Hi Selma! Glad you finally got that sandwich. Even happier you are doing well. All the best to you ... Read more
On August 5, 2012...
Mitch: 6 months! Wow. What a ride, eh? So true about good/bad sharing. Tell it like it is. Let us all lend support when its needed. I can't count the number of times a guestbook response led to good things. But its a lot. -- DVB
Mitch Friedman  You said it brother. What a ride indeed!!!! It was the most amazing journey I never care to repeat! ... Read more
On August 4, 2012...
Hey Mitch, First of all congrats on your anniversarries. Time sure has flown by since your surgery. You have come a long ways.

Thanks for your new post. I guess I kinda needed that as I was going thru some stuff, but most of it is resolved. My husband is older than me, has his own health issues and he is scared rightfully so. I think the waiting is just as hard on him as it has been on me. I feel like I am on two different waits. Waiting to get worse and now in a tail spin. I probably could have handled now is the time better than asap. Aug 14th isn't that far away but yet it feels like a long time. I am just so thankful that I found this site and now I have completed reading Adams book. I know I will be going back to it often. So until later brother.
Getting there
Linda H
Mitch Friedman  We are here for you valve sister! You will do great during all of this. For sure! Take it one step ... Read more
On August 4, 2012...
Thanks Mitch, We all go through bumps in the road, as the healing process has a ton of variables. Happy to know you are doing well.
It is positive and encouraging for all to have your support!
Tracy
Mitch Friedman  Thanks for your kind words Tracy. Good luck to you, wherever you are in the process.
On August 4, 2012...
Amen Brother!

Chuck Holmgreen
AVR 3/20/12
Mitch Friedman  Thanks Mr. Peachtree!
On August 4, 2012...
Mitch,
Great thoughts - as scared as it makes me to know I have to go through this - knowledge is key and it helps.
Thanks,
Vicki D.
Mitch Friedman  You are so right Vicki. As scary as it is, knowledge is power and beats the pants off the unknown!
On August 3, 2012...
Mitch,
Thanks for the encouragement you give everyone.
I am celebrating my 77th birthday and my grands and family are here to celebrate. We live at the Jersey Shore and today I swam in the ocean with my children and grandchildren. What a wonderful experience. I am three years, three months post doc.
I continue at weight watchers, keeping my weight at a confortable level and eating properly, protecting my heart. I swim four days a week at the Y and do water exercises. I am also working with the trainer at the Y, working on the treadmill and other machines to build muscle. So, after recovering from surgery, it is just the beginning of a new life, and you must protect that special gift. There is Life after Surgery, Go get it.!!!.
Sylvia Woolworth
Mitch Friedman  You are such an inspiration Sylvia!!! Thanks for being you and for all of your support. Be well.
On August 3, 2012...
I can't believe it's been 6 months already. You are an amazing spirit. You are, and continue to be such a positive influence on those around you. Love ya, Debbie
Mitch Friedman  You are the best. I will never forget my 5AM wake up on my day of surgery. I still get tears when I ... Read more
On August 3, 2012...
Great post my man!
Jeff
Mitch Friedman  Thanks brother!
On August 3, 2012...
Hi Mitch!

Adam should put your post on the main page of this site . . . I could not have said it better. Although I was lucky enough not to have any major problems after my surgery, this site and all my fellow HVJers helped me over all the little bumps in the road that we all encounter.

Glad to hear you're doing so well after 6 months. You'll be amazed that you'll feel even better on your one year anniversary. I'm 2+ years out and I haven't felt so good in more than 10 years (didn't realize all the symptoms I had until they were gone!)

Enjoy life!
Ricki Shine
Mitch Friedman  Thanks Ricki! I so appreciate how you still visit the site and post comments. That is so great and ... Read more
On August 3, 2012...
Great post!

This site also helped me a great deal during the days where I started to have some doubts. I am now two months post surgery and feel absolutely wonderful.

Jerry Vernhout
Mitch Friedman  Keep up the good recovery work Jerry. It keeps getting better. Thanks for posting.
On August 3, 2012...
Mitch
I could not agree with you more.
I have tried to reach out to some peole on the HVJ and have not gotten any response.
I celebrate one year on Thursday August 9 th.
I am so humbled to be around to say that. I know of two peole who , not from HVJ, had the same surgery as I did...one died in surgery and one cant stay out of the hospital...we are blessed to have made it so far IN THE EARLY STAGES OF OUR RECOVERY...this is a life long process...
All would be perfect with me if I could get a better job and lose some weight.....but I have THE OPPORTUNITY TO GET IT DONE !!!!
Our committment to HVJ should be a lifelong one as well.
YOU SOUND FANTASTIC !!!!!!!
JOHN MADONNA
LAS VEGAS NV
Mitch Friedman  Wow, 1 year! Amazing John. You are correct it is humbling to know we are fixed and doing well.

