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Hi Paula, I to had the same problem, but mine was in the hospital. After I got out of ICU they drained 2 litres out of my lungs. He did tell me it was very common. I was ok after that. Glad you are doing good. Life is good and God is even better than life. Take care

Your story sounds just like mine. I to read Adam's book, so I knew what expect which really helped me. I also developed water around the lungs, which you say us common. Nt surgery was two weeks ago tomorrow. My only problem is getting the Meds adjusted. They gave me a diuretic pill which lowered my bp down way to far. My walking has not been good, the shortest of breathe stopped me from doing a lot, but thus week I am going to kick butt and ,ove on.

Hi, Paula -- Be gentle with yourself, okay? it\'s absolutely normal to have bouts of inexplicable sadness or tears...I\'m 2 months out and just yesterday I felt like weeping. It just happens. We\'ve been through a LOT -- I call it a full body hard reset! It\'ll take time before everything gets back to normal. Just do what you can and listen to your body. Selma Kaplan

Paula, I had a bout of something similar in the hospital. An overwhelming feeling of anxiousness and \"get these ***** tubes out of me and get me out of here\" on about the third day. With the help of better living through science (drugs) and just accepting my situation I finally calmed down and went to sleep. Just letting you know that everyone has their rough patches.. Trent V

Hi Paula- Please try to stay positive. It is normal that we may cry for no reason. You don\'t go through something so traumatic everyday, or sometimes never in your life. It is both physically and mentally exhausting and challenging. My first couple/few weeks found me napping 1-2 times daily and really not doing much of anything except light cooking and dishes. The next couple/few weeks have found me doing more; vacuuming, light gardening and cardiac rehab. At nearly 7 wks out I still do not feel 100% better, but in following up with the docs, controlling my exertion and being patient I am sure it will come. Take care, stay positive. If you need to post thoughts that aren\'t always upbeat that is what this site is here for-venting and support, not just the good feelings. Karen Campo

Paula, please try not to be discouraged. You have been through a BIG surgery. The pain of surgery is not an indicator of just how big it was! Hang in there, each week gets better. I am 4 months out and I still get \"weepy\" some days. This is normal as long as there are positive days thrown in there too, lol. Just remember how fortunate and blessed we are that we could be \"fixed\". I will keep you in my prayers. God bless! Linda Dixon, AVR 3/13/12

Hi Paula - don\'t expect too much out of yourself - this has been a very big deal. Hang in there - I hope you see improvement every day! Take care, Vicki D.

Hey Paula, Just hang in there. With any kind of surgery it is rough getting back. I havent been to this place yet, except a hysterectomy 11 years ago.That was horrible recoverying from that also. You will do fine. Everyday will get better. Just listen to your body and dont over do cause you will pay for that. Just go slow but a little more everyday and then you will be there. One day at a time. Good luck to you. For the long haul Linda H

Hi Paula.. I am not scheduled for surgery until next Tuesday, so I cannot relate just yet to what you are going through with OHS. I do know, however, from previous surgeries that it is very hard to be as weak as a kitten. But this too shall pass. You will find yourself becoming stronger & stronger day by day. From the other posts here it seems like week 3 is a real \"turn the corner kinda week\".....stay strong as you take this hurdle one day at a time. The end result will be well worth a few weeks of being weak & uncomfortable...and feeling totally helpless. Your family loves you.....they want you to be well....to do that requires time and much healing....I will pray God keeps his loving arms around you as you continue your journey to a healthier life.....We are all here for you! Heres to a better day tomorrow, and the day after that.....and the day after that...and so on....and so on! Remember...slow & steady....slow & steady... Keep the Faith! Connie T