I’ve known for a few years that my bicuspic aortic valve and root will need to be replaced andI;ve been very “practical” and “matter of fact” about it. I has a cardiac catherization a couple of weeks ago, and some follow up studies. My right coronary artery has two more blockages (I had two drug eluding stents put in the same artery a few years ago) And, the aoritc valve regurgitation, is significant. I am going for a consult with Dr. Craig Smith at NY Presbyterian (Columbia University medical Center) next week. Well, yesterday, my cardiologist had a conversation with dr. smith, and told him about my history. I asked my cardiologist what Dr. Smiths initial thoughts were. He told me that it looks like I will need the surgery soon. well, now that it really looks like it should happen soon, that “practical” , “matter of fact” confidence I had, is turning to doubt, a little dispair, maybe depression, etc etc. does anyone on your site have any comments as to how to truly prepare for such a big, life changing event. How does someone prepare for it? any advice , reading material, comments from you or other patients? by the way, Jim’s comments were very good to hear.

Gary