E ... Read more
On August 3, 2012...
Well said Brother!! Congrats on 6 months. I am not far behind you!!

LIFE IS GOOD. IT's HARD but I AM THANKFUL for EVERY SECOND OF IT!!

Jimmy Johnson
Mitch Friedman  You da man!!!!! Seems like yesterday you were a newbie and I was the sage voice of wisdom. Look at ... Read more
On July 26, 2012...
Hi Mitch,

Great report! It is good to see that you are doing so well.

I used to run a lot in my younger years, 6 to 7 miles was my maximum range. I stopped running after I broke my back and leg in an accident, surgery fixed them, scars coming and going now thanks to the heart surgery, but my core muscles were not strong enough and I never really made the effort to run again.

Now that I am exercising better after my heart surgery, I have started running again for short distances on and off the treadmill. It feels good to do it again.

Don't think I will get to your pace though.

Keep up the good progress and the reports so others can see that there is life after heart surgery.

John Lund
Mitch Friedman  Wow John, great to hear you are back to running after all you have been through. Truly a testament t ... Read more
On July 25, 2012...
Reallllly weird. I dont go on for months & when i do i see YOU. Have just posted ! Karma or what ? 7 miles ? Man you go guy. Love it. We are finally on our alaska cruise. Just set sail today. So far - omg.! Great. Coukd neber have done it without new valve. Love my new valve !

Hope you see you soon. Stsy well cuz.

Hugs. Nancy
Mitch Friedman  Hey cuz. Hope the cruise was great! You sure deserve it. Be well.
On July 23, 2012...
Yay Mitch,

I have surgery on Aug 13. I used to run a lot before I was diagnosed, but now I'm not sure how it will be after surgery. I'm resigned to be a walker - which is OK since I don't run fast anyways!!! Your posts give me hope that I can run again!!!

Warm Regards,

Lee Castro
Mitch Friedman  Thanks for signing my guestbook Lee. Whatever the future brings, I think you will be amazed at how g ... Read more
On July 23, 2012...
Wow...fantastic!! Remember when you were stuck in the lazy boy wondering if you would ever feel good again?!! Look at you now....better than ever!! Glad you posted, so important for newbies to see the other side and for oldies like me to continue to be inspired. Sending love and cheers your way. Janis Kielbasa
Mitch Friedman  So true about the lazy boy. Those were tough days, but we did it!!!! So happy we did and are both on ... Read more
On July 23, 2012...
Way to go Brother!!..We will have to start calling you Steve Austin - as you are the true Six Million Dollar Man!! You Rock!!

Jimmy Johnson
Mitch Friedman  Thanks Brother! You rock too. I am sure if you add up all the mileage from your runs and all the ru ... Read more
On July 22, 2012...
Hey you Bionitc man, lol. Wow are you going to try out for the olymics. My goal is when I walk with my friend later, I want her to tell me to wait up for her. She is a fast walker and I am of course saying wait for me. So that will be my goal.lol
Getting there
Linda H
Mitch Friedman  Thanks Linda. Love the goal! I know you are really close and days can be tough. But I also know yo ... Read more
On July 22, 2012...
Monstrous!

Did you really have heart surgery?

-- DVB
Mitch Friedman  Aw shucks....thanks DVB!
On July 22, 2012...
Mitch,
Seven miles! That's fantastic. You've succeeded in building up a very nice base. Keep up the great work
- Jim Smith
Mitch Friedman  Well, very nice base for you...max for me. OR pretty close to it. Thanks for the support Jim. Hope ... Read more
On July 21, 2012...
You Da Man! Wanna come try and run with me in the Florida heat in July? Then you'll see a slow pace. Needless to say, I haven't been running much. But then again, I never did before either, it's just not my thing. That being said, I do make myself go (early morning of course) and keeping my heart rate low to mid 150's. I can easily get into the 160's but I just watch my pace and slow up a bit if that happens. Thanks for the data points.
Jeff S.
Mitch Friedman  Smart to track your HR and slow up. Anything you/we accopmplish is great. As long as we are out the ... Read more
On July 21, 2012...
Mitch,

Great to hear how well you are doing. I may have run a 10k first, however you are significantly faster than me. I think my average was about 14:30, of course, I walked about 40% of it!!

Way to go man!! Pretty soon you'll be doing marathons!!!

Chuck Holmgreen.
Mitch Friedman  You are still the trend setter! No doubt about that. Did you keep up the running? Hope so. One da ... Read more
On July 16, 2012...
Hey Mitch,
I keep thinking of you and wanting to call you for a chat but the time is never right....like now it's 9 p.m. and seems kinda late. But I do think of you often and how great it was to see your smiling face at the hospital.....and my turtle is my reminder that steady and slow wins the race. Since patience is definitely not my strong suit, my little friend the turtle is a huge help and reminder. Thanks again.
Tomorrow I am 5 weeks out and feeling pretty good but still no real energy. Like I said to Linda D. I don't feel any better than I did pre-surgery......in fact I feel more easily out of breath on slight exertion.. She said it could be from the metoprolol as I take a fairly high dose. My cardiologist thought 100 mg. as prescribed by surgeon was a very high dose and he cut it back to 50 mg. My BP has always been kinda low so I don't know what that's all about. Maybe the beta blocker is more for the heart rate.
I still haven't had an ekg or echo since I left hospital and I have seen both my surgeon and cardiologist for checkups. No one is pushing cardio rehab so I haven't investigated that yet and walking is a bit tricky where I live (hilly, rough terain) so I have to drive to a mall and walk there and I've been quite lax about that. I've been driving since 3 weeks post op. No problem at all with sleeping in a regular bed and going upstairs....also plenty of naps. I think I have to get seriously motivated to exercise more....any ideas? I have a sneaky feeling that 50+ years of smoking hasn't helped my cause one bit......brilliant deduction, huh? I quit smoking this past February so not alot of time to get the ole lungs cleared out.
After reading alot of your journal back to the same time as I am at now, I can see that perhaps I am not being totally realistic about my recovery and not patient enough...lets hope that's the case.
Anyway, all for now, but best of luck in your upcoming race in August (hope it cools off) and your daily recovery routine too. p.s. your daughters are adorable!!!
Blessings,
Joan D.
Mitch Friedman  Hi Joan, great to hear from you. You are doing great! It takes time to recover. Unfortunate, but t ... Read more
On July 8, 2012...
Hi Mitch,

Since we correspond by e-mail and text, not much more write here. Just wanted to write a quick post to publicly acknowledge your great efforts to get back in shape and to acknowledge what a great role model you been for many on this site from day one.

All my best!

Jeff S.
Mitch Friedman  Thanks for your kind words buddy. It is great we are all doing so great!
On July 7, 2012...
Hi Mitch,

It is great to see how well you are doing, you have come a long way in 5 months. You will only get better. I am approaching 10 months and feel much better than I did at 5 months.

I have some of the same feelings and received similar comments. When I was exercising on the 4th, I realized I felt better and was doing better than I had in a long time. Although I was experiencing more shortness of breath before the diagnosis / surgery, and I knew something was not right. Since the surgery, people are commenting on my improved color as well.

As you said, recovering from the surgery is not just physical, but recovery also involves emotional, mental, and I think many other aspects. One of my co-workers told me that they had told our new boss that my attitude had changed since my surgery; not in a bad way, just that it is different.

Best wishes to you as you continue your journey.

John Lund
Mitch Friedman  Good to know month 10 is still better than month 5. You have been very helpful John to those of us t ... Read more
On July 5, 2012...
Keep going on the training Mitch - and get yourself a great t-shirt to wear (see my pics for an example).

I'm certain your time will be significantly better than mine, but I did have a good time at the Peachtree Road Race in Atl yesterday. Problem is that I hurt all over today!

Keep on keeping on -- you're a great example for what we can do post fix!!

Chuck Holmgreen.
Mitch Friedman  Your an animal! 106 days post op and you do a 10K. It is not about the time, it is about the distan ... Read more
On July 5, 2012...
Mitch, That is really amazing! You seriously need to run with your shirt off for all to see that scar. If an open heart patient can train and run a marathon so can the guy on the couch. Impressive and an inspiration!! Just think some months ago we were sitting in recliners healing, hurting and wondering what was our future going to be like. Bam!! You got up and rocked the recovery. Love it. Janis Kielbasa
Mitch Friedman  Thanks Janis. Love the idea of running shirtless. Maybe I put pink neon arrows pointing to my scar ... Read more
On July 4, 2012...
Sorry....
Last posting I neglected to include my full-name -

Thanks Mitch!
Steven Kantor
AVR/Fixed - 5/14/2012
On July 4, 2012...
Mitch -
Great update, as usual, from you! Keep up the great work.
I'm curious if you're doing much work with weights? My surgeon wants me to wait 3 months before doing push ups or similar exercises involving my chest. I am permitted to do curls but with light weights up to 25lbs.

As you know, you've made a tremendously positive impact on my recovery, valve selection and now on my exercise planning.

I will try to call you later in the week to catch up. Thanks
Steve
Mitch Friedman  Hi Steve, I love that you are already worrying about when to do weights! I was told no restriction o ... Read more
Mitch Friedman  Steve, I just checked my posts and see I started rehab at 8 weeks. So, I guess that means I started ... Read more
On July 4, 2012...
Mitch, This is fantastic. Running with a group really helps, for motivation, for discipline, and for just plain fun. It's also useful to have a specific goal to aim for, which you do. Keep it up, friend.
- Jim Smith
Mitch Friedman  I agree Jim. The group has been fantastic. A few of us even meet on our own and run together. I am ... Read more
On July 3, 2012...
Monstrous! -- DVB
Mitch Friedman  Roar!
On July 3, 2012...
What kind of symptoms did you have? I'd like to know. I have the same diagnosis you had.
Thanks,Carol J.
Mitch Friedman  Carol, pre-op I woud have told you I was asymptomatic and did not feel a thing. Looking back now I t ... Read more
On July 3, 2012...
Good to hear from you Mitch. Keep up the good work. For the past few days one of my daughters has been visiting. Today I took her to my Y water exercise class at 6:25 AM till 8:40. Then we did our laps. Did I mention we also swam in the ocean for the past few days. It was just delightful.
So glad we are part of the new technology and we were able to have our hearts repaired.
Sylvia Woolworth
Mitch Friedman  Totally awesome Sylvia. Way to go. Keep it up. Yes, we are very lucky to be fixed. Take care.
On July 3, 2012...
Hey Mitch, good job on the running! I can identify with your comment about not realizing that you had symptoms. I didn't feel that I had any either, but now that my heart is "fixed", I realize how short of breath I was after climbing the stairs or walking across the parking lot! It's great to feel this good, isn't it? Keep up the great work and keep on encouraging the rest of us!!!
Holly P
Mitch Friedman  Yes Holly it sure feels great. I know I still have more recovery left, even though I feel great. Th ... Read more
On July 3, 2012...
You are amazing, my friend. It has been a
privilege to follow your tremendous progress. I am so proud of you and your determination. Keep it up. There are many more sunshiny days ahead! :) Love ya, Debbie
Mitch Friedman  Yes, lots of bright bright bright sunshiny days ahead. For us all!!!!!
On July 3, 2012...
Thanks Mitch for another inspirational update. All your shared insights helped me get through my AVR, about 3 weeks ago now. This is definitely a journey, and I am thrilled at your progress!
Tracy
Mitch Friedman  Tracy, so many people on this site helped me. Knowing I was a help to you is humbling and pleasing. ... Read more
On July 3, 2012...
So wonderful to hear Mitch. I was asymptomatic too. But just like you hope to be better then pre surgery. Even if it's because I value my health more now that I know that everyone doesn't have theirs.

Best of luck with your running.

Nancy B
Mitch Friedman  Yes, this gives you an altered perspective. Good luck with your recovery.
On July 3, 2012...
Hi Mitch..
10K?? NO WAY...and you did have OHS right?? So amazing.....from where I sit today (2weeks from surgery date)....just seems like a "fairy tale".....but I know from other journals...what you say is true!
Congrats on your great health & new life....you put this 2nd chance to great use... Continue to live it to the fullest!!
Very encouraging Mitch....so very encouraging! :)
Thanks for sharing!
Connie T
Mitch Friedman  Getting close Connie. It is surreal, but I hope you experience what many of us did. This is no cake ... Read more
On June 17, 2012...
Stronger. Running group. Too cool. What's your physical routine these days? -- DVB
Mitch Friedman  I am training for a 10k in August. That is focus of my running group/course. 3 runs a week: 1 tempo ... Read more
On June 16, 2012...
Hey Mitch, So glad you found Joan. I did find her on what you had put in. She had no journal or story but guest book is still there, how weird. I wished her well. So thanks for finding out and seeing her.
You take care.
For the long haul
Linda H
Mitch Friedman  It was really nice to see Joan. Thanks for touching base Linda. Be well and take care.
On June 12, 2012...
Awesome!! So happy to read how well you are doing. Time marches on and so did you!! We all have come so far and doing so well. Sometimes, I stop and have to say...Holy crap, they stopped my heart, fixed it and I'm okay. Crazy good. Stay well, dear friend. Janis Kielbasa
Mitch Friedman  Thanks Janis. I so agree with you how mind boggling all of this is when you stop and think about it. ... Read more
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